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Business Trip

This business trip I’ve decided to try something different. I travel for work often but never flirt with associates.  But I decided this seminar was going to be boring so it would be ok to get my flirt on. Dave was one of the guys who started chatting with me almost immediately and he is good looking, tall with a boyish charm. We’d had lunch and a few breaks together and conversation, with some light flirting, flowed. Yesterday he asked if I’d have dinner with him at the hotel restaurant. I readily agreed but asked if he’d be interested in the Italian place a few blocks away. He said sure and I told him I had to take care of some office stuff but I’d be ready about 6:30 and to meet me in the lobby then. Dinner went well and we were finished and heading back to the hotel, hand in hand, by 9:30. Back in the lobby he asked if I would join him for a drink in the bar. “I’d love to”’, I said, “but I need to go to my room, call my husband and freshen up a bit. Come with me”, I said, “I won’t be long.” In the elevator I told him I had a great time and stretched to give him a kiss on the cheek. I excused myself to the bathroom and told him to make himself at home. I finished up and he was sitting at the room desk with a glass of water. I grabbed my Bluetooth and told him this won’t take long as I called my husband. The conversation went as it always does, “how are things, is the seminar good, meet any interesting people?” … I told him a group went out for Italian and I’m up in my room going to bed soon. At that, Dave smiled. That’s when I surprised him by walking over to him, dropped to my knees and began undoing his belt. I pulled his cock from his boxer briefs and began stroking and licking him. I have never done anything like this before, one, one the phone with my husband, and two, a work person. I always keep work and social life separate. Dave was hard right away and I’m still on the phone with my husband. I stood and turned around and had Dave undo the zipper to my dress. I turned again so I could watch him as I slid the dress off my shoulders. He was quite surprised when he saw I was braless. Having small boobs,I can easily get away with that. I sat at the edge of the bed and Dave came over and started to take my panties off. I must have done or said something because my husband asked what I was doing. I told him I was just getting undressed because once I’m off the phone I’m hopping into bed. At that he let me go. As soon as I hung up, Dave’s tongue was on my pussy. And he was very good. Dave fucked me twice last night. It was sensual, it was primal, and it was a solid fucking. He’s already texted me this morning and asked if I’d like round two.

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Reluctant pleasure

Mark struggled against his restraints, but he couldn’t budge. The knots holding his wrists behind his back, and his ankles to the chair, were tied well.

In front of him on the bed, bent over on all fours and facing him, was his beautiful girlfriend, Erin. And behind her was Jason, Cassi’s boyfriend. He was a former college football player with huge shoulders and washboard abs. He had his hands wrapped around Erin’s tiny waist and his cock buried inside of her.

This wasn’t what Mark had wanted when he had suggested a foursome. He tried to protest but could only let out small muffled sounds against the rag stuffed into his mouth. Cassi, Erin’s best friend - and the person responsible for orchestrating Mark’s current predicament - laughed. She was on her knees, pumping her hand up and down Mark’s stiff cock.

“Oh wow, do you see how good your little girlfriend looks getting bent over and fucked by my boyfriend’s big cock?” said Cassi. Still pumping her hand up and down.

Mark let out a groan. He didn’t want this, but he’d never been so hard in his life. Watching the love of his life getting stretched out by this meathead’s massive cock was doing things to his mind that weren’t natural.

He watched as Erin cried out in pleasure. Her eyes rolled back in her head as Jason methodically hammered his big cock into her like she was an object that needed to be penetrated in a certain way to get an orgasm out of her. She was no longer even aware that Mark was in the room. Her moans and whimpers filled Mark’s ears as she gave her body to the man enthusiastically. Jason took the cue and picked up the pace of rhythmically driving his cock in and out, a piston in perfect motion.

Cassi simultaneously slowed her speed of pumping Mark’s cock. She drizzled some more lube over the tip and gave him a knowing smile. It was the cruelest thing Mark had ever seen.

“Oh my,” she said, looking back over her shoulder. “Look at Erin turning into a little slut for my boyfriend. She’s never experienced this much pleasure before, has she? You’re never going to be able to satisfy her again after this.”

Mark’s cock twitched. He was so close to cumming. Cassi stopped her relentless pumping to let him cool off for a moment. He groaned and tried thrusting his hips forward for more stimulation. Cassi laughed again.

“Uh uh, no no,” she said wagging her finger. Mark was in agony. He knew then that Cassi was the devil incarnate. He wanted to beg them all to stop, and he wanted to beg them to keep going. The screws holding his mind together were coming loose.

Jason picked up his pace again, pounding himself into Erin over and over. She’d always loved Mark, but lust was taking over as wave after wave of pleasure crashed through her body. Seeing her moaning and biting the sheets, Mark knew she was getting close to orgasm.

“They’re both so close,” whispered Cassi. “And so are you, aren’t you? Are you going to cum while he forces an orgasm out of your slutty little girlfriend? Are you going to cum when he cums inside of her? Is she even on birth control? If you do cum, you’ll be ruined too you know?”

Her words poisoned his mind as she jerked his cock off faster. He watched Jason’s muscles tense and his rhythm get erratic. The brute thrust one final time, as deep into Erin as he could get, and let out a loud groan as he emptied his balls into Mark’s girlfriend. Erin responded with an orgasm of her own, gripping the sheets and screaming in ecstasy as Jason continued to fill her.

It was all too much for Mark. His cock started to erupt in Cassi’s hand, but as soon as she felt it Cassi let go of it leaving Mark frustrated with a perfectly timed ruined orgasm.

“Oooh there it is, good boy,” she cooed, “Get all of that out onto the floor, where it’s useless. Keep going. Your little Erin just had her pussy filled with cum by my boyfriend’s big thick cock.“

Mark emptied his balls onto the floor. He shot out more cum than any other time in his life. Then he sighed in defeat, knowing his life had just changed irrevocably.

iamhotwife

Hotwifing Saves Marriages.

