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big life tips dont be neurodivergent dont be poor dont get in any sort of situation and dont let yourself need or crave
not getting good reports back on your progress with this guys
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1. make a syllabus for yourself - books, media, places, recipes
2. complete 40% of it
3. eat every fruit u can
If you have a senior to check on ask them to "borrow" something small so they think they're helping you.
My mom (72) recently downsized and moved close enough to me that checking on her in person regularly is not really out of my way, but when I was obvious about it she wouldnβt let me βstop-byβ because she was, βfineβ.
Well, one day I actually needed some aluminum foil so I called and asked if I could borrow enough to cover a baking tin because I didnβt want to run to the store. She said sure, but when I got to her house she needed furniture moved, a wasp nest removed, and her coffee pot fixed. After I got the foil I mentioned each thing cautiously and she let me take care of them for her. So next weekend Iβll need a cup of rice and check on her again.
Even better, hereβs an array of more reciprocal options for building relationship & supporting seniorsβ dignity and independence:
- ask for something they can actually help you with. Elders have skills. Mending? Advice about knitting, gardening, home repair, nevermind professional training?
-ask about their experiences. βI was reading about xyz event the other day & I would love to know what that time was like for you. Can we chat about it over tea?β Goes double for family history for relatives.
-βSomeone gave me this [or, I ended up with extra] & I donβt need/want it, but I bet you have a use for it. Can I bring it over? I would hate for it to go to waste.β
-work side-by-side. They get your physical help, you get their experience & expertise. βCould I come over & have you show me how you [used to] prune your gorgeous roses? Iβm trying to get better with mine.β
no i dont think women starving themselves and reconstructing their entire faces with makeup and plastic surgery is feminism and female empowerment
Joy Sullivan, from "Late Bloomer", Instructions for Traveling West
What do you mean βchatβ is now referring to ChatGPT and not twitch chat? What? What? What the fuck? No?
When I address chat I am speaking to a presumed Greek chorus of real human people shitposting on their lunch break, not a machine that devours lakes to covert electricity into slop.
at some point in your life you are going to do or say something racist, sexist, or otherwise bigoted. Your goal is not perfection, your goal is to be the kind of person that the people you've hurt feel safe being honest with when that happens.
since people keep adding this kind of stuff in the notes: no, self-flagellating and making a big show of apologizing and "doing better" is extremely not the same thing as making people feel safe about telling you when you've been shitty. in fact, doing so is in many ways anathema to it.
I canβt get behind people making fun of how they looked when they were younger or before they had a βglow upβ or went to the gym. I have gentleness and love for all versions of me, she just wanted to feel pretty
youβre allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though youβve never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldnβt normally, get that confidence going. we donβt have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they wonβt like the us we want to be.
βIn my dreams I am kissing your mouth and youβre whispering βwhere have you been?β I say, βIβve been lost but Iβm here now. Youβre the only person who has ever been able to find me.ββ
β Sue Zhao
no one is coming to save you not because youβre all alone in this world but because you have to be the one to do it
deciding one day that you want to build a life for yourself is so scary. like damn I really want to liveβ¦ Iβm new to this. where do I even begin
You literally have to just get over yourself every day
βPerhaps you have forgotten. Thatβs one of the great problems of our modern world, you know. Forgetting. The victim never forgets. Ask an Irishman what the English did to him in 1920 and heβll tell you the day of the month and the time and the name of every man they killed. Ask an Iranian what the English did to him in 1953 and heβll tell you. His child will tell you. His grandchild will tell you. And when he has one, his great-grandchild will tell you too. But ask an Englishmanββ He flung up his hands in mock ignorance. βIf he ever knew, he has forgotten. βMove on!β you tell us. βMove on! Forget what weβve done to you. Tomorrowβs another day!β But it isnβt, Mr. Brue.β He still had Brueβs hand. βTomorrow was created yesterday, you see. That is the point I was making to you. And by the day before yesterday, too. To ignore history is to ignore the wolf at the door.β
- A Most Wanted Man, John le CarrΓ©
it's really gross how you can be self aware enough to know what's going on in your head but you can't actually stop it from happening. i need to grab it like a pigeon that got stuck in a house and throw it out the window. be free
Adding charms and keychains to random things definitely improves the living experience