Hello Lovelies!
Last night I attended a fancy dinner for all of the school captains of the schools in my area hosted at a prestigious university nearby. It was an absolute blast of a night (the food was delightful :P), albeit initially an intimidating one. All of the people around me urged me to make the most of my company, and to treat the evening as a ‘networking opportunity’, which is still really weird for me, because I’m 16!
However, I discovered that ‘networking’ doesn’t have to mean fake, schmoozy, forced conversations with people who you feel no real connection with. By the end of the night, I’d talked to a plethora of other young people who had common interests and goals as me, and gained a real insight into how other school leaders ran their initiatives. Today, I thought I’d share a couple of tips with you all that helped me feel super satisfied with the evening.
Have a wingman One of my co-captains is immensely involved in programs run by our city council which had already connected her to many other young people across town, and coincidentally, about a third of the people in attendance at the dinner. A good way to ease into the pool of talking to strangers was to tag along with her as she did a round of the floor and introduce myself to people she ran into.
Make a good first impression A big smile, and visible confidence as you introduce yourself can go a long way. Be genuinely interested in meeting somebody new, finding out a little bit about them, and in turn, they will show you the same courtesy, minimising the awkwardness of feeling like the last thing someone wants to be doing is talking to you.
Ask questions This might seem like a no brainer, but do try to learn more about the person you’re speaking to, and how they relate to and connect with your experience. Any networking function is generally composed of people who have something in common - whether it’s an interest in STEM or volunteering, a high level of achievement in a national program, or a desire to interact with people from a particular field - which gives you an instant platform to relate on. The best way to avoid short-lived connections is to eliminate shallow small talk, and segue into deeper (but still interesting!) discussion
Follow Up If you’ve really made an effort to uncover the experiences, stories and goals of the people you’ve met, you’re bound to have one or two individuals who you really hit it off with. Don’t just leave it at that - follow up on the conversation! The next day, find a way to maintain the relationship - social media works really well for this - and send them a message letting them know that you really enjoyed talking to them, and if it’s relevant, that you’d love to get involved if they need help with a project or are looking for a partner to collaborate with.
And that’s it - you’ve officially met, and retained a potential professional bestie! Congratulations :D
Anyway, I hope these tips were helpful. I hope you all have a great start to your week!















