A Day In The Life

I'm not magnetic or mythical...I'm suburban and typical

[girlvswhale]

Someone holds you for the first time in a long time and you are bound to think it is true love. The thing that it takes years to learn is that isn’t anything close to love. Love happens when they aren’t holding you.

It happens when they are washing dishes while whistling pop songs, or chewing on the end of a pen doing the crossword, or falling asleep in a chair reading a book. It is stories told in the dark, at 3am with your eyes closed. It is hating the way they say your name when you are fighting, how they tell you everything can be fixed when you are convinced it can’t.

Love is what happens when you aren’t touching but your heart still swells for them like a wave in a storm. Love is what happens during all the moments you blink.

[subburbanprisoner]

I guess, as an idealist, sometimes you need to be willing to sacrifice everything to live out your ideals.

[whitepeopletwitter]

[bloodytales]

Rule says women must wear heels. No flats.

Kristen Stewart takes off her heels in front of all the cameras and walks barefoot.

The only way to kill sexist rules is to openly disobey them.

[accarahara-deactivated20191231]

Why did you get married so young?

Well when you know you just fucking know

[thetigressandthewolf-deactivate]

Yeah and then you’re like ten years in and people are complaining about their partners and you’re like “yeah lol I literally can’t relate I’ve been with mine for ten years and it’s been fucking awesome”

[accarahara-deactivated20191231]

Fucking LOUDER

It’s been almost 3 years dude

[sleepycloudkitten]

“when you know you just fucking know”

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

i got married at twenty and we’ve been with each other for 7 years altogether now

[accarahara-deactivated20191231]

Yeah I was 20 when we got married and hands down best decision I ever made dude

[naked-yogi]

I’ve been with my partner for almost 6 years now and we’ve had virtually zero serious problems. We argue and have disagreements like every other couple but we don’t actually ever fight. 

When we were together for the first couple of years some of his friends (not friends anymore I might add) would always say shit like that to him, too “just wait in 2 years you’ll be arguing and fighting all the time.” NOPE hasn’t happened. Like I know it’s so shocking to some people that there are genuine healthy relationships out there? I guess it’s just really sad that ppl are so used to being in shitty relationships or being exposed to them it’s unbelievable when two people are actually content together forever.

[subburbanprisoner]

@ayeeswonderland this post is about us

[drinkingknights-blog]

Candyland: The DRINKING Game

Players: 2-4

Format: Board Game - Candyland

Drink: Beer or Similar Beverage

Rules:

The actual gameplay is exactly like the board game. However, each colored space has it’s own effect. Think of it as Kings and Candyland combined. The color effects are as follows:

Blue - guys drink, Purple - girls drink, Red - make or break a rule, Yellow - the player who pulled the card drinks, Green - make a rhyme, Orange - categories. Any card with double colors, the player who would drink drinks double. If you get a Sweet Spot - the Ice Cream Cone, etc., you finish your drink. If you hit a Black Dot, pass out three drinks. When someone wins the game, everyone other player finished their drink (the winner may finish theirs as well).

Result: Everyone drunk really fast. Especially when your friends are dicks and use the red spaces to make rules that increase drinks taken.

Submit your own drinking games!

[subburbanprisoner]

@ayeeswonderland let’s go

[psy-faerie]

My entire fucking house just went up in flames. Everything gone. Only saved my cat and dog.

[psy-faerie]

If anyone can help my Circle Pay email is [email protected]

Even Amazon GC would help I can food and pet supplies and new work supplies with that

I don’t even have words right now

Everything is just gone

[psy-faerie]

[psy-faerie]

My fucking house is on the news

[pastelwhips-deactivated20180730]

send elle at least $20 and get lifetime membership to my premium ($60) !!! message me here or on snapchat with a screenshot to be added.

[maitrechef]

Please make time, all the time, to check in with your partner.

I have been looking for wisdom in all corners and much to my surprise couldn’t find what I was looking for. By no means do I have such wisdom but I’ll share anyways because maybe you too find yourself in a similar struggle and at least you’ll know I can empathize.