What is hotwifing and how can hotwifing save marriages? Contrary to pornography lore, hotwifing, hot wife or hotwife is not a physical description, it is a powerful emotionally supportive state of marriage. Any woman can be a hotwife regardless of their physical attributes. To define, a hotwife is a married woman in a strong committed marriage who makes herself sexually available to other men for hotwife dates either with or without her husband present. She does this with her husband’s full knowledge and consent. In hotwifing the husband yields the traditional role of sexual dominance to his wife. The husband always remains willingly and faithfully monogamous to his hotwife which is referred to as a stag husband. All of his sexual desires are focused on his wife having sex with other men and all of his pleasures are derived in the intimacy his hotwife provides him. Hotwives may wear very sexy clothing, usually purchased for them by their stag husbands and flirt outrageously with other men in order to achieve the hotwife date. Hotwives may openly display hotwife jewelry that lets men know they are married and available. She may desire her husbands help in arranging her dates. In any case the husband cedes the decision as to whom his hotwife has sex with. Hotwifing is not about humiliation or denigration, it is rather a form of loving emotional control both psychologically and physically. The hotwife always balances her husbands physical needs and wants and her psychological control of him in her role as the hotwife. A stag husband may desire to watch, participate or happily await the return of his hotwife from her date so that she can share all the details of it with him. The stag husband is given secondary, but equal, sexual importance. The hotwife builds and caresses his ego through her dominance and she never forgets to give her husband sexual satisfaction. So how can all of that save your marriage?

For couples that have experienced infidelity like we did, hotwifing allows them to renew their vows of commitment to each other and start their marriage from a new point together rather than apart. Most importantly it leaves the past in the past because in the new vows the couple commits to focusing exclusively on the future and each other.

Hotwifing gives women the ability to fulfill their wildest sexual fantasies with the encouragement of their husbands. Research has shown that many couples have hotwifing fantasies, but most of them are unable to express themselves because they fear what their partner might think of them. This single misunderstanding of sexual desire is one of the leading causes of the high divorce rate. For a woman one of the many potential benefits of hotwifing in a marriage is the open and uninhibited fulfillment all her sexual desires within the realm of real and honest marital commitment from her husband. It is really simple, stag husbands won’t cheat because they have no need or desire to. For men it boosts their understanding of female sexuality and it frees them of jealousy, which is the number one poison to relationships. Imagine a life free of jealousy and you will find true happiness and peaceful harmony in balance with unlimited love for one another.

Hotwifing empowers wives with freedom. The wife gets the freedom to enjoy the full experiences of sex. Women often desire and routinely fantasize about having sex with men other than their husbands. In the old taboo society they rarely got that chance because of deep seeded jealousy. When a man freely encourages his wife to enjoy the sexual pleasures of other men, he is undeniably giving her his heart and soul. He is directly displaying trust in their marriage. The husband enjoys the ability to control his normal feelings of jealousy so his wife can experience a new kind of intimacy free of guilt. This can be of great spiritual and emotional comfort to both the husband and wife.

Hotwifing frees wives from the jealousy of their husbands. It is a proven fact that jealousy is one of the major reasons many relationships fail. Insecurity is a leading contributing factor in disagreements and breakups that result in divorce. Hotwifing can help to rid the man of his feelings of jealousy, and when he gives his wife the freedom to be who she wants to be, she knows her husband has her best interests at heart, which helps her to increase her trust in him. Hotwifing creates trust and communication within relationships. Solid relationships are built upon trust and open communication. If you want to be in a happy, lasting relationship, you must ensure that you understand each other and also give each other the chance and freedom to be yourselves. These kinds of open and honest conversations increase trust and communication between the couple and bring them closer together.

Hotwifing makes wives feel beautiful and desired. As a man, you will feel that you actually have the hottest woman on earth, and it’s every man’s desire to have a woman who is another man’s dream. Hotwifing gives men the perfect chance to appreciate how beautiful and desirable his woman is, which typically serves to increase both his love and respect for her. Ultimately hotwifing can help a mans libido. In some instances it has been known to assist a husband to overcome some forms of E.D.

Hotwifing boosts marital confidence. It gives women a real chance to express themselves to their husbands. When a woman knows that she has the support of her husband to do whatever she desires, she feels incredibly self confident about herself, which helps to change her perception of the traditional societal roles of husbands and wives

Hotwifing increases intimacy by giving both the husband and wife the perfect chance to gain important knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically deepen a couple’s marital bond making it strong, confident and trustworthy.

Hotwifing provides a greater sense of sexual confidence and satisfaction for both husband and wife. Hotwifing actually saves marriages. Yes you heard that right, it can save a marriage. I can tell you without hesitation that it saved mine even if it took my husband nearly 20 years to realize it. Hotwifing creates a perfect platform for couples to attain both mental and physical satisfaction. The wife is able to have sex with men she desires, which quenches her thirst that in a traditional monogamous marriages might otherwise lead her to affairs and betrayals.

Even after feeling the sting of betrayal couples can use hotwifing to regain trust, because hotwifing requires 100 percent honesty from both husband and wife. Honesty is the one element of hotwing that is non negotiable. Gone are the days of living secret lies and affairs. Women have said that while they knew their husband thought they were beautiful, being desired by other men was even more validating to them. “Your husband is supposed to think you’re beautiful.” When wives feel they are no longer perceived as beautiful they can become depressed and cheat to make themselves feel wanted again. Couples that can together successfully negotiate the absolute intimacy and unique boundaries provided by hotwifing can easily save even the most troubled, stale and dissatisfied marriage. It gives couples a new freedom to describe to each other their most base, deepest secrets and sexual desires. Couples say that after the wife has sex with other men, their own sex lives were newly fueled, and the couple had sex the way they did when they first started dating.

