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10 Reasons I’m a Submissive

(in no particular order)

1. Because his pleasure is my pleasure.

There are lots of things in life that bring me pleasure. A perfectly roasted chicken. Unicorns. Glitter. Tootsie rolls. Fairy lights. Getting an A+. A really good action movie with lots of explosions and guns and violence and goofiness. Debating ridiculous philosophical and political and other stuff with my best friends. Traveling. Getting the perfect messy bun. Literally, the list goes on and on and on.

But nothing brings me pleasure the way that his pleasure does, the way my Dom’s pleasure does. And I’m not just talking about sexual pleasure – I’m talking about all kinds of pleasure. Sucking his cock and taking it all the way down my throat over and over until he feeds me his cum and tells me what a good girl I am for him and getting to revel in the fact that I’ve given him such pleasure that he couldn’t help but cum brings me such tremendous pleasure. But you know what else brings me pleasure? Knowing how pleased he is when I serve him his favorite dinner. Knowing how much it pleases him when I fold his t-shirts the right way. Knowing how much he loves and gets pleasure out of watching me sing along (badly) to my bubblegum pop playlist while I wash the kitchen counters. Watching his face light up when I meet him with a drink and a smile when he gets home from work. Kneeling at his feet and leaning against his leg so he can pet my hair while he reads or watches TV and giving him the comfort of knowing I’m there, knowing I kneel for him, knowing I serve him, knowing I love him, knowing that I’m his with that very simple act.

And when it’s sexual? The way he chuckles when I’m tied to his bed and writhing beneath his touch and whimpering and begging for release? It makes me smile inside. The way it turns him on to deny me? It makes me even wetter. The sick and twisted joy he gets out of ruining an orgasm or denying me one? It makes my girl parts tingle and makes me beg even harder. If he didn’t get pleasure out of the things he did to me? It wouldn’t be the same. I get turned on because of his dirty words and his talented fingers and the way he fucks me until I can’t think straight, sure – but, even more, I get turned on by knowing how much pleasure he gets out of watching me whimper and moan and beg and cry and do what I’m told.

It’s all kinds of pleasure. Any pleasure I give him, any way I please him, any way I make his day better or make him happy or make things just a little bit easier for him brings me pleasure. It pleases me to make him feel good. It makes me happy to know that I’ve made him happy. It makes me feel whole and safe and happy and good to bring him pleasure. It lights me up inside. That’s why I serve him – because pleasing him is what makes me the happiest I can be.

2. Because I crave structure and I crave it from him.

I am a person who craves structure. No, I don’t just crave it – I need it. I do better with rules and limits and a schedule in place.

But here’s the thing – I don’t do well with following the rules and limits and schedule when it’s wholly self-imposed. I can create a structure to follow when I have something to answer to (for example: a job). But when I am wholly left on my own I struggle to maintain that balance and those limits and that structure. I do well with picking one thing to focus on and setting up the structure for that (for example: gym and diet) – but when it comes to creating a structure for my overall life I get overwhelmed and tend to withdraw to a day of procrastinating and ignoring the schedule that I’ve tried to put in place for myself.

I am a person who does better when I know someone else has expectations of me. I have such passion and talent and drive – but I struggle with figuring out where to channel all of that without having something to work toward. And my brain works at such a speed and in such a way that instead of being able to focus in on a few options or possibilities I just see all of the options and end up in a never-ending loop of everything I could do and not knowing which to pick. So having someone to help me wade through that, help me set in place the limits and parameters and structure to figure out how to focus that drive and passion and talent… It makes it easier for me to know how to order my day, for me to plan what to get done when, for me to accomplish things and go to bed feeling like I’ve been productive.

So I crave someone who is willing to take on the very heavy responsibility of helping me create a structure for my life and then holding me accountable when it comes to sticking to it.

3. Because I don’t always do what’s best for me and when that happens I need someone I can trust to point that out to me.

It’s true. I have a habit of spiraling and, when I do, sometimes I can recognize it and set myself back on track and pull myself out of the hole. But sometimes I make a bad decision. And then I make another. And before I know it I’ve set myself on the path to a cycle of self-destructive behavior.

