Sunny's Place

hi, I'm Sunny Rue. bi, she/her, 30s, Blog is 18+, see pinned post. Header is "Nymph and Satyr" by Arnold Böcklin, 1871. https://ko-fi.com/sunnyrue

[sunny-aside]

A little bit about me and this blog

Call me Sunny 🩷 I'm queer.

this blog: queer & dirty

Here I write stories and thoughts about queerness and sex. The writing in this blog is adult, erotic content. 21+ only.

Sunny, can we chat?

I'd rather you send me an Ask. I'm happy to hear from you about my writing, if you want to confess something, want to ask for advice, or just have any weird stuff you need to get out. Asks are where it's welcome!

I have a Ko-fi

I don't know what people would want from this, but I'm open to ideas. Send me an ask.

Some tags I use:

#sunny aside - tag I'm using to find my original posts

#d/s stuff - kink, dom/sub dynamics, and so on

#personal #journaling- my miscellaneous thoughts, mostly non-sexual life stuff, mental breakdowns, etc.

#q and #reblog queue - I'm not here, but I left some snacks for you on the counter.

#us politics - filter this if you don't want to see anymore of it. I'm sick of it too.

✨I love and support all trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people; queer folks of all kinds, people of all races, ability, cultures and religions. ✨ Bigotry is not welcome here. Ableism, anti-fatness, racism, sexism, authoritarianism, fascism and cruelty are not welcome here. I believe it is our moral obligation to protect and support each other, and to resist systems of oppression that terrorize our neighbors.

Some quick links to stories/sexy shorts:

Let me take control

Thinking of you

Night Alone

When they say "Good Girl"

Bottoming on top

Do you pay Respect to the Beings of the Forest?

Remember the safeword

Girls and weed and no sex (SFW except for drug mention)

What You Want m/f

Never Go to Bed Horny wlw

Sub Space (m/f)

Make a girl cum in your arms (femme w/ NB partner)

Updated 3-1-26

[mousidy]

the state does not need to assign you a sex, nor does it need to keep inalterable record of it btw

[mousidy]

a very interesting terf objection to this one boils down to "but how would the state know who to protect?" because it speaks to the incredible privilege of being in a class the state actually ever remotely wants to protect. most oppressed groups do not want the state to have a registry of them, lol

[mousidy]

the patriarchy has done a great job convincing white cisgender women that it's in their best interests to maintain it

[vacuously-true]

Researchers can do studies that track disparate impacts across genders just fine without the government storing your assigned sex as part of your legal identity. They do this with race and orientation and disability and so on just fine.

A census can understand population level trends just fine without storing your assigned sex as part of your legal identity. They can ask for this information in the census. The census tracking population level data is not the same as your assigned sex being permanently part of your legal identity. (At least, the way my country does a census.)

Your doctor can know your anatomy by you communicating it to them if/when it is relevant. There is never a time when they might need to know something that could only be conveyed by your assigned sex being officially relayed to them via government documentation. You can just use your words. The same way you tell your doctor any other part of your medical history.

People respond to "the government doesn't need to store your assigned sex as part of your legal identity" as if they are hearing "no one should ever acknowledge gender or sex at all" but that's not what's being said.

Your birth certificate conveys important legal information about you. Your name, as a designation. Your parents, as they have a legal obligation to you. Your place of birth, as that place has a legal obligation to you. Date and time of birth, since age is important for application of some laws.

And sex. That's on there too. But what is the legal relevance? What laws is the government going to apply to you differently based on what sex is on your birth certificate? I can only think of one thing my government really uses that for, and that is to determine who has to sign up for the draft. And guess what, fuck that shit anyway. The government also used to use this to decide who is allowed to marry who. They don't do that anymore. For now.

There is literally no reason my assigned sex needs to be part of my legal identity. My government is not using that for anything (important). It doesn't matter. If the gender markers on everyone's IDs vanished tomorrow nothing (except maybe the draft) would be significantly negatively affected. Data collection for research could continue as usual since researchers usually have people self report these characteristics rather than checking their government IDs. My doctors would still know which organs I have and if they forgot, I could tell them. I don't want anything to be part of my legal identity that doesn't have to be.

[sunny-aside]

My best friend threw me a surprise party for my birthday!

[sunny-aside]

PANIC SHACK WAS SO GOOD. THEY ARE SUCH FUCKING INCREDIBLE PERFORMERS THEIR STAGE PRESENCE WAS FUCKING CAPTIVATING THEY SOUND PERFECT THEY MOVE SO WELL TOGETHER THEY SAID FUCK ICE FUCK TRUMP FREE PALESTINE GO SEE THEM IN PERSON I GOT CHANGE I WANT CHANGE

[chaunceyandchumleysdad]

If you can at grin and bear it for 3:21, I'm kicking off the weekend with the Welsh band Panic Shack and their new single Grin & Bear It.

[sunny-aside]

"That's it, the kid gloves are coming off!" I say, taking my gloves off to reveal an even tighter, smaller set of kid gloves. "Aw hell."