Scientifically the fuel to this fire may be found in the neurochemistry and biology of sperm competition. Hotwifing couples essentially subvert mechanisms intended to prevent illicit pregnancies, co-opting our basic biological processes to serve a role in fanning the flames of the marriage long past the time they might have normally subsided into a relationship where sex is ok on occasion but primarily viewed as not necessary by one or both. Sex at 40, 50, 60, 70 and beyond can take on new exciting prospects that can be of well documented health benefits for the couple. Research has shown that older couples with a healthy and frequent sex life are often happier and tend to live longer more fulfilling lives. Overall the positive effects of hotwifing in marriage are far greater than many people could possibly imagine.

Hotwifing is no longer a dirty little “secret” confined to swingers clubs by adventurous 30 somethings. It is rapidly becoming a mainstream norm for mature couples to help rescue their failing marriages and keep them forever secure.

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Why you should lock up his cock.

1. He can’t masturbate whenever he wants.

You now control when/how/if he cums. No more jacking off whenever he pleases. You give him permission to be unlocked and released. This makes him desire you so much more. He’ll want to fuck you every chance he gets. But you decide if he’s allowed to.

2. You have all the control.

You having all this power is sexy for the both of you. Make him your slave. He will do whatever you want, whenever you want. Make him fall to his knees when he gets home to go down on you before you even think about unlocking him.

3. You come/cum first.

He now lives to please you. The beautiful thing is that it’s all about you 24/7. Make him get you off 10 times before you unlock him. Or make him get you off 10 times and don’t unlock him. ;)

4. It’s fun.

Make it a game. Have him flip a coin. Heads he gets to cum that night, tails he stays in his cage. Theres so many things you can do with this. Be creative. Make him wonder how or if he will cum. And what he’ll have to in order or be unlocked.

5. Torture him.

Tell him when you’re masturbating. Send him pictures of you pleasing yourself while he’s at work, caged. Tell him what you’re getting off too. Suck his balls when he’s locked up. Make him think you’re going to unlock him but don’t.

Chastity is an amazing thing. We are loving this lifestyle.

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D-Day

After so much fantasizing and fun between you and your wife, the day has finally arrived. You’re going to watch her play with someone else. You’re finally going to be cuckolded. You’ve seen them kiss before when you met for a drink to make sure he was safe and sane. Even that little taste of cuckolding was incredible and now they’re going to go all the way while you watch.

There’s no reason to waste time. Things get hot and heavy from the moment he sits down. Your wife is just as into this as you are. Ever since she shared a kiss with him she’s been burning with desire. She needs to feel his hands all over her. She needs to feel his tongue in her mouth. She needs to feel his erection pressing into her.

Your cock is stiff as you watch them play, but it’s when he pushes his hand into her panties that you first start to play with yourself. It’s the first time it feels like this thing is absolutely going to happen. When you hear your wife moan into his mouth as he plays with her clit you know that things are going to get hot and heavy between them.

She moans as he sucks on her nipples and plays with her ass. She runs her hands through his hair and tells him how good it feels. She tells him how wet she is. You know she’s talking to you too. She wants you to know that another man is making her wet with desire. She wants you to know that she desperately desires this man’s cock.

You pull your cock out when she falls to her knees in front of him. You can’t wait any longer. You need to masturbate. You watch in awe as your wife eagerly sucks another man’s cock. You listen to him moan as she blows him. You know exactly how good it feels when she does that with her exceptionally talented mouth.

For the first time you feel some of that jealousy and anxiety that you’ve read about online. You know it happens to almost every cuckold. Now you understand it.

Your wife’s eyes are closed and she’s moaning as she gives someone else an incredible blowjob. She’s completely lost in pleasuring him. She knows you’re there and watching, but for the moment his big dick is the only thing she can think about. Of course you’re going to be jealous. You’re still rock hard, though.

“Do you like watching, baby?” she says as her fingers stroking his stiff shaft.

“Yes, baby,” you say.

“Yeah? It turns you on to see me sucking someone else’s cock?” she asks.

“It’s the hottest thing I’ve ever seen,” you answer.

Now she’s putting on a show for you. She swallows his cock over and over and he plays along by grabbing her hair and fucking that pretty face of hers. You can see her lust. You can see her desire to pleasure this man and to drive you absolutely wild with desire while she does it.

“Fuck me,” your wife says when she pulls her eager mouth off his stiff cock.

You watch as she spreads her legs and her new lover moves between them. He guides his cock between her pussy lips and inside her. She spreads her legs wide and moans as she feels another man’s cock in her cunt for the first time since you started dating.

“Oh my,” she says. “He feels so good.”

She reaches back and grabs your hand. She flashes that big beautiful smile to let you know how much fun she’s having.

“Do you like watching him fuck me?” she says through lusty moans.

“Yes,” you say while working your hand up and down your stiff dick.

The sound of his cock pounding into her pussy mixes with your wife’s moans beautifully. It’s a lusty symphony that you’re privileged to be able to listen to.

He fucks her harder. She moans louder. His fingers move between her legs and he plays with your wife’s clit.

“He’s gonna make me cum,” your wife announces as she holds your hand tighter. “Oh my, I’m cumming!” she cries out.

You just watched another man give your wife an orgasm. You watched his big cock and skillful fingers bring her to a beautiful climax. Your dick has never been stiffer.

There’s so much more for you to enjoy, though. Your hot-wife wants to put on a show for you. She wants her cuckold husband to have a damn good time watching her get fucked by someone else.

That’s why she spins around and ride him in reverse cowgirl. Now you have a truly perfect view of his big cock filling her pussy. It’s the most beautiful thing you’ve ever seen.

She’s giving him everything. His bare cock gets to fuck up into your wife’s wet cunt for as long as he wants.