And then that happens, I need someone who can gently but firmly sit me down and talk me through it and help me set myself back on the right track. I want him to help me set limits. To help me set-up the rules. To, once again, help me create that structure - or alter the structure that’s already in place.

I need him to be my voice of guidance when I can’t guide myself. I want to know that he has my back. And I want to know that he’ll put limits in place for me when I can’t do it for myself.

4. I need someone to hold me accountable.

I am a people pleaser. I like to please people. And, true, if my mental health struggles and therapy have taught me anything it’s that you can’t live your life entirely focused on pleasing everyone around you. But having a set person in my life who has agreed to be in a relationship with me where he holds me accountable and gives me rules and structure and sets expectations for what he wants from and requires of me gives me a way to feed that people-pleasing need without going overboard and feeding my anxiety.

But it’s more than just feeding that people-pleasing need. It’s about being held accountable. It’s about knowing that if I say I’m going to do something or if he asks me to do something or if he sets me a task or a rule or what have you – that he’s then going to follow-up to ensure that it’s done and, if it’s not, that there are going to be consequences and those consequences are going to come from him.

It’s part of the structure that I need. And I don’t want to put this on someone who doesn’t want to provide that kind of structure or who doesn’t want to take on that responsibility – I’m looking for someone who gets a sense of fulfillment out of taking on that role. Who enjoys providing me structure, who enjoys holding me accountable, who enjoys leading me. Because knowing that he enjoys that helps me feel pleasure, helps me feel calm, helps me feel at peace.

I need to be held accountable. I need to know that there will be consequences for my actions. And I need to know that that accountability and those consequences will come from the person that I respect and trust most.

5. Because I want a relationship that’s a give and take.

So much of what you see on tumblr has to do with the Dom being responsible and taking on all the control and having to set in place all the rules, limits, and boundaries, and having to be responsible for the welfare of their sub and on and on and on…

But that’s not a real D/s relationship. At least not to me.

A real D/s relationship is about a give and take. Both (or all) parties take on responsibility. Both parties are responsible for watching out for the other, for caring for the other, for protecting and respecting and loving the other. Both parties are agreeing to act like adults, to handle disagreements with maturity and within the parameters set-up, to respect the limits and boundaries and rules put in place.

Your Dom takes care of you, yes. Your Dom agrees to hold you accountable. Your Dom agrees to lead you and pleasure you and take on responsibility for providing for your needs. But you take care of your Dom as well. I am responsible for watching out for him, for making sure he’s happy, for ensuring that he’s reaching his full potential and that I’m helping him in whatever way I can. I am responsible for talking to him, for telling him what I think and how I feel and for making sure that I share my problems and worries and issues with him. I am responsible for remembering that he can’t read my mind. I am responsible for asking him if he’s okay. I am responsible for listening when he needs to share his problems and worries and issues with me. I am responsible for taking care of him. I am responsible for loving him and respecting him and being the best I can be for him.

Because when he agrees to take on the responsibility of being my Dom – I, at the same time, am agreeing to take on the responsibility of being his sub. Because the responsibility of a D/s relationship doesn’t belong to just one party – it’s shared between both of us. It’s a partnership, a team, a unit. It’s a power exchange. An exchange. Which means there’s give and take. And I want that. I want to give my partner as much as he allows me to take from him. Because that’s the only way that both of us can remain healthy and whole.

6. Serving gives me pleasure.

Serving him gives me pleasure. Making a home not just with him but for him. Making it pretty, making it pleasing, making it a warm and happy place to come back to every night. Making him dinner. Doing his laundry (but not the ironing!). Making sure his shirts are all hung-up in the proper place when they come home from the dry-cleaner. Bringing him his favorite drink at the end of a long day. Washing him in the shower. Worshipping his cock. Keeping our home clean. Making sure I pick up his favorite snacks at the grocery store. Making sure he remembers to grab a water before he leaves the house for the gym. Serving him in so many ways.

Doing the little things (and the big ones!) that makes his life happier and calmer and altogether just a little bit easier – that makes me happy. Knowing that I’m helping him and making it easier for him to go through his day makes me feel complete.