Three years ago, though it feels like a lifetime, I was brand new to the kink world. I had experimented in the past but never with full intention behind it. But then I found her, or maybe she found me; we started with light scenes and eventually found ourselves entering into a 24/7 contract. And it was wonderful, blissful, beautiful.

When we started we both had little real responsibility beyond each other. As time passed I chased promotion after career jump after promotion. We created life. We created chaos.

Every aspect of my life demanded that I be on top. At work, at home. There was so little time to work on ourselves or each other that my perspective on our kink relationship didn’t just become skewed, it all together disappeared. We entered an agreement together that was supposed to shape every aspect of our lives and I did not hold up my end. I didn’t even realize I was (or wasn’t) doing it. I was so drained from everything else going on I was numb.

We didn’t talk about it. I felt so inadequate, and unworthy. My partner thought it was her, that she wasn’t worthy, that she did something wrong. I put her in sub space, in little space and abandoned her. I didn’t even know. And please don’t think that seeing your partner every night means you haven’t abandoned her.

Last night we dissolved our contract with the intention of a restructuring/re-roleing. There’s no new contract. This could have all been so easily avoided. Please check in with your partners, no matter how good and close you are they can’t read your mind. This lifestyle all relationships only work with truly open honest channels of communication.

So to summarize, check in with your partner all the time.

I repeat, check in with them all the ducking time.

If you can’t fulfill your responsibility as a top, let your bottom know, they deserve that. Same goes for you bottoms. it’s okay not to be at your fullest and need space or time but it’s not okay to leave someone unknowing.

I love you so much @the-gold-princess

[flyingpurplepizzaeater]

Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”

and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”

and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

[do-as-youre-told-deactivated201]

This is so well put I am stunned

[krockafella-deactivated20220707]

Always reblog.

[sour-watermelons]

What the fuck is the universe trying to teach me right now

[subburbanprisoner]

Being poor is like being an alcoholic. You’re always aware where your last dollar came from, where your next dollar is coming from and exactly how many dollars you [don't] have.

[subburbanprisoner]

If by the off chance I trust you enough to express to you that I am having a panic attack or a high anxiety episode and that I need to be by myself for 9 or so minutes please bear in mind that you already know the answer to all of your questions. So please refraine from asking (inclusive but not limited to) "what's wrong, how can I help, are you okay, what are you anxious about, what causes it, etc etc etc."

The soulution is that I need to be alone for 9 or so minutes. The why is that I have faulty brain chemistry likely resulting from being prescribed psychostimulants at the age of 8. That's it. If I fucking knew what I was anxious about I would be able to fix it wouldn't I? So please think before you prevent me from escaping for a short period of time or I might need to commit myself in order to escape for longer.

[meiamandrew]

The new republican healthcare bill

[subburbanprisoner]

To truly be an artist you must be like a child. You must believe in the impossible, leave hesitation to the ground to take leaps without looking, and be unwilling to accept that you are wrong. Art is never wrong. You can't be jaded and make art, you can't hold to conventional understandings of the world and society. Art is a rebellion.

[subburbanprisoner]

I never let my knives get dull; but that first day after I my knives put to the stones, every cut is refreshing

[blankpointdankmemes]

[czechs-and-holdings-deactivated]

Can we PLEASE remove the stigma for blue collar work in America?

“You don’t wanna be a garbage collector when you grow up, do you?”

$34,000 a year, no college needed?

God forbid you take an honest job $7,000 above Michigan’s average cost of living line.

“You don’t wanna be a ditch digger.”

Bitch, I was making $15 an hour, post tax, doing exactly that, the fuck is wrong with it? (Other than it was physically exhausting.)

We need to help America, as a whole, understand that college is not, and should not be he only option, and that there is NO SHAME in trade school or even getting a career right out of high school.

I, personally, know plumbers making $80,000+ a year. Better than most 4 year degree workers.

We need plumbers, janitors, truck-drivers, garbage collectors, machinists, to keep this nation running smoothly. And they deserve respect for what they do.

Miss me with your classist bullshit.