“That’s it, baby,” she says. “Stroke your cock while he fucks me. Use your hand while he uses my pussy.”

You love that. You love that little bit of dirty talk that calls attention to the fact that someone else is fucking your wife while you’re masturbating. It’s incredible. It makes you a little jealous while making you insanely horny. You’ve never loved your wife more.

“Kiss me,” she says.

You lean forward and do as you’re told. You kiss your wife passionately. Her tongue pushes into your mouth as someone else’s cock pushes into her pussy. She moans into your mouth as his thick dick fucks her perfect wet cunt.

Your wife wants him to take her from behind. She wants you to watch as another man fucks her doggy-style.

She moves to her hands and knees and you watch as he pushes his big cock into her from behind. She flashes you that beautiful smile again.

You love how much she’s enjoying this. You know she loves having his big cock inside her, but it’s more than that. She loves that you’re so thrilled. She loves that your cock is so hard. She loves that you enjoy being a voyeur cuckold and getting to watch as someone else pounds her.

“His cock feels so fucking good,” she says as her lover slides in and out of her pussy from behind.

Her fingers are soft and skilled as she strokes your cock and looks into your eyes. You’ve never seen such lust from her, perhaps because she’s never had such a thrilling sexual experience.

She kisses you and begins to stroke your dick…then faster.

“Cum for me,” she says.

Your wife wants you to cum while you’re watching someone else fuck her. She wants you to have your first cuckold orgasm. She wants you to unleash your load while she’s getting pounded from behind.

“That’s it, baby. Cum for me. Cum for your naughty wife,” she says while you groan. Cum spurts out of your stiff cock as she keeps stroking you. She kisses you while you feel the pleasure of orgasm ripping through your loins. “Good boy,” she whispers.

“It’s his turn now,” she says.

You hear him moan as he buries his cock in your wife’s pussy.

“Cum inside me,” she says. “Fill me.”

He does just that. He cums inside her. He floods her pussy with his seed. It won’t be the last time another man cums in your wife.

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Real

The more I learned about cuckolding and the psychological aspects behind it, the more I wanted to try new things to push the limits. After being involved in the lifestyle for a while, I really wanted to make my husband go down on me after my boyfriend finished. I had read that making your husband go down on you after your boyfriend had been there is an amazing feeling, not just physically, but psychologically and emotionally. I didn’t know if our relationship was ready to cross that threshold. I was really enjoying the lifestyle and didn’t want to scare my husband away. I realize there comes a time when the cuckold ideally has no say in any decisions whatsoever, but that wasn’t the case with our relationship. We felt strongly that while there is a definite transfer of control, we must all continue to derive pleasure in some regard, otherwise, at least for us, the lifestyle would lose it’s appeal. My husband is not bi, and he had told me before that he never wanted to do anything “too extreme.” But I wondered just how far he might go to please me given the right (gentle) persuasion.

Someone on a forum suggested I give my husband a story to read where the cuckold is asked to please his wife orally after her boyfriend finished with her. My husband was very apprehensive and said he wasn’t sure he could ever do it. I was disappointed, but of course I wanted to respect his wishes. (I am now recalling the irony in the fact that there was also a time when I never thought I could cuckold him.)

One night my boyfriend came over after being out of town for an entire week. A whole week without sex with my boyfriend was almost unbearable. All three of us, my husband included, were so sexually frustrated we couldn’t wait for that evening. I had locked my husband in a chastity device for the first time that week, so he was really desperate. That night my boyfriend and I had the most passionate sex we had ever had up until that point, and at the end, he came inside me for what seemed like ten minutes. (I could actually feel him spurting inside me!) When he finished, he went to take a shower while I lay there all satisfied.

Normally this was the time I’d let my husband release, but something came over me as he approached me, expecting me to take off the chastity devise. When I removed it, he got hard instantly and was practically begging me to help him release. I was still trying to get used to seeing my husband so vulnerable like this. As he lay on me, kissing my neck, I whispered, “Before I help you, I want you to do something for me.” As I said this, I gently pushed his head downward toward my belly. He knew what I wanted him to do, and I could feel him hesitate and start to protest. So I simply asked him, “I thought you wanted to cum tonight?” Implying that if he didn’t do it, I wouldn’t let him cum. He looked confused, so I told him that my boyfriend will be done in the shower in less than ten minutes and the only way was going to allow him to cum is if he could give me an orgasm before my boyfriend finished his shower. Otherwise, we’d have to wait until tomorrow.

That left him little choice because he knew two things for sure: He never got me off with his fingers, and having sex with me was definitely not an option. He looked around (presumably for a toy he could use), so I quickly added, “No toys.” He knew exactly what I wanted.

Again, I don’t know what came over me. I suddenly felt a little bad, and was going to give him a handjob. I said, “You don’t have to, it’s ok.” I picked up his chastity devise, which was on the bed next to me, to move it so it wasn’t in the way, but he interpreted it as an ultimatum. He thought I was going to put him back in chastity until tomorrow! He kind of got this panicked look on his face. I tried not to laugh. I told him not to let me pressure him to do something he didn’t want to do. “Plus you only have 5 minutes left,” I said, not believing he would be able to get me off in 5 minutes anyway. I realized he still thought I was giving him an ultimatum, so I let him believe that’s what was happening. I was interested to see how he’d handle the situation. He looked distraught. Then he broke.

I wish I could adequately describe the feeling I felt the moment I watched him break. The moment he realized he really only had one question to answer: How bad do I want to cum? I realized I now had complete control over him. It was so exciting, and I was so turned on.

