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Protecting Jafar from magi fandom, shippers, and other things. I'm Melody, 18, survivor of abuse, depressed and other. I fight against gross, abusive, toxic, pedophilia ships and shippers. Don't follow if you can't take ship hate or criticism

[stopthisshitplease-blog]

On this blog we don’t sexualize minors

[stopthisshitplease-blog]

How many unhealthy ships do you ship? Because the people who shout the loudest about moral purity (like Conservatives) have something to hide.

lol weak defense, try again anon :)

[stopthisshitplease-blog]

You either die a hero...or live long enough to see yourself become the villain! - case for n point..."YOU" who won't allow shippers their peace!

look fam im literally trying to tell you people how romanticizing abuse, incest and pedophila is wrong and how it can affect people but if all you care about is your precious ship, thats your problem

[enjinsjinki]

I thought this topic was dead for me too

But I saw a post that was in the anti yaoi tag and it made me mad.

I don’t care for Yaoi, that much is evident. I like some couples. But if someone doesn’t like Yaoi that does not mean they’re homophobic, it just means they don’t like it.

Yaoi is not the same as an actual gay couple. Yaoi only exists to please a certain criteria of people. And some people may not like it.

I don’t see why having a different opinion on a fucking art form is considered “Homophobic”

Get over it. Get over yourself.

[fetishpolice]

something the ddlg community seems to fail to acknowledge is that sexual arousal and orgasms are powerful conditioning tools. if you and your daddy sexualize childlike behavior, children’s innocence and helplessness, childlike speech/baby talk, children’s objects and toys, children’s clothing, etc etc these things will become sexual to you, anyone who’s taken the most basic psychology course can tell you this. your brains will literally begin to associate them on their own with sexual arousal and your “daddy’s” brain and dick will respond accordingly. he might absolutely get turned on seeing a child behaving and dressing and talking the very same way his “little” does simply because he’s used to all of these things being involved when he gets off.

he might not have started out as a pedophile and the two of you may be “consenting adults”, but use your critical thinking for a moment and realize that normalizing this pedophilic dynamic will make you both desensitized to it. the same way continuous exposure to violent porn creates a link between violence and sexual arousal for those consuming it, being turned on and getting orgasms while roleplaying pedophilia will cause a link to form between sexual arousal and childlike. your kink harms children, bye

[sjwyerin]

i forget where I heard this from, but it’s like this: you’re conditioning yourself to react to specific things in a sexual way

think of it like a bell rings whenever a dog is about to get fed. soon the dog begins salivating and getting excited every time it hears a bell ring bc it associates that sound with getting fed.

by partaking in the ddlg kink, you’re associating sexual things with specific childlike behaviour, and soon enough every time you see these things you’re gonna react in the same way bc of the sexual connotations you’re associating that behaviour with

[quietanti]

I found it!! It’s called ‘classical conditioning’ or ‘Pavlovian conditioning,’ and the experiment you’re referring to is often called ‘Pavlov’s dog!’

[awaitingthematriarchy-blog]

There was a very interesting study done by Rachman in 1966 where he showed that the same principles demonstrated in Pavlovian Conditioning can lead men to ‘train’ themselves into developing new fetishes. He showed a test group of heterosexual men pictures of sexualised women together with pictures of boots. After repeated exposure, the men eventually demonstrated a sexual response to the pictures of the boots in isolation, and, on further study, were shown to extend their sexual responses to other kinds of women’s footwear that had not been pictured - in short, they ‘learned’ to have a shoe fetish. If we replace the boot of Rachman’s study with the paraphernalia associated with the DDLG community (diapers, stuffies, pacifiers etc) then the danger posed to children becomes pretty obvious.

(Source: https://books.google.co.uk/books?id=6mD1BwAAQBAJ&pg=PA786&lpg=PA786&dq=rachman+1966+study+boot&source=bl&ots=ZCzA-ga7Vk&sig=ZLg4On-pAuuMU4w_RxFeI9JXyLc&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwis0Pn947DRAhUGzWMKHctLDzcQ6AEILjAF#v=onepage&q=rachman%201966%20study%20boot&f=false)

[radhexx]

I read a comment on Reddit months ago from a guy who got a boner every time he saw a woman put her hair in a ponytail because his girlfriend always put her hair up before giving him a blowjob.

If something as benign as a woman tying back her hair can be that intensely sexualized, why would y'all think that ddlg is somehow immune to the same conditioning? Your kink doesn’t live in a vacuum.

[yourshipsaregross-blog]

Repeat after me.

The safety and well-being of minors is more important than the sick, twisted fantasies of adults when it comes to cartoon fandoms.

Minors deserve to be safe and adult fans have a responsibility to make sure that they are.

[dying-human]

[apersnicketylemon]

The real irony of the people who make jokes about being triggered is that they tend to idolize the military/veterans as if combat related PTSD isn’t a real thing that also has triggers. Y’all make fun of the people you call hero’s when you’re making fun of the teenagers with PTSD from non-combat related issues, you can’t separate the two.

[anti-feminism-pro-cats]

Most of the people making fun of triggers are making fun of all the bullshit “”“triggers”“”, as in the people calling a mild uncomfortable feelings triggers.

[apersnicketylemon]

The problem with making fun of a trigger is you genuinely do not know whether they are ‘mildly uncomfortable’ or if that is a thing that is genuinely causing severe anxiety, depressive episodes, or stress responses. Most of the “““““bullshit”““““ triggers I’ve seen being made fun of are actual trauma survivors who have their trauma associated with something unusual or strange. Because the thing that triggers their PTSD or panic is odd, people, not unlike yourself, are writing them off as “whiny babies” or “triggered sjws” or call their trigger bullshit because they cannot understand the association.

