straydoll

𝐬𝐚𝐟𝐞 𝐳𝐨𝐧𝐞

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local self care blog, irl doll and your virtual sister｡⁠.ﾟ๑ ~

Intp | she/they | adult | sapphic

Early 2022 blogger~

My dm's are always open for your questions, post requests or concerns! Just be polite and mindful of your behavior please 🍥

-straydoll

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big sister advice pt²

You must change your pads every 4 hours at least, this avoids the accumulation of bacteria and diseases

Charcoal pills help poisoned dogs to detox the bad stuff away

Never and ever wash your lace clothes in the washing machine please! I learned it in the hard way (ruined my favorite corset 😭)

Spray deodorant is really bad for you skin, these sprays dry out and clogs the area, prefer to use roll-on or cream deodorants that focus on moisture

Never put out a pan on fire by throwing water! This will make it explode, throw a damp cloth over it and put out the flame, if you spilled boiling water or oil on your skin immediately go to the sink and rinse under running water for a few minutes before doing anything else

Mix your perfume in a moisturizer of the same fragrance (similar) or unscented and apply it to your body, this will enhance the fragrance and last longer on your skin

Magnesium pills are the holy grail for us anemic girlies, it boost our energy, help with fainting and migraines

Research more about connectives before writing an essay, learning to use new forms of connectives will diversify and increase the level of writing essays

Bathing in very hot water destroys your skin and hair by drying out and weakening it over time, wondering why your skin might be flakey? must be the boiling water you shower with lol

That's it for the day and i hope i was of some help, luv y'all 🪽

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Quotes for this month 🍵

And remember, your self respect gotta be stronger than your feelings🌷

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My selfcare sunday/maintenance day routine

Eating clean as possible, thats a detox and light day

Wash and do a full haircare routine(pre-poo, shampoo twice, treatment, conditioner, leave-in, heat protection, style and oil)

Soft exfoliate, wash, mosturize and layer serums for face skincare

Only loose and light clothes on that day

fix and moisturize nail beds

Clean the bedroom if possible

Change bedsheets and pillow cases

Do a quick stretch session+meditation to relax and prepare for one more week

Drink herbal teas to calm down and sleep earlier

Read a book or sketch something before going to bed

pray or meditate thanking for another week and the beauty you've been blessed with

That's it for the day, being a hottie is a lifestyle and taking care of yourself is the prerequisite for this, luv ya🍵

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Body language that hot people use and know

Consider searching about "the halo effect"

If a person is telling you a story and looks to the right they're telling the truth and trying to remember the story, but if they look to the left they're lying(creating that story), this could be up to debate but it's a "common" known fact atp

Mirroring the person you like is an unconscious thing that happens to us when we like or get comfortable with someone, so try to do it consciously towards the person you are interested in

Keeping your chin up and having a straight posture can be perceived as confidence, you can always try

Tell a joke or just show a funny thing in a group of people, then look who everyone looks at when laughing, usually people look at who they like or who are more intimate

That's it for the day, If you have any ideas or what topic you want tips just ask, luv ya🍥

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Avoiding energy draining people/stuff

People who ask for favors too often and you always grant them, they'll will get used to it and soon if you don't want to do it they'll will make you feel guilty and make it an obligation

Don't even think about staying up all night, it will just lead you into that vicious cycle where you have no energy and you know it

People who 80% of the time only complain never will be satisfied, don't even try to please them

If a person makes you cry or feel bad it's not your fault, trust me, they're the bad ones

Boundaries. Put limits on people around you and even if it makes you seem selfish, do it. You are your highest priority and the center of your life, that's the most effective self defense mechanism, prioritizing your limits

Delete those photos now! It's just a bad memory at this point, you know what i'm talking about

The "idgf" mentality will save you from a lot of energy draining situations, but be careful with this because that does not give you the right to be rude, this mentality only works in certain occasions and should not be a constant thing

Be aware that changing and prioritizing yourself will drive many people out of your life and even if it is painful in the future it will be a relief

Take that bath, don't leave it for later (this is not about baths)

