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I. When you’re driving home at 10 p.m. on a Tuesday, and you see his lights are on, don’t wonder if he’s home. Don’t think he’s waiting up for you. II. If you’re drunk and he’s the only one you want to fall asleep next to, resist the urge. You’ve passed the point of blaming it on the alcohol. III. If he gives you that look again, and he can’t keep himself from even touching your hand, remember he wants your body not your soul. IV. When you see him in public, don’t tell him you feel flustered. He’ll already know. V. If he starts to make you tremble because he spoke to you, because he looked you in the eye, smile and act like he doesn’t light a fire in you from the inside out. VI. If you find the need to tell her what he’s done, bite your tongue. She’s naive. She’ll find out the hard way.

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Things I have learnt before turning 21 (part 1 | part 2 [x]) 1. The world doesn’t owe you a thing. 2. You didn’t come with instructions, you parents were kind of new at the whole baby thing, they didn’t mean to drop you on the floor. 3. The bed is always better with clean sheets on it. 4. Telling someone you love them isn’t embarrassing. 5. You don’t need someone else to make you feel good. 6. School will fuck you over but it wont kill you. 7. The world wont stop spinning if you have to step off for a bit. 8. People are more concerned about how they look as opposed to how you look. 9. Put on a bikini, you have a gorgeous body. 10. Your first boyfriend doesn’t have to be your greatest love. 11. Laugh during sex. 12. You’ll want to give up a lot, don’t. 13. Grandparents can make the world go round. 14. A baby’s laughter will give you hope. 15. Holding hands is one of the best ways to show love. 16. It’s okay that you lost your virginity after your friends did. 17. Fucking and making love are completely different. 18. Water tastes like heaven after you clean the whole house. 19. Clean the house more often, so you don’t have to clean it all at once. 20. You’ll always be a little 1 year old in your parents eyes. 21. Asking for help doesn’t make you weak. 22. Ask questions, it’s okay that you don’t understand. 23. Never shout to be heard. 24. Don’t worry if you’re not doing what everyone else is doing. 25. You will hate yourself and then love yourself and then be indifferent and then hate yourself again. 26. Accepting love is hard. 27. Mums cooking wasn’t too bad compared to what you manage to cook. 28. Your parents will never age in your eyes; neither will your grandparents. 29. You need sleep. 30. Go to the cinema, the atmosphere can be brilliant. 31. Bowling is such a rip off. 32. Ice cream is better once it’s melted a bit. 33. Ask for second opinion from doctors. 34. Be honest about things. 35. Don’t just rely on condoms for birth control. 36. It’s totally fine to want to stay at home. 37. You’ll master cooking one meal and cook it so much you start to hate it. 38. Treat yourself. 39. Laugh whenever you can, it helps take away the stress. 40. You’re still alive, you’re doing okay.

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Suddenly you’re 21 and you’re screaming along in your car to all the songs you used to listen to when you were sad in middle school and everything is different but everything is good

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1)Don’t Change the way you dress for people who won’t notice anyway 2) When they tell you to run you better run and run fast 3) Don’t resent your mother when she says “I told you so” 4) It’s actually harder to like someone than it is to love them 5) Don’t let ANYONE romanticize your pain for any reason 6) No means no 7) Stop also means stop 8) If he doesn’t listen to you, punch him in the dick 9) Don’t be afraid to tell people what you feel. If you don’t like something, tell them. If you do, still tell them. 10) Late night texts don’t determine how much someone cares about you 11) Crying in someone’s arms is the truest form of intimacy and should be the only form you need when your brain and heart look like burnt scrambled eggs 12) Forever is the greatest lie anyone can tell you in any context 13) It should not take two bottles of NyQuil, a note stuffed under your pillow, a phone call at 2:56 AM and $3.50 in gas for you to understand you aren’t worthless 14) If you don’t want them to have your number you don’t have to give it to them 15) If you have cried together it means more than if you have slept together 16) If they are willing to walk you back to your room in the middle of the night while your shaking and cold they mean something. In some way they mean everything. 17) “Friend” does not mean fuck buddy and it never will 18) Just because I can doesn’t mean I want to 19) Understand what your Dad means when he says “I don’t like him” 20) Never say “You didn’t mean shit to me” or “I never cared about you anyway”. They were always shit. You still cared about them though.