And I know a lot of people will read this and ask what he’s doing to make my life easier and happier and calmer – and the answer is this: he’s doing so much. He’s holding me accountable. He’s providing my structure. He’s giving me a healthy and safe outlet for fulfilling my needs to please people and to serve. He loves me. He helps me make sure that I take care of myself – and takes care of me when I can’t do it. He gives me just as much as I give him. In his way, he serves me too. It’s a different kind of service than I give him. But it’s still service. Like I said, it’s a give and take.

7. Because kneeling for him brings me tremendous peace.

I suppose this could fall under service but it’s such a distinctive act that brings such tremendous fulfillment and peace that I felt like it deserved its own number.

It really is that simple: kneeling for him brings me peace. Kneeling for him makes me feel safe. Kneeling for him is fulfilling. Kneeling for him is a privilege. Kneeling for him is calming and pleasing and a position of both pride and complete and utter joy.

I love kneeling at his feet. I love kneeling in front of him. I love kneeling in the center of the room so he can watch me. I love kneeling simply because it’s where he wants me to be. It’s like meditation and prayer and supplication all rolled into one. I enjoy taking a position of worship on my knees. I enjoy worshiping him. I enjoy bestowing that honor on him time and time again. And I feel so tremendously lucky every time he allows me the privilege of kneeling at his feet.

It makes me feel safe, it makes me feel whole, and it makes me feel lucky to take my position at his feet. Because it is a physical, positional reminder of who owns me and it gives me the time to reflect on exactly why I picked him.

8. Because I don’t want to be in charge.

It really is that simple. I don’t want to be in charge. I am in charge of so much in my day-to-day life. I take on so much responsibility. I care for my friends, I care for my family, I feed the people I care about, I have tremendous responsibility in work, I am responsible for teaching new hires, I am responsible for providing advice on this blog (and yes, I am aware that is a self-imposed responsibility). And there’s more – so, so much more.

And when I’m done with that I don’t want to make decisions. I don’t want to have to make the rules. I don’t want to have to be responsible for what happens next. I want to be told what to do. I want to be told what is expected. I want to be told how to please someone and how to do it right. I want to submit myself to someone else’s control. I want to hand myself over to him and his decisions and his direction. I want that peace. I want that safety. And I want to end each day with that sense of fulfillment.

9. Sexually, I find far more pleasure in cumming for him than I do in cumming for myself.

Orgasms are great. I love orgasms. I really fucking love to cum.

But cumming for myself just doesn’t give me the overwhelming sense of pleasure (emotionally, mentally, physically, sexually) as cumming for him does. When he tells me how to get there, when he tells me what to say, when he makes me beg and cry and whimper and scream and tell him all of my darkest, dirtiest, most depraved fantasies while I try my hardest not to cum without permission… When he makes me wait for it, makes me edge over and over and over, making me hold off… When he finally tells me to cum. When he finally gives me permission. When he finally tells me to let go… It’s unlike any other feeling. Because I know I have earned that orgasm. Because I know he’s allowing me to have that orgasm because I’ve pleased him so much that I’ve earned the gift of it.

Orgasms are great. They really, really are. But orgasms are even greater when they’re a gift from him.

10. Because I love being told no.

I do. I love the reminder of who is in charge. Or who I have trusted with my welfare and my care and my pleasure and my safety. I love knowing that he’s paying attention to me. I love knowing that he’s watching what I do. I love knowing that he’s making sure I’m staying within the lines – because it reminds me every single time of how committed he is to me and to our dynamic and to the promises that we’ve made to each other.

And I love knowing that he’s in charge. And that he knows he’s in charge. And that he wants to remind me he’s in charge. Because it makes me feel safe. And, tbh, it makes me pretty damn wet.

apatheticjubilee-deactivated202

@fuckmethroughthesheets this aligns nicely with my experience of submission.

fuckmethroughthesheets

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his-brown-putita

Absolutely love this…. love You Daddy @strictpigowner

sweetsurrenderdoll

Things to make your sub feel owned.

Have her wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of her submission.

When she has broken a rule, talk to her as you punish and make her speak in detail about why what she did was wrong.

If your submissive does not respond to a command ask her first “Are you fighting me?” Check she has understood what is being asked, re-explain and the give her the full command again.

Make her take her take her clothes off every day as soon as she enters your house, apart from a collar: If she is not wearing make her kneel for you to fasten it .

