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[luuxe-noir-blog]

I admire u so much . How did u get so successful ? What are ur secrets ? :)

I’m in evil cold-hearted gold digger.

Emotions are a weak point for sugar babies maybe some won’t do the things I’ve done over morality; In my world I don’t know what that is. All i know is ambition, and perfection that’s what I focus on. Of course i’m not perfect, no one is i try to work with ideals. I try to be the “perfect sugarbaby” give the illusion of a relationship without giving too much.

For example: personalities, I’ve mastered the art of the “classy bitch” “ditzy college barbie” “mysterious” and “innocent in need” In the end manipulation all comes down to psychology. I’ll feed on a man’s weaknesses.

For example, tech savy dude: loves math and computers, he’s an engineer.

I start by breaking down the personality, ex: he likes math solving a problem makes him tick.So i play mysterious and in control. I always have him thinking he’s so close to figuring me out so I always keep him on the verge. I’m feeding this addiction, it makes the arrangement last. I’ll be far from anything he knows exotic personality basically and then i’ll hint nerdy shit every once and a while and it’s mind boggling to him he trips out and is intrigued. I full on commit to my personality, makeup, dark colors, hairstyle, the way I take my pictures etc, etc. Same for each personality.

I make myself feel like home. When he’s with me he feels comfortable, this creates an urge to keep coming back for more. Simple shit like a smell, Or clothes he likes, if i know him personally (knowing his real name, company etc anything allowing me to backtrace to his facebook and so on) I stalk my prey, i’ll find out shit about his mom and imitate that, like the same movies as him etc etc.

I’m quick on my toes, I mean quick! I see an opportunity take it. I take time to scheme.. I really study my POT.

Pseudologia fantastica: I’m a gifted pathological liar. All my stories make sense I have an answer to any possible question. I studied to be an actress when I was younger as a hobby, I learned to have a pokerface really early on and interview skills make it easy for me to assess any interrogation. I can really commit to my roles.

I’m brainy, I mean really brainy. I’m a narcissist I always want to know anything. I’ve done really well for myself with school and I’m basically a walking encyclopedia. I know various languages. This helps me lie in any occasion and look impressive.

Skills are KEY: I know my manners and my french, I learned to pole/lap dance, and I have amazing sexual experience.

The way I look, Idc what any sb says, they pretty girls get the most guys. I try to look as perfect as possible at all times. Face, body, hair, skin, makeup, clothes, shoes. I always want to look like a shiny new barbie

I’m a heart-breaker, this is just something I mastered throughout the years.. Manipulation, illusion, etc.

Drugs and alcohol. I use sparingly they just enhance me idk why they just do.

Experience:

“I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work.” -Thomas A. Edison

I learn and pick up quickly from myself and other sugar babies.

Stalking the TAG for the past 2 years. I’ve learned new tricks, ways of doing things, advice, etc etc.

Help from experienced girls, I honestly learned so much from 3 girls. I love getting inputs.

Being selfish. I wont post on the tag too often. Every man for himself, dog eat dog world persona.

I guess one of the most important was working my way up, i escorted like crazy to build my wardrobe and get a fitness trainer & take classes in order to better myself. This gave me a better chance with higher rollers. I look and act like money so i get money. Men can tell whatsup!

Lastly..Bluntly saying I’m just honestly cut out for this. Not all girls are..

I’m just really strong & independent. My expectations in life are unreal, I’m a firm believer that nothing is unattainable for me.

[study-revolution]

gentle reminder: you are very capable and I’m excited for your future

slightly less gentle reminder: you do have to work for it

[apolohgy]

not to start any drama but once you realize that you do not need men to be happy/complete/sexually satisfied & that their roles in the lives of women have been greatly exaggerated, you open your life up to a quiet and peaceful independence. i appreciate that you can want men and love them, but you don’t need them for a single solitary thing, not even to become a mother, and once i understood that i added 548 years to my life expectancy

[cerencia]

started to feel like this after almost one year of dating and my life and relationship improved drastically!

[one-peonypetal]

Some things I retained from being a sb:

1. Checking for a ring on his finger

2. Eyeing the quality of a man’s clothes, the way he holds himself and from there, deduce his income

3. Checking out which men get off at the wealthier tube stops on my daily commute

4. Glancing at what cards a man has when he’s paying for dinner

5. Complete confusion when a man wants to split the bill— at this rate I’d rather pay for it

[one-peonypetal]

I haven’t been here for a while— was travelling around, working, enjoying vanilla life. I haven’t been doing sb work since last summer, but I’m a mistress of some sort still. The lessons and mindset I had as a sb helped me work harder and harder, always trying to upgrade my looks, mind game tactics and general self-improvement. What has everyone been up to?

[one-peonypetal]

I've been trying to find a SD but I only got scammed twice!! Can you help 🤷‍♀️ 😭

If it’s too good to be true, it probably is.

[spoiledvirgo]

If you stanned all the poc models in middle school then you know the pride I do 😌

[cultof-theheaux-deactivated2021]

The only way I’m having a kid.