For examples: Sirens are one of my triggers. When I hear sirens I get an immediate panic response. This was due to being in an active war zone as a child (The response is significantly worse if it is an air raid siren or sounds too similar to an air raid siren.). If you didn’t know I was in an active war zone though, it might seem silly to see an adult panic and attempt to get to a safe place because an ambulance, fire truck, or police car went past them.

I have a manager who is triggered by the presence of police. Specifically police, other uniforms are fine (i.e. security in the mall does not set off her panic response). Her trigger is severe, if a police officer talks to her, she starts panicking and sobbing and cannot control it. This is because when she was young, two police officers threatened her repeatedly and psychologically abused her for 6 hours while they tried to find out where her brother was (yes, this was illegal. Her parents were not home at the time, and were unaware she was alone as the brother in question was meant to be watching her). If you didn’t know that story though, it might seem silly to see an adult woman burst into tears and have a panic attack because a cop said ‘hi’ to her.

I have seen posts by an abuse survivor talking about how the sound of a garage door triggered them, due to abuse by a parent. They associated that sound with the abuser returning home and the abuse beginning. The sound became a trigger because their mind associated it to that. I saw another post by a rape survivor talking about how she was triggered by the sight of eggs because she made eggs for her rapist after he’d raped her. Her mind associated eggs with the trauma due to the two being connected at least in her mind.

Brains are weird. Trauma doesn’t make sense. The point is, YOU do not know if someone is ““““bullshitting”“““ or not. You do not know how someones trauma associated itself with something odd, which is something trauma really does all the time and making fun of trauma survivors because you don’t understand the association between their trauma and the item that triggers their ptsd or anxiety is absolutely wrong and absolutely hypocritical if you think any other form of trigger is acceptable or okay. You don’t get to decide other peoples trauma triggers. They didn’t even get to decide them, and to tell someone that you’re okay to make fun of them because what upsets them doesn’t make sense to you is absolutely not okay.

I should note too: Phobia’s are real triggers too. People have panic attacks when exposed to their phobia’s in the wrong way. I need certain pictures tagged because I am absolutely terrified of heights, which is a pretty common phobia. People can have serious phobia’s to everything and anything though, and there are things I am not afraid of that others are that may seem strange to me, but to them are very real and very frightening. Just because it seems odd to you, doesn’t mean it isn’t still real to the person experiencing it.

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

This post needs a zillion more notes. As a Complex PTSD sufferer I truly hope that people will someday stop policing others’ triggers and health problems as if they have a single clue. 

Just BACK OFF and let people LIVE.

[alias-milamber]

Signalboosting.

The article about the eggs is up on medium here, and (somewhat obviously, but still) contains mention and some specifics of a sexual assault.

[stopthisshitplease-blog]

Teenagers and young adults: can you please not write/draw children doing sexual things? Even if it is fictional, it is still child pornography and therefore innapropriate, pedophilic and wrong :)

Rabid 20-something year old in fandom: what kind of sjw bullshit blah blah artistic expression >:(

[silverhawk]

post on this site: losing a friendship over a ship is so dumb looolll like its!! a fictional ship!!! thats not enough to stop being friends w/ someone over just bc they dont ship what u do!!!

me: tru ppl take fandom stuff way too serio-

ops tags: #ereri #fontcest #pinecest #wincest #rivamika #eremika #reylo #rickmorty #godd this stuff is so stupid!! #u guys take fiction wayy too seriously i lost a friend group 2 this!! #dark thoughts.txt

me:

[romansilver-deactivated20200514]

anyway if you have a daddy kink you’re gross and if you compare having a daddy kink to being lgbtq+ you’re grosser

[stopthisshitplease-blog]

!!!!

everytime a sin.ja shippers refers j.afar as ‘wife’ i loose two years of my life

stop.reducing.him.to.that shit. its not fucking cute and is pure fetish

[stopthisshitplease-blog]

Can't one fandom be safe from any of the characters being called daddy or having these stupid yaoi moments that aren't actually there? I am on this app reading comments, and a lot of the comments were like daddy or papa to these two characters I like. Not to mention they call one of my favorite female charaters ugly. Can we have one fandom that's safe from that sh*t?

that’s some terrible crap. female characters shouldn’t get hate from yaoi fans, they don’t deserve that.

yaoi is terrible tbh, it’s nothing but fetish to these shippers. unfortunately, some people just don’t care about who they make uncomfortable in fandoms which is a shame since minors do happen to be apart of them

[memelovingbot]

someone: yaoi me, an intellectual: garbage

[girl-with-an-armada-deactivated]

When someone says my OTP isn't real:

[anti-yaoigirls]

Imagine having so little problems that this is a legit concern for you

[rygdea-deactivated20210530]

full offense but if you’re going like “he’s a top” or “he’s a bottom” in an unironic fashion then you’re fetishizing gay relationships. Period. If you call yourself a fujoshi or yaoi fan (again unironically, and/or not jokingly) then you also fetishize gay relationships. Period. 

[pomel00]

^^^^^^^^ If you act like you can tell what someone does in the bedroom based on how they are in public your literally a stereotyping fetishizing piece of shit

[pinkmoonbeams-deactivated202006]

Yuri On Ice: A good, well animated sports anime that has put effort into getting the animation correct for the sport. Also makes references to real life figure skaters, and doesn’t try too hard to be too intense like other sports animes. Includes an implied homosexual relationship that is healthy and not demonized or treated like a big deal within the show. 

Fujoshis: WOW WHaT a gAy ANime!!!11!! MY HOMO SMALL BEANS!!!1111 I WANT THEM TO DO THE SEX ON ICE!!11 YAoIz on ICE AM I RIGHT???/ WHAT;S figuRE SKATIMG? WOW THEY’RE SO GAY!!.11 SMOLS11111!!! XD