20 things I’ve learned the hard way and need to remember (via ghost-cuddles)

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I’ve never been very good at math until I realized, It’s been six months since I’ve last spoken to you, thats approximentally 15,638,400 seconds since you’ve become someone I used to talk to everyday, to someone I never say a word to. I’ve always had to count on my fingers because big sequences of number made my head ache. But I find myself remembering a certain combination of 10 digits, But having enough courage, to hear the dial tone ring. I’ve always had a problem with negative integers, I can hear you saying, “The subtraction makes it a positive!” It might be easy for you to subtract me from your equation, But the outcome for me is quite the opposite. Now it seems to be adding up, That I’ll never be something you miss. And if one thing is harder than the Pythagorean Theorem, Then it has to be this.”

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1.) You will fall in love and it will be nothing like the movies. He’s not gonna come to your window and he’s not gonna kiss you in the rain. He’s gonna make you lay awake at 3am and he’s gonna make you wish you’d never met because your whole body feels like it’s on fire. 2.) School doesn’t make you learn anything except that people can be really mean. You won’t learn how to do taxes or vote or change the world but hell at least you can calculate velocity and bullshit a five page essay in two hours. 3.) You’re going to make mistakes and some of them will cause more damage and some of them you can’t fix. But that just makes other things happen and life throws a lot of curveballs at you that you need to make good things from. I promise it’s only as bad as you let it be. 4.) Kiss boys. Kiss girls. Kiss anyone you want and kiss people you don’t want to and cry about people who kissed people that weren’t you but never hurt yourself because of a kiss. 5.) Some days you won’t want to wake up or move. Some days, don’t. Most days, get up anyway. Take a shower. Sing. Pretend you’re happier than you really are. 6.) Don’t spend too much time hating yourself. Don’t act like someone else. Don’t waste time on pretending. Write love poems to you, from you and mean them. 7.) You’ll find yourself waiting for the weekend and waiting for summer and waiting for things to get better. Make them better and do not wait. 8.) Keep flowers always, wear whatever you want, hug as many people as you can. This is mandatory. 9.) Nobody knows what to do when you run out of toilet paper. Ask a friend. 10.) Never settle for less. 11.) People don’t always mean what they say or say what they mean. Ask a lot of questions and genuinely mean them. 12.) If they won’t hold your hand, don’t let them hold your heart. 13.) Nights are either the worst things or the best things. Sometimes you cry a lot and ask the stars why and sometimes you laugh and lay in the street. Treasure both. 14.) Things spoil when you try to force them to last forever. Appreciate the time you get with people or in places and don’t stretch it’s life longer than it needs to be. Not every friend will be with you forever. Know that it’s okay that way. 15.) Nobody understands their feelings. Write about it, paint about it, sing about it, dance about it. Cry about it. You’re not the only one who feels a little lost. Search for comfort in lyrics and poems. 16.) If your pillow isn’t comfortable, buy a new one. 17.) Nothing goes as planned. It’s beautiful though. 18.) People are going to hate you and call you terrible names but they don’t know what it’s like to be you and they certainly don’t deserve your attention. Pretend they’re sour milk. No one likes sour milk. 19.) Ever since you were born you have been working a full time job breathing and staying alive. You’re doing well. Don’t be so hard on yourself. 20.) Every action has an equal and opposite reaction. When you’re at rock bottom just know that your low may be low but there’s an equal and opposite reaction waiting for you someday. Soon enough you’ll be at the top of the world.

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You aren’t just someone I loved back then. You were my best friend, my best self, and I can’t imagine giving that up again. You might not understand, but I gave you the best of me, and after you left, nothing was ever the same.

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