What happened next completely took me by surprise. I felt his head slowly move downward, and then I felt his warm mouth on my sex. I could still feel my boyfriend’s seed dribbling out a little. Suddenly my husband was no longer hesitant. It was like a light switch - he made his decision and gave 100%. When I say 100%, I mean it! No one - not even my boyfriend, has ever pleased me like that with his mouth. I couldn’t believe what was happening! I don’t know if it was the wetness, or my husband’s intensity, or the idea of what was happening, or the empowerment I suddenly felt, but it was the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had with my husband. It was actually the first time I ever had two orgasms in a row with my husband.

This was a new beginning. It didn’t happen again for about a week, but when it was time, I reminded him that he’d already done it, so it wasn’t a big deal. I will never forget that orgasm. This was a great example of how cuckolding can actually strengthen the bonds between the husband and wife in the most unexpected ways. My husband was making a sacrifice for me. He was now willing to do something very humiliating for him, something he never dreamed he’d do, and something he would never do with anyone else. And he does it because it pleases me. Now when I look down at him, watching him doing that, seeing how vulnerable he is, I feel the most amazing sense of love.

simonthechaste

I edge my husband because...

(A great list, even though not written by me) I edge my husband because:

It’s what his body wants, whether his mind knows it or not

It’s more pleasurable for him to be edged and denied than for him to cum – simple biology

I can do this every day, and he’ll stay aroused and excited every time

He makes the sexiest noises when I edge him

I love watching his mind go numb with pleasure

He gets so stiff and hard for me, I can’t resist touching it, and I want him to stay that way as long as possible

He stays in a hypersexual state, always eager to pleasure me any way I want

It arouses me to see him lost in bliss

Edging him is so easy, and it gets easier every day I do it

I want him to be happy, and he’s obviously happy when he’s on the edge

I love that he trusts me with his most intimate, natural reflex, so I trigger it as often as possible (or almost-trigger it!)

He fucks me so hard after I edge him for a few days – he’s like an animal, I fucking love it!

He thinks of me all day and texts me the sweetest things

He works hard, doesn’t get enough respect, and deserves to “zone out” for a while in my hands or mouth

It makes him dream about me, so I’m part of literally every moment of his life

And more, and more… Source: http://healthysexymarriage.tumblr.com

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Cuckold Intimate Training with my Bull

Remember what I said about controlling their little head? You can use that, ladies. If you get him horny enough, you can get your man to walk on coals. He’ll walk through that fire to get to you, or he’ll walk through that fire just because it pleases you. He’ll even drag his dick through the coals if it means he gets to put it where he wants. This is how I used this to my advantage. About a month ago while my husband was settling in to watch my lover and I together in bed, I asked him if he would like to go down on me to prepare me for my lovers cock. He said yes, so I lay back and allowed him to use his wonderful tongue for a few minutes, getting me even wetter. That lasted for three or four minutes then I told him that was enough and he stopped and got off the bed. My lover climbed on top and we began to have sex. About 15 minutes after we began, I asked my lover to pull out for a moment and then asked my husband if he would like to eat my “slick pussy”. My husband said sure, and repeated his efforts between my legs (which felt glorious). After a few minutes I told him that was enough and my lover resumed screwing me. Later he reached his climax within me and expended his usual, copious amount of semen. After we rested I asked my husband if he would like to lie beside me, finger my pussy and masturbate. He said he did. I knew he would. So I spread my legs a bit and told him to place his head on my thigh so he could get a good look down there. Stroking himself he lasted no more than two minutes before shooting all over my leg and the bedsheets again. When he finished, I told him that the next time he would get an even closer look down there. I wanted to plant the idea but not push him too fast. Before I saw my lover again we had several nights of pillow chat, discussing how he had fingered my pussy earlier and enjoyed seeing and feeling me after sex. I told him that it excited me for him to be down there after I was with another man, feeling him between my legs. I asked him if he could smell my excitement and wondered what it would be like to taste me after I’d had sex with someone. I didn’t push the idea. Instead I left it there. The next time was less than three weeks later. Once again, my lover and I had my husband go down on me before we screwed, than do it once more midway through our first screw. At the end my lover once again filled me with his usual gift. But this time I was ready to try something new. The time had come to push my husband a little further. I asked him to get in the bed with us, lay down beside me and place his head on my thigh, just like last time. After he did I parted my legs to give him a better view in the dim light. Then, as he began to masturbate I deliberately reached between the folds of my pussy and dipped my index finger into the wetness, bringing it then to my lips and letting him see me taste the flavor of our combined juices. I moved my finger slowly in and out of my mouth, using my tongue on it, making sure to let him see how much I loved the taste. My husband watched in fascination, as I moved my hand back to my crotch and dipped the same finger into my wet pussy again. But this time I moved my hand toward his face. He recoiled as my hand approached, but I quickly placed my other hand behind his head and said ‘no’. Then I slowly eased my slippery finger between his lips. He didn’t flinch as I traced my finger around his lips. Then I repeated my action, once again from my pussy to his lips. After the third time, I asked him if that was so bad. He said “No not really”. So I spread my legs wider and told him to get between them. He looked up at me tentatively, and then did as I said, sliding over my thigh and putting his face about a foot away from my crotch. He stared between my legs, then looked up at me. As soon as our eyes met I said “Do it”. He knew what I was saying. My lover and I both watched silently. My husband shifted himself closer until I felt his hot breath down there. I could literally feel his indecision. That’s when I reached down with both hands, put them behind his head and gently pulled him those last few inches. His mouth made contact with my wet flesh and I knew I had him. He seemed to be overcome with it at first, but then I felt him gradually give in and he began to enjoy it. I noticed his excitement building. He became more animated. Soon juices were everywhere. I could feel his tongue begin to explore and taste me, moving deeper inside. Soon it was a plethora of sexual juices; my wetness mixed with my lovers’ semen mixed with my husband’s saliva. It was as much of a sexual pleasure as it was a personal victory for me. His being down there was all my doing and I loved that every bit as much as I did his tongue. I will always remember the feeling of lying in that bed and kissing another man deeply, while feeling the pleasure of my husband’s tongue eagerly slurping between my widespread legs.

creampieslurp

Slurp!!!!!

bulldog-88

It’s so intimate. The way you write the story is so touching. I can deep diving into all your emotions

victoriousflappage

Wouldn’t it be great...

