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Solid stone kitchen island - shaped elegantly - giving it some “movement” thru asymmetrical design

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Saint-André des Arts is a minimal residence located in Paris, France, designed by Framework. The clean space features simple lines and floating custom built-ins that maximize the smaller space while providing an open and airy interior. The main living area features an open-concept space, with the living, dining, and kitchen combined in a cozy array.

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Have you ever been annoying? Yeah me too! And that’s okay, because we’re human and humans are annoying sometimes.

We have a whole lot of feelings and thoughts, and sometimes they don’t line up quite right with the people around us.

You are not a bad person because you have been annoying. You still deserve love, you still have people who adore you.

Remember that you are just a person, and while you’ve probably been annoying you’ve also made people happy, comfortable, confident, and wanted.

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i wish people would normalize being lost in life and just not knowing anything. not knowing what you’re passionate about, where you want to live, what you want to do, where you want to go— or what lies next. as a society, we normalized going to school, finding a passion, getting a job, finding a partner, getting married, having kids, working hard to earn an honest living. but what about when shit just doesn’t go that way? you really just don’t know. and what’s even worse is, you don’t know why you don’t know or even where to start so you feel alone. you feel as though you’re a disappointment to your family. as if you failed in life. but you haven’t, it’s okay, to not know. to be lost. you have your whole life ahead of you to figure things out. patience is a virtue. there is no time limit on life. you don’t need to rush. don’t allow society to fixate the narrative of having all your shit together at a certain age. it isn’t realistic for most. being lost is so much more normal than we think. and i just wish people would be more transparent about it.

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4 things about other people I think everyone should keep in mind (myself included)

People go home thinking about their embarrassing moments and overthinking their mistakes, not yours – people aren’t as critical of you as you are of yourself

People’s opinions of you aren’t shaped by how weird they think you are or how odd you come across as much as they’re shaped by how kindly (or rudely) you treat them – although you don’t entirely control the way you’re perceived, you have more control than you think

The things people like about you are often things they can relate to, and the things people don’t like about you are often things they cannot relate to or don’t understand – how they see you is a reflection of how they see themselves, and how they treat you is a reflection of their character (not yours)

There are about a million things throughout someone’s day that can affect the way they feel, and the way they feel affects the way they express themselves. If someone’s annoyed, it doesn’t mean you’re annoying. If someone’s being short with you, it doesn’t mean you did something wrong. You aren’t entirely responsible for other peoples feelings, you aren’t always the cause – practice separating your sense of self worth from their feelings, that (emotional) security should come from within yourself and not from factors around you that you don’t have any control over

People are multidimensional and their thoughts and fears and feelings are as intricate as yours. Make peace with the fact that you don’t know everything and that you’re not responsible for how they choose to treat you.

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reasons people might be looking at you in public (that aren’t negative)

they like what you’re wearing.

you look like someone they know.

they recognize a piece of clothing or accessory you’re wearing.

they think you’re beautiful or attractive.

they’re zoned out or bored and people-watching.

they recognize you from somewhere.

they’re hesitating to ask you something or give you a compliment.

they’ve seen you in that same place before.

you caught their eye.

you look like how they imagined a fictional character to look.

you remind them of something.

they’re admiring one of your visual qualities (smile, stance, hairstyle).

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all you people who reblogged with tags saying that you dyed your hair a bright color or started wearing an unusual accessory so you’d be more comfortable with people looking at you (because you’d know what they were looking at): you’re actual heroes!! i’m genuinely impressed by you guys doing that regardless of social anxiety (and even coming up with it?). actually genius and if you’re reading this: i’m proud of you