Dress her when it suits you, or leave her instructions on what she is to wear.

A beautiful, special collar will make any slave joyous. Take the time to select the right one, and have her wear it as often as possible.

Give her anklets and tell her she must wear one of them every day, no excuses.

Whenever possible, have her kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.

Choose her hairstyle and go with her to get it cut to your specifications.

Whenever possible, have her display herself whenever you come into the room — legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, she is to be sure your view is unobstructed

When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure she has an alternative title for you besides Master, such as “my love” etc.

Use her sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever she was doing.

Choose a food that she dislikes and have her eat a small portion every day for a week.

Hand feed her from time to time

Have her crawl to bed each night.

Forbid her to touch herself when you are out of town

Choose her clothing each day.

Have her get your daily wardrobe ready for you the night before.

After punishment, have her kiss your boots and thank you for loving her enough to correct her.

Have her bring a warm towel and wash and massage Your feet each day after work.

Get her tattooed (Your choice of art and location).

Get her pierced (or preferably if You are trained, do it Yourself).

Get her branded.

Respect, but push her limits.

Ask her each night what she did that day that You would not have approved of. This gets her in the habit of being completely honest, and also makes her conscious of the things she could do better each day.

Teach her exactly how You want her to kneel, and demand perfection.

Reward her by allowing her to please You sexually.

Supervise her workout routine.

Each night she is to kneel next to the bed asking permission to sleep with her Master, and each night she does, she is to kneel by the bed in the morning and thank her Master for the privilege.

.Have her polish Your boots weekly, on her knees at Your feet.

Negotiate until you are both comfortable with the terms and then sign a contract.

Pin the contract on you wall where she can see it

Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Pain – 1000 words”

Have her keep a diary of her journey into submission

Instruct her that she may never get herself something to eat or drink in Your presence without first asking You if You want something.

Some evenings, keep her on a leash and take her with You no matter what You do….even if You do not speak to her or include her in Your activities.

Forbid her to speak or look at you for several days and simply have her obey.

When appropriate, she is to speak when spoken to.

Reward her by giving her delicious pleasure.

On occasion, share her, even if it is not sexually and in the form of servitude.

When it suits You, instruct her not to make eye contact with You without Your command.

Have her keep her body clean shaven at all times or else send her for waxing to suit your preferences.

Conduct random inspections of her body to make sure she keeps herself to Your specifications.

Make her wear a butt-plug under her clothes whenever she goes out alone.

Have her keep a butt plug in at occasions, during sleep, or when you punish or use her.

Train her to sleep with her legs spread

Master the art of the meaningful piercing stare.

Give her reading assignments.

Test her on the reading assignments, to make sure she learned the appropriate lessons from each.

Have her write a Diary to reflect on lessons she has learned.

Have her write a blog on her submissive journey

Instruct her to keep her toenails painted perfectly everyday, and check to see that they are before bed

Make it her responsibility to put the toys away after play and punishment, and to keep them clean and neat.

Reward her by letting her name her favorite scene, toys, etc.

Call her your slut, your pet, toy etc

Have her make a list of the 10 things that make her the most self-conscious, uncomfortable or embarrassed.

work with her, having her do the things on the list, so that she conquers those fears and hesitations.

Sometimes, pamper her — wash her body and hair, having her remain perfectly still as you turn her and move her about.

Hand feed her like a small child on occasion.

Have her eat from a dog bowl on occasion.

For transgressions: make her wear a sign to the next public function naming her crime.

Praise her dedication when she has pleased you well.

Instruct her that she is never to touch your body without permission.

Have her write a meditation about her submission, devotion and trust in you, to be said aloud each night before falling asleep.

For transgressions: deny her play.

For transgressions ignore her aide from using her, do not pet her, or talk to her, and forbid her to speak, move or touch you.

For Transgressions forbid her privileges i.e. food she likes, eating at the table, sitting on furniture, listening to music, watching television, use of phone/internet.

In the same ilk, For transgressions: deny her orgasm. Give her sex, but she can’t cum.

. For transgressions: Command that she is to be silent for a week.She may not speak, and will take whatever pain or pleasure you give as silently as possible.

