The wildest thing about those “straight guys dressing femme just to get chicks” posts are……….. okay. S….so? Like, if women are out here absolutely horny off their rockers for femme guys (which, I mean, probably), like, okay, then do that. Put on a skirt if that’s the new m/f mating call of the decade. Why not? Girls who’re into men deserve a guy who looks hot in a skirt. How is this any different then when guys in unison decided to start wearing skinny jeans or showing off their butts more? Literally what is the harm even if straight guys are just doing it to appeal to women??? They’re allowed to try to appeal to women, that’s who they want to date….
Ok I’ve seen chucklefucks on both this and the other post mentioned and as a Freshly Minted Man here’s something else to add:
To everyone who says “but men trying to attract women is predetory” FUCK OFF with that gender essentialist bullshit! Men wanting to be attractive and desirable (even if its *gasp* hetero) isn’t inherently predetory! Men aren’t inherently predetory.
You realize by saying “men being femenin trick women into thinking they’re safe” is saying women = good, safe, soft, perfect and men = bad scary evil
And thats guess what! Sexist! Straight UP! Because women can be dangerous, predetory, whatever, and Men can want to be attractive and desirable and whatever.
Men aren’t your enemy- toxic gender roles and gender essentialism IS
Can we talk about how goofy it is to go “well I guess men can dress however they want, BUT ONLY if they’re not trying to be attractive or meet people, otherwise it’s SUPER PREDATORY.
The entire history of dude fashion which has def been about looking attractive and appealing to women, but that’s masc and expected so that’s all fine. But if you wear a skirt or dress it’s PREDATORY.”
Just like… Some people really need to examine their biases maybe.
Let’s just get to the root of the issue, people are saying this shit because their is a whole system of oppression based around the idea that “men dress like women to be predators!”
It ain’t suddenly woke because folks are saying it about straight men instead of trans women.






















