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@stoprpbullying
I should point out the messages in the previous post were posted with permission.
I had hoped for an acknowledgement of what happened and an apology, but another deleted site buzz is what happened. I don't want to beat a dead horse so I will probably leave it here for now, until they return.
Have a good Thanksgiving. 💚
to each their own online personas, of course. they regularly claimed to be the victim/s of attacks by this group and the former admin gaslighting them, including attacks on them for wanting loads of ships and faces.
Some messages I have received. I apologize for the weird cutting - Tumblr only allows 10 images per post and I wanted to protect the identity of as many people as possible.
#strawberrywinerp looks like it has been deleted. All I wanted was for them to apologize for their behavior and publicly acknowledge the pain and hurt they have caused. Instead, they have gone back to their old trick of playing the victim.
They will be back at some point. Hopefully when they do come back, they will take ownership of their mistakes. That’s all anybody wants and the sooner they acknowledge the hurt caused, the sooner all involved can move on.
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honestly, you need to be careful of what you choose to post (if you are planning to "expose" other sites/admins). often times, disgruntled members will start drama just because they want to. this can be for any reason, like someone who didn't like the rules in place, didn't like the answer they were given by an admin, didn't like disciplinary action that was given). things can quickly become toxic and you will be a fuel to that fire.
Hi! You are totally right. As much as I’m happy to help expose bullies, at present I am only interested in exposing the ones I have personally experienced.
I did not create this blog as a disgruntled member looking for drama. I created it because the two admins I’ve talked about in this blog have a pattern of behavior and gaslit their whole site. Then they pretended it didn’t exist.
I’ve had a few messages that I’m going to share that sheds more light on some things. I’m aware that the site buzz I mentioned has been closed so I don’t want to push any harder than is necessary, but it would be irresponsible not to include them.
just as a heads up, schlager girl also goes by the alias “trekker”
Thank you!
they used to run a london based site called you're my waterloo and their aliases were (iirc) nyxxie and mouse. just in case you needed more
Thank you. I’ve had a couple of messages about this site and some of their previous aliases. Previously they have gone by include Nyx/Mouse, Hemmy/Dov and Hem/Bucky. I haven’t had anything about other sites so far but can/will update if they do.
Hello?
Hi!
The admins of #strawberrywinerp are bullies and gaslighters.
On their last site, they left all of the admin duties to one admin and bullied and treated her horribly. Claims and moderation were left for days at a time unless she got to them. When she eventually and rightfully quit, a replacement was installed in less than 24 hours. Almost like it was planned.
The two main admins regularly gaslit their members too. Member concerns were brushed off and belittled, to the point where anybody who had concerns sidestepped them and spoke to the one admin who put the work in and listened. Even their goodbye message when the site was made offline blamed their own members for the toxicity that they had fostered by treating members and staff alike like crud.
It appears they’re not above stealing either - the plot for the admin’s Rami Malek x Lucy Boynton ship appears to be similar to a ship on their previous site with the same faces, by other people. It could be a coincidence, but it seems a little too close for comfort. #JusticeForZaneve
I tried to message them about these concerns on their new buzz blog, but it never got responded to. They will claim they never got the message, but it will have been read and deleted - just like their member’s concerns on their last site.
Back in February when the site opened, everybody was really excited. By the time they shut it down, there was a collective sigh of relief amongst their members. As much as they were sad to say goodbye to the characters and ships there, they were glad to be free of this discomfort they caused. Go ahead with caution if you want to associate with them.
Ditto/Mouse and Eevee/Ciri will no doubt call this post bullying, or ask why people never reached out with any concerns. This post is to warn people who may be unfamiliar with them or how they operate to inform them of what they might encounter. People did reach out about their behaviour- to other admins. And they gaslit the whole community for it. This was not a one time thing, 90% of the former members would have a story about being treated unfairly. They had form for it too - some members had been on sites with them before and predicted this would be how it played out.
Again, this it to let people unfamiliar with them know what to expect going forward. Make your own decisions and conclusions about it in the end. But my ask is open - look after yourselves.
Since I quit RP, why not. They’ve always been like this, I’m surprised people are not familiar with this already. They keep changing aliases but ✌️
Hello!
I didn't expect any reaction to this at all so thank you for all the messages! A lot of them have similar themes so I just want to clear a few things up:
- This is not intended as an "anon hate" blog. I haven't insulted anybody or been "hateful" to anybody. I have just stated facts. However, I am sorry if anything I have posted has hurt anybody. My intention was just to alert people of what they might be walking into based on personal experiences and instead I think I have opened up old wounds and past traumas for some. I'm sorry.