Treat her like a pet in front of friends, making her present herself, turn herself, sit etc.

Give her a writing assignment: “The definition of Obedience – 1000 words”

Have her wear nipple clamps all day.

Tell her one morning that she must cum for you 15 times that day, and then write about the day.

Have her wear a butt plug under her clothing out to dinner.

On your birthday, let her receive your spankings.

Spend time training her how to move to please You.

For transgressions: stand her in the corner like a 3 year old.

Always flog her after completion of a task, even if it was satisfactory. A well flogged slave is a happy slave.

Speak about her as if she were not present.

For serious transgressions: deny her any D/s at all for a week, letting her do just as she pleases, not allowing her to serve you in any way, no punishment, no instruction, no play, banning titles of respect, etc. This will shame her and certainly make her strive to please you when it is over and she is in her place again.

Defend her honor to those who would disrespect your prized possession.

Pet her often.

Ban her from using the word “no” in ordinary conversation and have her say “I would prefer not”, or “I do not think so”.

Fondle, pinch, grope, slap your submissive at random times when you are preoccupied, out somewhere or passing on a staircase, simply because she is yours and you can.

Modify her body – have her pump her lips daily (both sets!) to keep them plump, keep her corseted under clothes in public.

Make her be webmaster for your site

Whenever possible, have her sleep in a cage.

Buy her sexy or slutty clothes to your liking.

Teach her things, expand her knowledge, in a patient daddy way.

When you are apart, call her and have her masturbate for you.. If you choose to play with others, make sure your slave knows who is first in your heart and that some things are just for her.

Lead her with a loving fist in her hair.

Wake her each morning with an assigned task for the day and make sure it is done by day’s end.

Have her clean keep the house sparkling with her body naked, her legs spread, or on her hands and knees where possible.

Teach her patience.

Videotape your play sessions and watch them together.

Have her place her regular wear shoes in a line by the front door. They should be in a straight line with the laces tucked inside. Inspect them periodically.

Have her kiss the hand/crop/whip that spanks her.

Keep a list of her transgressions in a little book. Let her slip for a while thinking you are not noticing. Then one day, bring out the book and have a day of atonement.

Have her be perfectly still and quiet while you bring her extreme pleasure. When she moves or makes a sound punish her then return to the pleasure.

Keep her locked in her collar when you are home. Wear the key to the lock around your neck.

When possible, have her cook and serve your dinner wearing nothing but a collar.

Buy her a digital camera and give her assignments to take pictures of herself for you in certain outfits or positions, etc.

Don’t be afraid to bring her to tears, for they are yours as well.

Take her and the dog to the park, both on leashes.

Have her fall asleep between your legs, licking your cock and balls, and tell her you expect her to be there when you awake.

Occasionally, fulfill her fantasy.

Keep her nails so long that she cannot touch herself

Master’s word is the last word.

Be consistent.

Take the time to talk to her, learn her fears, her dreams and fantasies. Use your knowledge.

Specify exactly how she will address you in private and in public.

If you are willing to correct her each time she forgets until it is a habit, have her refer to herself as “this slave”

Sometimes do not command her simply force her. Use force to hold her down or put her in the pose you want.

Give her a slave mantra … and ask her the same question with same answers every day to reinforce her understanding of her role and your expectation.

Repeat to her the facts/conditions of your contract and have her repeat them back to you. I.e. “You are my submissive, and I am your Master… I own…I am.., you are…. you will

Fuck her anywhere,This will show her you take what you want. You love her hole and what she’s offering . It doesn’t always have to be in the bedroom or on the couch. If she’s bent over in the laundry room, why not?

Make her asshole a fuck hole,Take her anally. It shows you want her body to be of your use, any hole and every hole. You’re physically telling her that body is yours, for your pleasure, and that what she has to offer is to be your fuck toy.

Cum on her face,Show her where you want to place your cum. she’s there to take your offering and she will love it. Many females will find this humiliating–her face is what she shows the world, and to have it in front of you serving as little more than a deposit will make her feel used. she will also have mixed feelings when she realizes how wet it makes her.

Objectify her,Measure her body parts, treat her like furniture and move her around like she’s a doll. she is your object.