[sceptixfakemon]

we deserve to have media with fat characters that like being fat and that are confident and happy in their fatness and they do not want to change that one bit im being very reasonable here

[ego94]

“if you’re plus sized you can just shop on shein/amazon/cider, they have a good selection!!” yeah but i don’t want to rely on fast fashion. i think fat people deserve more ethical and high quality clothing choices

[onlyroxxie]

Just posting this here:

Fashionbrandcompany.com

Shopmyviolet.com

Misscandyholic.com

Forestinkclothing.com

Shoptunnelvision.com

Universalstandard.com

Loudbodies.com

Tuesdaybassen.com

Shopsoftcore.com

Snagtights.us

[hecatelund]

Shout out to Chub Rub Clothing too! By and for fat people and really cute to boot!

[asoftgoth]

a few more I would add because I get asked about clothes a lot:

foxblood.com

anthropologie.com

killstar.com

midnighthour.com

and la femme en noir goes up to 5xl in their new items!

Vixen by michelinepitt.com is another amazing brand that goes to 5xl also! Micheline is a cofounder of La Femme En Noir btw, im a big fan

[mortarandsquishle]

THANK YOU

[igrabbedthemoon22]

Maya kern is also a shop for plus sized people! Cute skirts highly recommend! @mayakern

[poes-crypt]

Can also recommend @shopwitchvamp

[myjetpack]

My latest cartoon for New Scientist

[voroxpete]

To be clear, this isn't a bit. This is what they actually did. "Its too late" is the new "Climate change isn't real"... And its still a lie!

Every serious climate scientist agrees that there is no such as thing as too late, just as there is no such thing as too early. We should have done a lot more than we have to fight climate change, and the world will suffer for our inaction, but there is no point of no return. We can always work to reduce the amount of suffering that occurs, and eventually turn things around to the point where our planet is healing once again. Do not believe anyone who says it's "too late".

[oxfrnk]

don’t!!! fake!!!! your!!!! interests!!!! to!!!! make!!!! someone!!!! like!!!!! you!!!!

[the-last-d-boy]

don’t!!! bury!!!! your!!!! interests!!! to!!!!! make!!!! someone!!!! like!!!!! you!!!!

[wind-at-your-back]

don’t!!! go!!! wasting!!! your!!! emotion!!! lay!!! all!!! your!!! love!!! on!!! me!!!

[shamebats]

"it's just stress" oh thank god, it's just the silent killer that slowly kills you, perfectly harmless, no need to worry

[stackslip]

we're moving to an internet where children would be banned from reaching out for help and friendship online but abusive parents can post their children's every second online to humiliate and expose them for money with no pushback

[theaspecyear]

People need to understand that the point ISN’T “being single is not a failure if you’re aromantic”, the point is being single is not a failure full stop.

You can be allo and be single; it’s allowed. You feeling attraction doesn’t mean your priority NEEDS to be finding romance (it can be! But it also can not).

Being single should be normalized no matter what your romantic/sexual orientation is. It isn’t a tragedy.

[angel-in-your-basement]

Life is too short to have sex you don’t like. Be gross, be weird, don’t do it at all if it’s not for you. Expand your definition of sex. Remove yourself from things that don’t feel good. Find positions and kinks and toys that work for you. Don’t let anyone tell you that sex needs to happen a certain way or happen at all. Orgasms are optional. Involving your genitals is optional. Everything is optional. Do what you like to do and respect what other people do and don’t like to do. Good sex doesn’t make you feel bad about yourself. You deserve to have pleasure in ways that work for you.

[submissivefeminist]

Make her say good things about herself while you fuck her. Associate her pleasure with self confidence. Condition that bitch to love herself. 🥵🥵🥵

[polyamorousmood]

It really says something that a lot of monogamous people consider polyamorous and aromantic to be "opposites" but every polyam person I know took one look at aromantics and said "they're just like me for real"

[silosworld]

Poly folks x aro folks in the sense that "alloromantic heterosexual monogamous people view love and sex as an entirely different entity than me, and that makes life kinda strange"

[rincent-van-uggh]

[aromanticofficial]

official aro-polyam solidarity post

[castformi-deactivated20241025]

dystopia au where we are all assigned one of two chosen genders at birth

[peppylilspitfuck]

Thanks to ultrasounds, the genders can be assigned before birth.  The people are so excited to conform they throw “Gender reveal parties” to make sure their offspring exist in a strict binary since before they can even form thoughts. 

[slightlykylie]

Children are color-coded according to their binary assignment. 

[darkersolstice]

One of the genders is seen as inherently inferior.

[yothobro-deactivated20200505]

This all sounds really effing creepy when you put it that way

[rooksandravens]

#BECAUSE IT IS

[fuckyeahfeminist]

And if you deviate from the assigned gender you can be disowned by your family, fired from your job, and beaten by authorities.

[rodserlingofficial]

[shamebats]

Also, if you’re assigned the “needs to be weak, little & pretty” gender they feed you less.