- With that said, I wish to keep my indentity private. Everybody who was on DSN knows the site had it's different and distinct groups and I don't want my words to be skewed based on who I am or who I RPed with. If this delegitimizes what is on this blog for you, then that is up to you.
- The banned newbie in question was not Schlager Girl. I have seen her on sites before but did not know she was racist so thank you for alerting me to this.
- I am happy to expose other RP sites/admins who are bullies, however I am only one person and cannot dedicate all of my time to it. My ask is always open and I will turn on submisslions. Same goes for any DSN/their admin team issues.
- Like I said, I wasn't expecting any responses to this and it is Thanksgiving week so please don't hold it against me if I can't reply to messages quickly. I just wanna hang out with my mom and my dog.
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Hello!
This is a queued post set to go out at 1030am EST. If you’re seeing this, #strawberrywinerp hasn’t responded to any requests to take responsibility for their toxic behavior. Yesterday’s post was just the tip of the iceberg. Shall we keep going?
- Leaving all of their admin duties to one admin, bullying them and treating them badly, as if they weren’t the ones running the site for them - Not responding to valid concerns from members, and when they *did* respond, quickly stopped replying in DMs. - Ships based on pedophile directors and their films (The FIfth Element is and always will be a Luc Besson film, it will always be weird to base your ship off him and his real-life relationships with an actress). - Passive-aggressive Discord statuses denying it all when said pedophile director ships are mentioned to other staff members. Y’all know that shit’s public right? - Refusal to engage in productive discussion with their member base with large changes to the site, and then accusing their members of bullying when they point out they can’t adjust in the time they want - Face hoarding and not being able to meet their own activity requirements. On an absence and want to make a new character? No problem! Do like they did and delete the absence while making the character and put it back up once their done! - Banning some newbies without discussion or warning - Trapping members in plots and ships only to never engage with them, even when they communicate they want out
Their talk of “fostering a welcoming, inclusive and lgbtqia+ and neurodivergent-friendly site” sounds great, but Don’t Start Now’s rude and gaslighting goodbye message from the admin team did not sit well with the victims of their behavior.
An apology to those they have wronged and actively trying to be better going forward would be more productive than throwing up a site buzz, deleting it as soon as they get caught and pretending that Don’t Start Now never happened.
It did.
The admins of #strawberrywinerp are bullies and gaslighters.
On their last site, they left all of the admin duties to one admin and bullied and treated her horribly. Claims and moderation were left for days at a time unless she got to them. When she eventually and rightfully quit, a replacement was installed in less than 24 hours. Almost like it was planned.
The two main admins regularly gaslit their members too. Member concerns were brushed off and belittled, to the point where anybody who had concerns sidestepped them and spoke to the one admin who put the work in and listened. Even their goodbye message when the site was made offline blamed their own members for the toxicity that they had fostered by treating members and staff alike like crud.
It appears they're not above stealing either - the plot for the admin's Rami Malek x Lucy Boynton ship appears to be similar to a ship on their previous site with the same faces, by other people. It could be a coincidence, but it seems a little too close for comfort. #JusticeForZaneve This has been discussed with the other player involved. I would like to apologize for any stress this has caused and did not mean any harm when bringing this issue up.
I tried to message them about these concerns on their new buzz blog, but it never got responded to. They will claim they never got the message, but it will have been read and deleted - just like their member's concerns on their last site.
Back in February when the site opened, everybody was really excited. By the time they shut it down, there was a collective sigh of relief amongst their members. As much as they were sad to say goodbye to the characters and ships there, they were glad to be free of this discomfort they caused. Go ahead with caution if you want to associate with them.
Ditto/Mouse and Eevee/Ciri will no doubt call this post bullying, or ask why people never reached out with any concerns. This post is to warn people who may be unfamiliar with them or how they operate to inform them of what they might encounter. People did reach out about their behaviour- to other admins. And they gaslit the whole community for it. This was not a one time thing, 90% of the former members would have a story about being treated unfairly. They had form for it too - some members had been on sites with them before and predicted this would be how it played out.
Again, this it to let people unfamiliar with them know what to expect going forward. Make your own decisions and conclusions about it in the end. But my ask is open - look after yourselves.