Masturbate into her holes,Either with your hand and the tip into the hole or just mentally keeping in mind that you are using this hole to get yourself off. Again, she will feel used for your purpose, and she will love this treatment.

Ok i don’t know where any of this is originally from, if you do please let me know and i will credit. This may be two separate documents the last 5 or 6 points were in a diff font in my email.

beardedpatriarch-deactivated201

More bimbo wisdom from @sweetsurrenderdoll, the perfect woman.

his-brown-putita

An excelent list that more Masters and Dominants should add to their training techniques to ensure his sub, slave, bimbo, pet etc stays focused with her position as owned property and submissives, and keeps her goal oriented and continues to grow internally to serve with a happy heart and true purpose….

daddys-lil-livie

This is a great list!!

Goodbye Tumblr

Tomorrow is a sad day for the kink community so I just wanted to take a second and thank the wonderful kink community and the people I have met through tumblr! Y’all have seen me grow as a sub and supported me every step of the way and I will never never forget it. I am so thankful for the people I have met and the things I have learned! I am so lucky to be part of this community and I will miss all of you and the forum we have created on here... love you all so much and thank you for an amazing few years! As of now, I dont know where I’m headed to next in terms of social media and other forums so please feel free to add me on kik and stay in touch! I’ll keep those who want to know updated! Xoxo💕💕

My kik: caligirl781

thesecretsubject

An Open Letter To Tumblr Staff

Let’s be honest here I know not many people will see this, read this or frankly care about what I have to say, but I feel it is my duty to share with you how tumblr has changed my life.

When I joined this site back in April 2017 I was lost, I was miserable with my job and I was looking for some kind of place, a community of like minded people who I could connect with. I found it here on tumblr in the hypno-kink community. I started getting inspired to make content by amazing people who were making their living spreading their kink with the world and being proud. Tumblr gave us a space to do that by allowing explicit content to be tagged and away from children. I made a small business here online and amassed a small following.

As of yesterday I lost my friends, my family, my community. We have been torn apart by the flagging of NSFW content. Even though my page is still relatively okay with only a few posts being taken down, I have lost something far greater than my library of work, I lost my community. Time and time again we have been silenced for kink. Shamed by society as weird and deviants but who are you to tell us what we can or cannot create. I make part of my living making audio and video content that I would share here with people and now all of that is gone. I have to start over from scratch and for what? For corporations in a country I DON’T EVEN LIVE IN to decide what the fate of my channel will be.

I did all my tumblr work for free. I spent hours crafting the image I wanted people to see and sharing my views on consent. I used tumblr to help people like myself who were afraid to show their true selves and inspire them to be proud with all aspects of their lives including their sexuality and their kinks. Now, all that is destroyed.

So, tumblr staff I hope you are happy with the knowledge that globally you have set out to destroy not only small businesses but the communities that help people come into their own and feel safe. You have ravaged our home and our hub for friends and support alike, and for that I don’t think I can ever forgive you.

XOXO Dyllan, The Secret Subject

@staff @verizon

hypnodolls

Signal boosting n joining in.

What sucks the most is that Tumblr was founded as a place for free expression of all kinds.

Tumblr @staff spent years not just allowing but encouraging people to make their NSFW home here. Homes feature humour and silliness, and songs and quotes from our favourite shows and pet pictures and yes, even sex and porn because that’s just what adults are into. And not at a designated time, on a designated website, we do it when we feel like it because we’re not robots. (Well… Except for the robosexuals and those of us who want to be hypnotized to believe we are…)

Anyway…

Yes we can hang out on whatever platform pornhub or whoever ends up creating, but this being the “place for adult content” wasn’t the point. It was about being ourselves in all our moods and mindsets. Not saying “Oh okay, I want to talk comics, pets, jokes and then porn so I’ll go hang out on Comiclr, Petlr, Jokelr and Pornblr in turn.”

If you want to kick hate-speech and child abuse off the platform, no-one is going to have a problem with that, and the majority of your community will help you every step of the way, but you don’t protect anyone by destroying a community like this.

Honestly, it’s like finding someone’s snuck some kiddy porn into a book shop and your reaction is instead of dealing with the actual culprit is to BAN ALL BOOKSHOPS.

Apple get over yourselves. None of these companies are encouraging child abuse.