If more slow, sensuous pegging was shared?

The erotic allure of pegging a precious Pig is heady. It can actually make Me feel faint with lust. But to be clear, not the violent, seemingly hate filled pegging of femdom porn. Where the aim is to rip the anus and make the sub grimace and shout with pain. No.

Maybe I should film and share it?

I love the sexual static that fills the air before a pegging. Deep, slow, worshipful kissing. Nibbling on My sub’s lips, hearing him beg to be fucked. Making him wait. Ordering him into whatever position I feel best in that moment. Staring at the beauty of his exposed anus for a long time. Appreciating what belongs to Me. The teasing of the anus with My tongue, just tickling the outer edge before pushing inside. The puckering and kisses blown ensure my desire runs down My thighs in warm rivulets. Telling him what a good Pig he is and how much I love hearing him moan My name. Whispering “please Mistress...please”. The feel of a good quality lube between My fingers: firm yet silken when heated. Ever so gently applying it and sliding one, two fingers in. Feeling them be sucked on as the inner sphincter relaxes fully. A jewelled plug inserted for My viewing pleasure, moving back to admire how exquisitely beautiful he looks in that moment. Then tell him so.

When I am ready and he can take no more, sliding the tip of My cock over his hole again and again and again. Waiting...until he’s mewling with raw need. Begging. And only then just giving him the tip. Probing that wanton hole a mere two inches over and over before sliding larger and larger lengths inside him.

Now anyone with a cock knows this step is vital: the varying length given, speed, depth. The tease damn it! Not just pounding away relentlessly. People ask me why My pets are called Pigs/piglets. Well it’s the noises they make when given My cock properly. And I adore them for that. Pegging is easily My favourite Dominant/sexual act. But not for the pain or punishment. For the control, the tease, the ecstasy on My darling’s face as the orgasm takes them away (if allowed one of course).

So beloved followers: show me, show me some erotic, pleasure filled, lust fuelled pegging.

Mistress Baudelaire xx

dommelovelovely

On Intelligent, Well-Read Submissives.

I love intelligent boys. Absolutely adore them. And I find those who are passionate about reading and writing share a common thread. They all yearn for an equally intelligent Dominant who can reach deep into their erotic “centers”, rip the pages from their fantasies, and give them a lifetime of living, breathing memories.

An intelligent submissive appreciates the beauty of the dance on the fringe. He is a strong, independent, talented, capable man in his own right, yet he hungers for a Dominant who can fuck his mind long before She touches his body. He needs a Woman who can respect him as an intellectual equal but effortlessly assume her role as Dominant - the only Woman he would ever consider yielding to. For him, this need is utterly palpable. He can feel her hands through her words, her voice, and her instruction.

And herein is my secret insight. Intelligent, gifted submissives are the naughtiest, sluttiest, hungriest boys imaginable. They are capable of giving themselves completely up to the Woman they trust and respect, and going places they themselves do not yet know they are capable of going. They are insatiable once leashed (note the irony). And they hunger to experience whatever their Woman challenges them with and sate her with the gift of their bodies and their talents.

For the Woman who can appreciate my words - I promise you - the dance on the fringe can be a most inspiring journey of sensual delights with a smart, talented boy.

(Author Unknown)

iamhotwife

Hotwifing Saves Marriages.

#IAMHOTWIFE

Feel free to share and keep adding to the saved marriage story with your own success in hotwifing. Keep us posted though. Thanks

kyle68414

Peter, 36, and his girlfriend, Kelly*, discussed “hotwifing” for almost a year until they took the plunge. Or rather, before Kelly did — by

21stcenturyhotwife

Hotwifing is growing in popularity. 58% of men secretly admit they would like to share their wives. Imagine that! Half the men you know are into that and many of yours girlfriends are likely already doing it. A Hotwife is a married woman with permission to play but she makes the rules. Her husband must remain faithful. This lifestyle is a huge turn-on for many men. It’s not about jealousy and bi-curiosity. It’s about control. It’s about sharing the woman he loves, getting off on her enjoying other men, her being a personal porn star. Men who are into this kink tend to be hardworking, intelligent leaders. Alpha males, they are used to being boss with a take-charge personality and this lifestyle puts the control in the Hotwife’s hands. The more fun the hotwife has, the more her husband enjoys it.

It started for me when I found Hotwife porn on my hubby’s computer. I was shocked, offended. I thought he wanted to fuck other women. This was far from the truth. It took some time to realize he wanted to share me. It turned him on and he did not know how to tell me. Would I think he wanted to cheat if I did it? Would I think he’s bi? These are fears he had and it took some time for me to realize it was all about him being turned on by me being naughty and in control. It was all about me and him finding me attractive. Me being naughty makes him want me more. It’s brought us so much closer.

Most marriages get very boring in the bedroom. Hotwifing spices it up 100x. It’s important to focus on the physical aspect of sex with your dates and the emotional connection with sex with your hubby. The extra sex with other men isn’t the main focus, ITS THE RECLAIMING SEX WITH YOUR HUBBY. You just enjoyed a great, liberating experience and hubby gets you in the end every time. You’re going to be having a lot more sex and you will find yourself saying “can you do what X did to me?”.

