hi, i am kathrin and i am a collared sub.
I am a collared sub (32), living with my master, owner, husband and partner (L,42) in Germany.
while i am owned, collared and serve only him, i am also an individual, living breathing human being. i am a feminist and freely decided to hand myself into his care, to be led by his dominance and serve his will.
i am bi by nature and Sir sometimes allows me to play with other women or has them play with me.
due to my job, i will not post daily but will try to share as much of our life as possible.
we do live 24/7, but i have a (respectable) job that is important to me, a social life and Sir does not control my whole being, phone or money. we trust each other to be self-sufficient and reliable at all times.
these are my kinks
affectionate domination
spanking
free use
begging
CMNF
I call L Sir, Master, Daddy or my love. I am only allowed to use his first name in a public setting, where kink is not relevant.
L refers to me as darling, my good toy or his perfect slut.
in my role as sub, owned toy and wife, i live by the following rules
I wear no panties.ever.
I will serve Sir and his wishes to the best of my knowledge and skills.
i communicate clearly and respectfully how i feel and what i wish for.
i am allowed to ask for what i desire but it is Sir's choice to give it to me.
outside of my job responisbilities, i am available and free to be used by Sir at all times.
i am allowed to ask for spankings or any form of correction, if i feel i need it. it keeps me balanced.
we have a special rule when it comes to porn. i am turned on by receiving messages from Sir as well as short porn clips or gifs, so Sir enjoys preparing me with them throughout the day, to keep me wet and on edge, if my job allows it.
i am allowed to post my thoughts, wishes and desires as well as porn i like. i am also allowed to write about our experiences. i am allowed to talk to others on here but Sir will monitor the conversations.
punishment is not part of our dynamic. Sir corrects me gentle or with adjustments, but i work hard to not break any of the rules Sir has placed upon me.
i am not allowed to masturbate. if i wish to cum, i will inform Sir, who will decide if i am allowed to and how.
i will never cum without Sir's permission.
if Sir wishes to share me with others, i trust him completely.
at home and in appropriate company, I am naked.
daily
i wake before my Master and brings coffee to bed. if Sir wishes, he will have whatever his heart desires.
i check if Sir wishes me to be plugged throughout the day.
i prepare breakfast while Sir is in charge of all other meals. we both work full-time in demanding positions.
i make sure Sir has his coffee before he leaves for work.
(thrice a week) after work, i work out to be in shape for Sir, shower and shave what needs shaving.
usually, Sir returns home before me, so he prepares or brings dinner and we share a meal while speaking about our day. if Sir is in the mood, he will use my holes for his pleasure.
we cuddle and kiss whenever we can.
weekly
at least once a week, i receive a maintenance spanking. usually on saturday, Sir sends me to collect an implement. i then kneel in front of the bed, offer the tool of Sir's choice on my outstretched hands and tell him how many hits i think i need this week. if Sir agrees, he will take the tool, I will turn around, bow down, offer him my naked back and ask him to discipline me.
afterwards, Sir dries my tears, if there are any, holds and comforts me, until i have calmed down.
if Sir notices I am tense or stressed, he will spank me throughout the week as well.
monthly
once a month, Sir sits me down. i kneel in front of him, naked, and we plan out our month. private events as well as kink events we will attend, as well as our meal plans.
Sir also informs me of any changes he might wish for and we discuss them together.
send all the questions you want. Sir decides if and what i am allowed to answer. please be respectful.
please refrain from using dehumanizing language.
we are not interested in perpetuating old gender clichees.
we use stockphotos and do not wish to show our faces or bodies. we are both tattooed and don't wish to be identified.
the following things are not part of our kinks: breeding; dehumanization; infantilization; breast, pussy nd clit spanking/whipping; caging; ball gags; rimming; gun/knife play