Oath, Verizon and Yahoo, this is only going to kill Tumblr in the long run and cause further damage to your reputations as small minded, short sighted overlords who never understood what made the platforms you run into the ground good.

The petition has over 350,000 signatures now if anyone wants to sign it.

femalelivestock2

Well said

Love your sexy posts. Message me if you’d like to chat

Aw thanks!

lovepublic-deactivated20181217

It has been an honor to make you cum 💦😢

Love you all! ❤️❤️

Reblog this. It may make a difference🤞🏼

staff

A better, more positive Tumblr

Since its founding in 2007, Tumblr has always been a place for wide open, creative self-expression at the heart of community and culture. To borrow from our founder David Karp, we’re proud to have inspired a generation of artists, writers, creators, curators, and crusaders to redefine our culture and to help empower individuality.

Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr. We’ve realized that in order to continue to fulfill our promise and place in culture, especially as it evolves, we must change. Some of that change began with fostering more constructive dialogue among our community members. Today, we’re taking another step by no longer allowing adult content, including explicit sexual content and nudity (with some exceptions).

Let’s first be unequivocal about something that should not be confused with today’s policy change: posting anything that is harmful to minors, including child pornography, is abhorrent and has no place in our community. We’ve always had and always will have a zero tolerance policy for this type of content. To this end, we continuously invest in the enforcement of this policy, including industry-standard machine monitoring, a growing team of human moderators, and user tools that make it easy to report abuse. We also closely partner with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and the Internet Watch Foundation, two invaluable organizations at the forefront of protecting our children from abuse, and through these partnerships we report violations of this policy to law enforcement authorities. We can never prevent all bad actors from attempting to abuse our platform, but we make it our highest priority to keep the community as safe as possible.

So what is changing?

Posts that contain adult content will no longer be allowed on Tumblr, and we’ve updated our Community Guidelines to reflect this policy change. We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.

Why are we doing this?

It is our continued, humble aspiration that Tumblr be a safe place for creative expression, self-discovery, and a deep sense of community. As Tumblr continues to grow and evolve, and our understanding of our impact on our world becomes clearer, we have a responsibility to consider that impact across different age groups, demographics, cultures, and mindsets. We spent considerable time weighing the pros and cons of expression in the community that includes adult content. In doing so, it became clear that without this content we have the opportunity to create a place where more people feel comfortable expressing themselves.

Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.

So what’s next?

Starting December 17, 2018, we will begin enforcing this new policy. Community members with content that is no longer permitted on Tumblr will get a heads up from us in advance and steps they can take to appeal or preserve their content outside the community if they so choose. All changes won’t happen overnight as something of this complexity takes time.

Another thing, filtering this type of content versus say, a political protest with nudity or the statue of David, is not simple at scale. We’re relying on automated tools to identify adult content and humans to help train and keep our systems in check. We know there will be mistakes, but we’ve done our best to create and enforce a policy that acknowledges the breadth of expression we see in the community.

Most importantly, we’re going to be as transparent as possible with you about the decisions we’re making and resources available to you, including more detailed information, product enhancements, and more content moderators to interface directly with the community and content.

Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.

Jeff D’Onofrio CEO

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My brief reactions to some Jeff’s remarks:

”Over the past several months, and inspired by our storied past, we’ve given serious thought to who we want to be to our community moving forward and have been hard at work laying the foundation for a better Tumblr.” With deletion of adult blogs, you’re clearly moving backwards. You can easily notice that porn is legal mostly in advanced, democratic and free countries and banned in underdeveloped and authoritarian ones (Asian Tigers like South Korea or Singapore that has become part of the developed world relatively recently are only exceptions). Freedom of our sexual expression is crucial part of modern society, tabuizing sex and sexual imaginery is backwardness.