Some of my list below ventures more on your hubby being more submissive. Others less so. If your hubby does not want to do the extra submissive ones, that’s ok. You might not either. It’s important to be respectful to hubby. Your date should always be respectful if your hubby is there for the encounter. He should never ridicule your hubby. That will ruin the experience. Depending on your relationship, you may say more submissive things like “what do you want him to do to me” or “is this what you wanted to see?”, or more dominant things like “watch how good he fucks me”, or engaging in more dominant activities that you will find below. Many couples are afraid to try the light dominant acts, but you might be surprised how much you’re both into it once you do.

Here are some tips, challenges, and dares!

Starting out:

1. Point out men you’d like to fuck. Tease the idea.

2. Tell your husband you know men who want to fuck you.

3. Flirt with men, even in front of your husband. Make it obvious you’re flirting. Even say something like “you and I should get together for drinks sometime. This is my hubby but he’s working tomorrow. How about we get together then?”

4. Tell men you’re married and need extra cock. A lot of men will fuck you harder knowing you’re married.

5. Talk about your exes. Especially sex with them.

6. Tell your husband you want to fuck other men during sex.

7. Tell your husband you won’t fuck him again until you fuck someone else.

8. During sex, make him admit you deserve more cock. Not just from him, but you deserve to be well fucked by other men, often.

9. Tell your husband of fun you’ve had with men while in bed. Be honest and tell him of occasions you’ve never told him. He WILL be turned on. I told mine of some past infidelity from years back and he was turned on.

10. Tell your husband you want to fuck your ex (and do it)

11. Tell your husband you want to feel another man fill your pussy with cum.

12. During foreplay, tell your husband you want to leave to go fuck someone you know. Have your husband take a pic of you to send to him right then.

13. Go to a hotel bar with your husband and flirt with guys. Try to get invited to his room.

14. Dance with guys and grind on them in front of your husband.

15. Have your husband tell a guy you’ve been flirting with that he wants him to fuck you.

16. Have drinks with your husband and a guy you want to fuck and tell the guy how you want to be fucked. Touch him, get close to him, guide his hands.

17. Get a guy’s number that you met with your hubby and secretly sext him in front of your hubby. Pro tip: Use the message app Kik.

18. Go on a girls night out and go home with a guy. Best if you have single friends. Make sure to dress slutty and have your husband watch you get ready. He’s hoping it turns into a late night.

19. Carry condoms in your purse and make sure your husband knows.

20. Sext other men and show your husband.

21. Have your husband take pics of you in your underwear for you to send to men.

22. Make a dating profile (Ashley Madison, Tinder, etc). This is a must do. Show hubby the guys you want to fuck.

23. Have your husband pay for lingerie your lover will enjoy. Say things like “Do you think he’d like to fuck me in this?”

24. Have your husband help you get ready for a solo date. Make sure to trim very well. Very little or no hair. Clean yet sooooo dirty :p

25. Go out and send updates and pics. Start clothed at a bar or restaurant with his hand on your hips or butt. Your hand on his crotch, etc. First kiss.

26. Go to his place and have your date send a pic of you bent over in your underwear. If it’s new underwear say something like “recognize the new panties you bought me? I found someone who will be the first to make them wet”

27. Send pics of his hand on your panties, rubbing your crotch. Suggestive pics. Don’t go full nude. Tease him.

28. Send pics of his face in your pussy.

28. Send a selfie with his dick in your mouth (very hot)

29. The pics stop as your hubby knows you are getting fucked.

30. Alternative: Live video or speakerphone your husband while you get fucked. Moan loud and beg for cock. Make sure to audibly tell your lover you are married and need to be fucked harder than your husband fucks you.

31. If you choose to send pics of the action, use low light. Tease him with it.

32. If no condom, scream for him to cum in your pussy.

33. If using a condom, use a new one each time you fuck and bring them all home to show your husband.

34. Tell your lover to make your panties soaking wet so you can show your husband.

35. Play with the idea of having your hubby eat your pussy after your date or kiss you after a blowjob. You might not think it, but when in the act both tend to find it very hot.

36. BONUS: Let your lover cum in your pussy and put your panties on immediately. Go home, lay on the bed, and spread your legs showing your husband your cum soaked panties.

37. Tell your husband every detail. You decide if your husband deserves a blow job, hand job, let him fuck you, or make him jerk off.

38. Make your husband use a condom to fuck you. Or don’t. Make him be your sloppy seconds.

39. MAKE HIM WATCH: It’s not going to be easy to find a guy who is okay with hubby watching. This is often best done if it’s someone you have been fucking so you and your lover are both comfortable. The three hottest moments of the first encounter hubby sees is watch your date slowly undress you, watching his cock enter you for the first time, and cum dripping out of you.

40. Introduce your lover: “Hubby, this is Mark. He knows how to fuck me and he’s going to show you how I like it.” Or “what do you want him to do to me?”

41. Have him sit outside the bedroom door and listen “Sorry, you can’t watch but we’ll let you listen”. Then make it loud!

42. Have hubby hold you while you get fucked.

43. Have your husband pull aside your panties while your lover eats your pussy.

44. Have your husband take off your panties for your lover.

45. Alternative: Make sure your panties are wet and put them on your husband’s head.

46. Or fuck with your panties on so they are wet and cum soaked. Visually, women look hot fucking with the panties pulled aside. Plus, you’ll get more cum in them for later tips.

47. Ride your lover’s cock so your hubby can see from behind. Great in video too.

48. Tell your husband he can’t touch himself. BONUS: strap him to a chair.

49. Look in your husband’s eyes as you’re fucked from behind.

50. Moan loud. Tell him how good you’re being fucked.

51. Wear your wedding ring and have your lover cum on it.

52. BONUS: Have your lover do something to you that your husband doesn’t: “Fuck my ass”, etc.

53. Have your hubby rent a hotel room and send him out for drinks when you have a “guest”. He’ll come back to you getting fucked.

***Other adventures:

54. Fuck several men. Make some more frequent but keep options. Fuck other men AT LEAST once a week. Your hubby will want to fuck you immediately, so be prepared for lots of sex.

