Freestyling is going in the “real world” and finding a generous benefactor. You would not be utilizing a website.
I feel like freestyling is meant more for women who want to marry their SD’s as opposed to simply having an arrangement. Freestyling is definitely the gateway for something more long term. There is definitely a lot more emotions that come into play versus a typical arrangement.
greater potential for something more long term, such as marriage
control over who you approach
easier to get a general feel of who you’re talking to
making a great first impression
meeting for the first time in a public area, so it’s a lot safer
easier to get emotionally invested and therefore, your game will be much better
lack of privacy because in his mind, he’s “really” your partner/boyfriend
he will be involved in your life much more heavily than an SD
if you don’t play your cards right, he may think you’re a gold digger
it’s difficult to tailor yourself to his needs, so you need to be able to read people well
a lot more time consuming and you invest a significant amount of energy into it
usually only works in a densely populated area or affluent area (LA, Chicago, Miami, NY)
Some of this is copy pasted from one of my articles
Most men here are poor from simply being young or being in debt to the college itself. But never pass up an opportunity to meet new people or be friendly. You may never know how wealthy or well connected they are which can lead to amazing opportunities in the future. Besides, you may be to able to bump a grade up in an annoying class if you’ve been working your professor and TA all quarter/semester. ;)
Upscale Country Clubs and Events
This one pretty much speaks for itself. Rich men love to throw money into leisure; but what they love more is throwing money in front of their buddies. You’re a beautiful woman. Chat, be friendly, and sweet.
Competition comes naturally to these men. Stir the pot a little, they’re going to beg you to chose one of them. Give each men wind of your scent, but only the most gentlemanly and willing to open his checkbook gets a taste. ;)
I literally cannot wait to be 21! :) My best friends are girls who are based in LA and San Diego and they know I’m a picky girl, so they always take me to super nice places. It’s easy to meet men here, because they’re here to relax. You can also try for upscale bars near major universities (think Harvard, UC Santa Barbara, Stanford, MIT, etc).
Things To Remember While Freestyling
Remember you’re looking for a rich boyfriend, not sugar daddy. You can’t really bring up cold, hard cash with these men. Perhaps eventually they’ll give you a credit card, but for the most part, they’ll just be spoiling you rotten with clothes, jewelry, shoes, and exotic trips.
You need to understand that you have to be very sweet, friendly, and socialable. But being overtly so will make you come off as manipulative and a bit of a gold digger.
You’re not the only one. When freestyling, you’re not the only girl actively looking for a rich boyfriend. You’re going to have a lot of competition.
Look for men who dress in well-tailored clothing. It doesn’t matter if his style is good or not, but look at the quality of his clothes. Precise ironing, tailoring, and stitching reflect that he buys good quality clothes and can afford them. They’re all not going to wear suits, so don’t be fooled by expensive watches.
Look for the ones who pay in cash. And if they don’t pay in cash, it better be a black card. Rich men pay in cash. A platinum card doesn’t mean anything, ha.
Look for men who tip well. Kind, thoughtful, and understanding of hard work.
Don’t act thirsty. If a guy’s not interested after you approach him, please be respectful and leave him alone.
Don’t work every rich man in the room. It’s a turn off and it’s very transparent.
Make eye contact, smile, and let him come to you. It will feel more natural for him to approach you.
Exchange business cards and numbers. Let him know you’re a professional (even if you’re not), so that he knows you’re not gunning after his money. On the plus side, he will know that you’re used to being independent and supporting yourself, so that he’ll want to impress you with nice things.
Understand that sometimes it doesn’t work out. Maybe he’s not doing enough to make you happy or spoiling you enough. You’re always welcome to stop talking to him. Don’t waste your time and have fun!
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