"If one doesn't want to, two won't fight" Nobody will argue alone

That's it for the day, Avoiding these people and things takes time but with patience everything gets better.Stay safe, luv ya🌷

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Elegance/how feel like a princess tips

Smell good!!!! Good hygiene plays a big role in all aspects of how people perceive you

Accept compliments!! Don't deny the compliment or start lowering yourself to appear humble, it just makes you look unloved and lacking in self-esteem

Write in cursive, in some countries this is already customary, but for those who don't usually do it, it would be good to start

Support other girls! Compliment, take care if you see that they are having difficulty with something, lend items, be nice to girls you don't know

You know those women who aren't even the prettiest but their vibe is chic? This is because of the way they behave and dress, so invest more in the way you present yourself to others

Saying it here again, be extra, always be the tidiest in the room, until it becomes your personality trait.

Invest in learning more languages!

Be kind even to people you don't like, it makes people's image of you change

Say thank you and please, it's not that hard ok?

Being a mean girl will not make you hot, I promise you that, kind girls are always the best ones to be around

Forget about that drama, play when they make fun of you, laugh and make them realize that you don't actually care, they'll eventually forget and find another thing to go bother

That's it for the day, always remember that beauty has an expiration date, elegance is eternal, luv ya💐

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Monthly reminder 🌷

And also here to say that my dm's are always open for asks and new girlblogger moots🪽

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Personal productivity/self love tips

Fuck the clean girl influencers that just post their perfect life, choose to be inspired by influencers who show their difficulties and help you how to really improve

Don't put extreme goals for yourself to achieve, that girl aesthetic that does everything everyday seems perfect 24/7 and never fails is impossible and unrealistic, you are human. you can let yourself slack sometimes, you can leave that task for another day, your mental energy is more important

Don't waste another morning watching other people's lives instead of getting up and doing something more useful or engaging with your silly hobbies

The first thing you will do when waking up its drink a glass of water, it takes oxygen to the brain and makes you wake up better

Focus in one goal, wanting to achieve several goals at once will make you procrastinate more and not achieve anything, and you'll end up entering that circle of self depreciation again so yeah, one thing at time

Set a timer for your apps, it makes your be more aware of how much time you're spending on each app

Make a list of gifts to give yourself when you achieve a goal, it gives you motivation to achieve it faster

If you can't improve for yourself, at least improve to be a healthier person and present in the lives of the people you care about

If u can sleep 8+ hours, do it, put your phone down and sleep. If not then don't, but if I catch your ass doing nothing instead of sleep I will get you😠

Apples! They'll boost your energy and immunity so much

Self care isn't selfishness.

Uninstall any app that makes you compare yourself or be like "I wish I was that way"

Don't hear people that shame you and call you a "pick me", they're just unhappy and boring, you have to show who you really are, love the things you love and keep being like that, don't change because someone thinks you're being "embarrassing". Be silly, be fashion, be satisfied with yourself

That's it for the day, don't be hard to yourselves, luv ya💐

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Personal makeup and skin tips

Double layers make your makeup last longer and be more pigmented!! First liquid/cream products then dry powder products(blush, contour, highlighter)

USE SUNSCREEN "but Straydoll, my skin gets so oily when i use sunscreen" Better have oily skin than skin cancer. And people with oily skin have way less wrinkles in the future sooo win win I guess

Water based products only work well with products also based on water, same thing with silicone/oils based products, do not mix different based makeup! it will separate and peel

I know that a lot of you love lip tints but hear me out, they dry your lips mad easily lip oils/ lip gel >>>lip tint

Bake only in oily zones, the other parts you lightly press the powder

That thing where you have to rub the cleanser for 60 seconds is bullshit, if the packaging doesn't have any information related to cleaning time, just rub it until you create foam and rinse, but always double cleanse if possible

If u want a shiny eye makeup, the glitter/highlighter go in the mid of the eyelid to the eye corner, if you apply it to the end of the eyelid will probably just look out of place

Deep exfoliate only 2 times a week, over exfoliating sensitizes the skin and makes every human skin breakout and be irritated