“We recognize Tumblr is also a place to speak freely about topics like art, sex positivity, your relationships, your sexuality, and your personal journey. We want to make sure that we continue to foster this type of diversity of expression in the community, so our new policy strives to strike a balance.” You cannot promote sex-positivity and ban portrayal of things such innocent as female nipples in the same time. That’s ridiculous. “Bottom line: There are no shortage of sites on the internet that feature adult content. We will leave it to them and focus our efforts on creating the most welcoming environment possible for our community.” Seems that you have no idea what made Tumblr’s adult blogging community so unique. Sure, porn is everywhere. But in most places, there’s a clear distinction between it’s creators and consumers. In most sites, we can use porn only in the very passive way. Tumblr gave us an opportunity to create or re-shape professionaly produced porn according to our preferences, to express our own sexuality and to get in close touch with like-minded people in a friendly environment. It’s not something that sites like PornHub offer as well (at least not yet). “Like you, we love Tumblr and what it’s come to mean for millions of people around the world. Our actions are out of love and hope for our community. We won’t always get this right, especially in the beginning, but we are determined to make your experience a positive one.”

Well, actually you have just pointed a middle finger towards a HUGE (and very dedicated) part of your community and decided to destroy everything Tumblr meant for it.

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A better, more positive Tumblr

So what is changing?

Why are we doing this?

So what’s next?

Jeff D’Onofrio CEO

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So seems like we will have to throw in the towel 17 of december. We will continue to look for a platform. Contact us on the pornhub site when you find a similar platform dear followers.

They do this mainly to kiss apples ass to get back on the Apple store we guess. Thus ruin many clean porn blogs.

So want to keep seeing our content after the 17th, go to https://www.pornhub.com/model/couple-berlin 💔

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The end of Tumblr has arrived for a lot of us kinksters here on Tumblr as of Dec 17. You can find us at https://www.pornhub.com/users/masterofherholes Hope we all find a new home as relatable as Tumblr. Twitter is not an alternative. Sorry.

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Such a disappointment... tumblr is such a good forum for the kink community. Its a huge disappointment to see that it will no longer be allowed for use for us. 😢

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Thanksgiving by Master

My dear friend and Sub of 4 years Babygirl Jane asked me earlier, what I was thankful for this Thanksgiving and I replied, I would tell her, later. So, here you are my precious.

I’m extremely thankful for the opportunities that have presented themselves to me in my lifetime. The wonderful people that encompass my life with such vitality and passion, always fueling my need for more. Furthermore , the people that have come into my life via Kink/Tumblr, which have helped me work through anger, pain, remorse, shame, loss and most importantly the feeling of loneliness.

I’m also thankful for those wise voices of reason that I call my friends, lovers, partners and subs. Teaching me to be the best me, I am humanly capable of challenging myself to be.

Thank you,

Babygirl, Cuntly, Shandi, Kitten, MZA, Emily, Kaity and Aurora

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THANKSGIVING SENTIMENTS

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Thanksgiving by Cuntly

During this time of year, Cuntly has so many things to be grateful for such as having loving, supportive and amazing parents and friends. They motivate pup, make it feel loved and are always able to cheer pup up when its feeling down. But one thing pup is really grateful for, since it has become such a big part of its life over the past couple years is… kink. Cuntly has found a world that lets it be who it truly wants to be and to be able explore itself, and learn. Pup is grateful for the people it has been able to know through this world of kink. Cuntly is grateful to have found such a world that lets it be Cuntly, its true role as a fuckpup. Cuntly is grateful for its sub sisters, and to be able to serve Daddy with such amazing beautiful kick ass women by its side. Pup is grateful to have been able to meet these women… to be able to talk to them, explore with, ruin its holes with, grow with and for making Cuntly feel already so loved, supportive and also make Cuntly feel like it truly is apart of and belongs in this amazing family that Daddy has built for us. Last but never least, Cuntly is most importantly and beyond grateful for Daddy. Grateful to have found such an amazing man and dom that has made it feel beautiful in its own skin again. Cuntly is grateful that Daddy has always made pup feel so endlessly loved, supported, cared for, happy, motivated and determined to be the best possible little fuckpup for Daddy that it can be. Cuntly is grateful to be under the ownership of Daddy and to have the opportunity to learn from Daddy, grow, and develop with Daddy as a person and as a fuckpup. Cuntly is grateful for the time it has spent with Daddy, getting to know him, talk with, play with, and ruin its holes for Daddy and to do everything it can to make him as happy as he truly deserves to be. Cuntly is grateful for the time, energy, and dedication Daddy has given to Cuntly and to his family to make all of this possible for us together.