peripatetic petunia

sea and the rock below ☘︎🐞

[stingbearry]

Mara, 21, they, desi, queer.

Letterboxd | Serializd ☆ Boxboxd | Tennisboxd ☆ Storygraph ☆ Pinterest ☆ Spotify

[lakevida]

the menstrual cup and menstrual scepter

[lakevida]

your majesty what is upppp

[dreamstars]

[oscarcito]

maybe we all died in hungary 2024 and we are all living in purgatory now

[good-fwiend-in-wome]

shoutout to flags that look like landscapes fr gotta be one of my favorite genders

[jonnystrebor]

Not to forget:

[worldheritagepostorganization]

World Heritage Post

[glowcowboy]

as someone who constantly gets stuck in ruminative cycles, figuring out a way to stop the cycle before it gets out of hand has been incredibly formative for me. if you find yourself ruminating or unable to stop the cycling, here’s a place to start.

am i learning, processing, or ruminating? it’s important to be able to distinguish between the three. learning is when you receive new information that updates your frame of understanding. processing is when you study a situation to help yourself understand it. ruminating is when you cycle over the same thought repeatedly, often causing distress. learning and processing are productive, while rumination is destructive.

which theme is this? understanding the root or the spiral has helped me to untangle why the rumination feels so intense and scary. (example: i’ve been ruminating on one specific interaction with someone where i think they might’ve misinterpreted what i meant. this is my theme of fear around being misunderstood.)

how do i respond? (example: okay, this is that theme of being misunderstood. but it is not my job to make myself perfectly understood. the people i have around me can ask clarifying questions if they’re confused, and they are willing to meet me in the middle because they want to understand.)

don’t feed the raccoons tuna. (this is an example from my therapist that i love! essentially, don’t feed the beast or it will keep coming back. distract yourself, journal, listen to music, etc.)

[papawolfchris]

Bang Chan ♡ UNVEIL:TRACK ''After You''

[puppyms]

like sorry its just blatant fetishisation that fans are pretending seungmins shit treatment from the company this year is okay bc they have some delusion in their heads hes a submissive uwu omega male bottom who wants to be degraded <3 like ??????????????????? youre making shit up to defend stuff you would never defend if that was YOUR guy. its objectification pure and simple. like can someone let western fans know this??

[puppyms]

Like I'm not making this shit up ?????

[thirstkanaphan]

"I always wear the ring to special events. You know, the team ring? The ring that Hongjoong bought. The ring chosen for me to wear. Hongjoong's ring."

The members:

[stingbearry]

saw a Tumblr premium banner for the first time in my life b/c Xkit got uninstalled Somehow and um. EWWW!!!!

[stingbearry]

finally dropping the she from my pronouns cause I was correct all the way back in 2021 it does feel more #right

[stingbearry]

Spa pleaseeee give me 168144 please I beggggg

[stingbearry]

genuinely need either my mom to get a fucking psych consult or a gun with one bullet so I can be fucking free one way or another I have been saying that I can't do this anymore for every single day of my life but I'm genuinely at my wits end at this point like I wish I had managed to kill myself when I tried instead of ending up alive and thrice as suicidal but also unable to do anything because if I fail again I just don't know what I can do

[250318]

[stingbearry]

starting a collection Lee Felix words of wisdom:

"when it comes to baking, baking is the most important part" - Rachalog 19

"if we lose, they can win" - skzcode 99

[jansplainer]

Be Novak Djokovic

Get break point (Finally)

Crowd cheers your name (Finally)

Andre Agassi says you're finally getting the respect you deserve, because your entire career you've been subjected to the crowd rooting for Roger and Rafa

Jannik Sinner hits an ace

[stingbearry]

can you fully believe you're cursed but also not fully believe in curses