[afrocanhoney]

Legit.

[trapqueenlioness]

I am coming into my femininity fully and shamelessly now. I seek to be the most feminine I can be. For this is who I was born to be. I was brainwashed to hate my identity as a woman and my own sexuality has been distorted by years of internalized images and abuse. I am free. So are you.

[one-peonypetal]

I’m done with trying to meet people online. I’m going to go and enrich my life with art galleries, exhibitions and lectures at the best institutions, art classes at the Royal Academy, wine tasting, gym classes in the best neighbourhoods.

[one-peonypetal]

I dumped every single one of the guys I kept around who only offered PPM. Making space for something better.

[one-peonypetal]

Just asked for a 60% higher allowance and explained that it might not be standard for my city, but it’s what I need this month. POT agreed instantly, saying that he’s happy because he wants to be helpful to me, not just requesting an arbitrary number. Hmm.

[one-peonypetal]

He cancelled on me because I didn’t text him everyday. 💀

[one-peonypetal]

Just asked for a 60% higher allowance and explained that it might not be standard for my city, but it’s what I need this month. POT agreed instantly, saying that he’s happy because he wants to be helpful to me, not just requesting an arbitrary number. Hmm.

[one-peonypetal]

This POT just told me his full name on SA after typing an essay on his background and what he can offer me... Time to screen if he can afford me.

[senseitive]

being lowkey doesn’t mean you’re MIA. it just means i know y'all see me but my goals, moves, accomplishments & relationship is kept private

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[scratching-silver]

that’s why she got them all

[toastbutteregg]

[one-peonypetal]

If anyone says anything about how soft my voice is again, I’m just going to smile prettily and say that I don’t need to raise my voice to be heard.

[latinasugarnspice-deactivated20]

Little things you can do to upgrade your life

Sit up straight

Walk confidently

Speak slowly and don’t use slang, incorporate new vocabulary.

Think before you speak. Is that TMI? Is that negative? Words are powerful, use them wisely

When someone gives you a compliment, always accept it with a “thank you” even if you disagree

Compliment strangers

Drink a cup of warm water when you wake. It has the same effect as lemon water but it’s better for your teeth

Aim to drink 2L of water a day.

If you drink 30 min before your meal you will eat less. Don’t drink any liquids while you eat or until 30 min after your meal, it’s better for your digestion

Want a flat stomach? Don’t eat anything 4 hours before bed and only eat the size of your fist in carbs per day

Practice mindfulness, notice when your mind wanders and bring your attention back to the present

Meditate 5 min every morning or in bed at night

Charge your phone in the living room at night so you’re not tempted to look at it before bed or first thing in the morning. Plus, you’ll have to get up to turn the alarm off so you won’t snooze

Make your bed every morning

Clutter is mentally toxic, keep only what you need and keep it tidy

Aim to only clean your home for 5 minutes a day. You’ll probably end up doing more. This trick works for anything you don’t want to do

When shopping, don’t buy things the same day. If you still want them after a few days, go back

Always do your best. Always

Forget motivation. Count from 5 to 1 if you need to do something you don’t want to. It tricks your brain. You can also focus on how you’ll feel once you’ve completed the task instead of thinking of the task itself.

Buy fresh flowers for your home.

Pamper yourself. You can do it yourself at home

Get massages. You can get Groupons

Always have manicured nails and toes. Sèche Vite top coat is a must!

Buy nice pyjamas and lounge wear. Look good for yourself.

Listen to classical music when you study and when you clean your home

Listen to music when you drive. While others will be road raging, you’ll be too busy vibing to notice

Use the 50/30/20 rule for your finances. 50% on living expenses, 30% on entertainment and shopping and 20% in savings

Take advantage of banks offering money to open new accounts

Have an emergency fund: 3-6 months worth of living expenses in a high interest savings account

Celebrate every time you get money whether it’s in interest, pay checks or even money you find on the floor. You can just do a little dance. You’ll attract more wealth.

Leave money around your house. It will be a reminder that money is abundant.

Watch only 1h of TV a day and no reality TV

Don’t read gossip magazines/blogs.

Get a library card and read at least one book a month.

Cut out toxic people. If you can’t, try not to be around them as much

Socialize with loved ones a bit everyday even if it’s just a phone call. It’s good for morale

Treat everyone with respect. If someone disrespects you, know that it’s got nothing to do with you and everything to do with them and don’t get caught up in it, keep your composure, you’re better than that

Take up a hobby or two, you’ll be a more interesting, well-rounded person

Listen to podcasts

Try only changing one thing at a time. 3 months of consistency doesn’t mean you’re out of the woods, but it’s the foundation. Don’t be too hard on yourself when you stray. Habits you’ve had for 20-30-40 years will not be easy to change. Baby steps ;)

[modelinterrupted]

I live this life and I’m out living an amazing life.

[jussstahoe-deactivated20191230]

Amazed at how many of these things I do. Great tips.