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Things I have learnt as a spoilt gf:

1. Rich men can be deeply insecure and needy. They will overcompensate by telling you how much they/their friends own, spend or how good they are at their job.

2. Because they are insecure, rich men can be extremely sensitive to people only using them for their money. If you ask them for 1k heels straight off the bat, they will remember this and flip on you.

3. In response, spoil them with affection until they feel more secure in the relationship. Make sure they know that the bond you share is based on real feelings. When you ask for things in the future, they will want to do things for you because they adore you. This is probably the main difference between a sb and a spoilt gf.

4. When they are in love with the pleasure of your company, don’t let them get too comfortable. When they want more and more of you, withdraw a little. Make them a little insecure, wondering why you are a bit colder recently. This will force them into chasing you back- which means you have leverage to make the changes you want. It’s a real relationship, so they have no guarantee of your affections unlike an arrangement-based relationship.

5. When they do something that pleases you, go back to spoiling them with love and attention. Alternate between affection and indifference as needed. The key is withdrawing- unintentionally small gestures like a cold reply, ignoring a message or refusing his dinner invitation. Never fully say no or yes. If they get angry, just cry and passionately tell them how much you love them. Then go back to being cold and unavailable until he eventually falls for you again.

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Flaming Hitachi by Sir Frederic Leighton.

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i don’t mind you knowing my flaws. if all you saw was beauty how would you handle my demons if my light fell short

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So over the "glamourized bowl"

Working as a sex worker wether as an sb or escort is so over glamorized in the bowl.. All I constantly see is designer this, designer that. Expensive vacations etc.

Like.. why are you doing this? To pay school? Start your own business? Be financially independent? Pay off your debts? Get that surgery you been wanting? Etc every girl has her own reasons.

DON’T get lost or fooled by the glamour. Yes these men will buy you purses worth a couple thousand, take you on luxurious trips but y'all you realize that you could be getting that money from them in cold hard cash.

Here’s my advice; SAVE, SAVE, SAVE. Pay off your debts first, put aside your at least a years worth of tuition, rent money for a few months! This isn’t forever you don’t know what can happen and btw you could live like a billionaire’s girl for years and wake up one day realizing your too old for this shit and have nothing to show for it except a closet and Instagram pictures.

This money isn’t free, you work HARD 24/7 for it. Don’t treat it like free money.

And please for your own sake ladies don’t be spending your cash on designer goods. Once you save a lot and think you would be safe if your income flow just stopped the next day for months on months (because it can), then okay do it within your limits. Just please be careful!

Save your cash, go to school, GET YOUR EDUCATION, invest your money!! I think the best goal to have in the bowl is to be a baller on your own. Aka invest in YOURSELF

Because let me tell you:

Your money, career, education won’t wake up one day and decide to leave you. These men will.