Retinol is made to use during night, and if used during the day apply even more sunscreen, and for the love of whatever you believe in DON'T APPLY RETINOL THE WAY YOU DO WITH OTHER SERUMS. retinol is dangerous if you don't use the right amount

When contouring the mouth, apply an eyeshadow on top to seal in the color and make it last longer, same with eyeliner

Body moisturizer is made for the body and only the body!!!! Please don't use that musty body lotion on your pretty face😓

Saying that here again, avoid using pell off masks(the black and extra tight to skin ones) THIS FUCKS THE SKIN BARRIER and barely even work because the dark spots will appear again so yeah🤷‍♀️

Hydration is the greatest ally for makeup to not get cakey

Vitamin c does not get along with retinoids!

Never and ever sleep with makeup, it clogs your pores and makes ur skin extra bad, I'm watching your lazy ass going to sleep with your makeup on...

Thats it for the day, i use makeup for a rlly long time and i search a lot about this stuff so this are skin and makeup tips that works for me, i luv ya bbys💋

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Big sister advices

Install an app to monitor your menstrual cycle, you will never be taken by surprise again, unless you're a weird cycle girl tho

Don't save that nice outfit for a special occasion, it will never come and you will have missed the chance to be hot in that outfit because you thought it was too much, be extra!!! like yeah go girl use that cute outfit to go walk and nothing!!

Stretch every single day, I swear it improves everything, posture, mood, health, it's just perfect

This one is for the younger ones, stop lying to your friends now to look cool because in the future you will have a lying problem and it's damn hard getting rid of it

Avoid using peel off masks, they fuck up your skin's protective barrier and will only make you have more blackheads

If you have a friend who only knows how to gossip about others with you, know that nothing prevents them from saying bad things about you too, they probably talk smack about you too

Invest in your vocabulary babe, people who speak well attract more people and opportunities (it's me I'm people, I love well spoken people 😋)

Never lower your expectations and boundaries for no one, and i mean, no one. Have some respect for yourself.

Try pomodoro method of study, this helps me sometimes

Never and ever use lemon, baking soda or alcohol on your face please I beg you, this is a cannon event for most people but hear me out on that and don't try

Thats it for the day, i wish someone told me that before so im here passing it on to someone, hope i was helpful, i luv ya girls🫀

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How i see myself *✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ

trend idea:@poemsfor-her 🎀

Celebrity Place Food

Thing Animal Hobby

Style Song Character

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Nail tips for big strong nails

Use hand cream! They'll mosturize your cuticles

Avoid using acetone based nail polish remover, acetone dries out and weakens your nails, look for acetone-free removers

The only thing that helped me with nail growth was applying strengthening serum or even strengthening base

If you have the ability to grow nails but they break very easily, file them in a stiletto or almond shape, this prevents them from breaking or chipping

Drink your water. That's it.

Nails are made up of keratin, a type of protein, so eating more protein increase nail growth and health

At least 2 to times a week soak your nails in a bath of vegetable oils, olive oil, coconut oil, castor oil, almond oil, etc. This will moisturize your nails and cuticles

So that's it for the day, I'm in the process of growing my nails too and those are the only things that help me, I hope you get beautiful nails like me too and we'll be twinning, luv ya🪽

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Personal tips for healthy shiny hair

Take hair vitamins!!!! I swear they're worth a try, i grew 2 cm in one month after starting drinking them(im anemic so thats rlly a lot)

Apply pre-poo everytime you're going to wash your hair, it will protect your ends from being dry

Scalp massage! If you're able to buy a scalp massager do it, if not just massage with your fingers before washing your hair and between the steps, this will boost your circulation(related to growth and health)

Use heat protectant please, you don't want your hair to become a mess.

Avoid touching to much, Your hands are dirty even if you don't think so

Don't rub towels through your hair to dry, it breaks your hair, change towels to cotton fabrics (even t-shirts!)

Thats it for the day, i hope this helps you to achieve a healthy hair, and remember consistency is the key of everything, luv ya🎀

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me and the girlbosses💋

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Dear diary, today i cryed because i dont have money enough