55. Have your husband drive you to your lovers house.

56. Fuck your lover all night and call your husband to pick you up in the morning only to fuck your lover once more while he waits.

57. Kiss your lover as you leave and tell him you can’t wait to fuck again.

58. Tell your husband to thank your lover for fucking you.

59. Have your husband wait outside your lovers house while you fuck.

60. Tell your hubby to undress you for your lover.

61. Fuck your lover at home and leave your panties, a condom, or other memento on his side of the bed.

62. Fuck your lover on your wedding anniversary. Bonus if you’re wearing bridal lingerie. I planned this for a weekend getaway. My husband watched as I wore white panties that said “bride” on the back and white leggings for three rounds of fucking in our hotel room.

62. Fuck your lover on your husband’s side of the bed while he’s at work. Send pics and video.

63. Suck your lover’s cock and send a pic of the cum in your mouth to your husband.

64. Have your husband rent a room for you and your lover for the weekend. Count the number of times you cum and tell hubby. Must send pics!

65. Tell your husband he can’t fuck you until you’ve fucked X number of guys or X number of times.

66. Let your lover do things to you that you don’t do with your husband (cum in your ass, threesome with two guys). All the reason for private sessions without hubby.

67. Speaking of 3somes. Try two guys at once.

68. Wear panties with slutty messages (Return to Husband Full, Make a Mess My Hubby Will Clean It Up, Fuck Me Harder Than My Husband). Show this to men you’re flirting with in front of your hubby: Unzip and show message “what do you think of these?” I have some that say “my hubby won’t mind” at the top of the butt that I let guys see when in bars or a dance club.

***ADVANCED:

69. BIG BONUS AND VERY HOT. HE DOESN’T KNOW IT YET BUT THIS IS A BIG TURNON: When you come home with your panties full of cum, take them off, put on something sexy, and put the creamy panties on his head so your lover’s cum drips on him. Just do it. Nothing tells him you got well fucked like cum in your panties. VERY HOT.

70. Or…lay him on the ground while wearing the panties and rub your crotch on his face. Very very hot. He might just eat your pussy. I’m getting wet thinking about it.

71. Or…if using condoms, empty them in your panties and put them on his head.

72. When doing this, rub his cock and tell him how good you got fucked and tell him he needs to see and feel how good the cum was that was inside you. Tell him to feel your well used pussy.

73. When fucking in front of your hubby, make him wear your panties.

74. Blow your lover and swallow, but leave some on your lips. Tongue kiss your hubby.

***If your hubby REALLY deserves to be teased. You are in control and he WILL do what you say.

74. If your husband is watching, tell your lover to make a mess of your pussy because your husband will clean it up. Then sit on him when you’re done and let it leak all over him. His legs, chest, even his face.

75. BONUS: make him eat your pussy whether or not you used condoms. If you came home from a date, tell hubby to pull your panties aside and eat your pussy, especially if he cheated with X. Tell him how good you got fucked. Just tell him to do it and he will do it. YOU MAKE THE RULES.

76. Make a list of consequences. Checked a girl out: You get a Tinder date. Watched porn: you’re free to be a porn star with another man for the day. Flirted with a girl: You fuck five guys. One nighters, all weekend, your ex, someone you both know. Anyone you want and you make the rules. Even if he has to fly you somewhere to fuck someone all week. Updates and pics are required.

77. Spanking.

***Clearly there a humiliation factor that you both will get off to. Men knowing they are fucking his wife, you fucking men you both know. Maybe a friend knowing. Spanking (naughty boys deserve it). Your lover’s cum on hubby. Your lovers being told to show hubby how you like it. Have fun with this. It will make the experience stronger.

78. The hotwife 69. Get in the 69 position with your hubby but have your lover fuck you so your hubby has a great view just inches from your pussy.

79. ADVANCED: Strap-on play.

80. Wear a Hotwife anklet. Guaranteed to get attention of men in the know.

81. Have a friend spank your hubby. I have a friend who is a bit kinky and knows about our lifestyle. She felt my hubby needed punishment for flirting with a mutual friend years ago. I brought a guy home on girls night and she spanked my hubby, with my lovers belt, as I was getting fucked by my lover. I came out with the belt and handed it to her. After a while I came out with my soaking wet panties for him to wear and she sparked him. Of course you need a friend you can trust for this one.

***This Hotwife activity has brought us closer. We are more open sexually and satisfied. After all, I get many times more sex than ever. Sex with my husband is frequent. HAVE FUN!

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marquiseoftease

What do dominants get out of chastity?

This has been asked so many times I’ll just put it out there once again. The below are my personal thoughts about chastity using a device:

When I put a man in chastity, during the situation / scene I get off on the fact he can’t get an erection. His body will try hard but it’s physically not possible. That’s very similar to other predicament bondage - like a body fighting the ropes, his cock will fight the bars of the cage.

He will be so turnt on, at the same time so frustrated. I get off on the sweet frustration, I’m weird like that. I like teasing, showing and telling him what he could have if it weren’t for the fact that he’s caged. I love licking and kissing his flesh through the metal bars.  Outside of the situation, I simply find it extremely flattering that he is wearing a cage for me. It is something that to a degree is a limiting factor in his normal life, but he copes with it, for me, because he likes to please me more than he likes the easy life without cage.  I like that the cage is an almost constant reminder of me, it cradles his cock like a grip of my hand, and the fact that being chaste and not cumming over a period of time means I’m on his mind almost constantly.

Most of all I love the fact that a man willingly gives up what most think defines him as a man - his cock. He gives up the ability to erect, to masturbate, to fuck, to cum, because I’m more important to him than his carnal desire.

And in exchange I make sure that the quantity of orgasms he’s giving up is outweighed by the quality of the orgasms I grant him.

#chastity

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