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                                     trying to post something positive every day                                      trying to get better, even if it's in small ways

[lovenotesuggestions]

The stars are proud that the matter that they were once made of has been transformed into something as beautiful as you.

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

you’re not falling behind. you are still young and have a whole life ahead of you. you have enough time to explore things u love and experience your life and make your goals come true and find reasons to live. take things one day at a time and don’t let the fear of falling behind stop you because life isn’t a race.

[junkiechurch]

oh u haven’t heard?? it’s all gonna be ok

[lovelysuggestions]

i just want you to feel love

[arrogantsuggestion]

Fuck anyone who’s ever made you feel like you were hard to love.

[fdsfjdsfjkf93723679267-deactiva]

in case you haven’t heard it today, or don’t fully realise it yet: i promise you that most people in this world are kind, loving and understanding. the people around you want you to succeed, they do not want you to fail. your friends don’t hate you, they love you, and they want to see you grow and prosper. 

the world is not as bad as it seems. don’t forget that.

[jollyreginaldrancher]

Sounds fake but ok

[fdsfjdsfjkf93723679267-deactiva]

good news: it’s not fake. everything i said is true. being dismissive towards good things is a damaging mindset to have. you’ll feel a lot better if you have some trust and if you’re willing to consider optimistic viewpoints.

[bluelikecloudss]

Is this what non depressed people feel like ? Damn. You’re so lucky

[fdsfjdsfjkf93723679267-deactiva]

i’m extremely mentally ill and extremely depressed at that. deflecting good advice that encourages you to think positively about life by claiming that the person who said it is not depressed (when i very much am) is also a very damaging mindset to have.

[supportive-suggestion]

Same anon for the trigger warning. I thought it’d be better if I sent her a couple anons on tumblr, basically telling her she should call a hospital or emergency service. She answered, I gave her a few more tips and a big loving note and let her know it was me in the only way she would (we use certain emojis it cute) and then she messaged me. She told her mum and a crisis team that will see her in a day or two, I’m so proud of her 💚

so sorry for the late response anon! 

i’m so happy to hear your friend is doing better and you found a way to help care for her!! much love to you both and i hope her road to recovery is successful!!

xx

[plutothewitch]

september will be kind. september will be magical. september will bring the missing energy. september will be working towards our goals and self. september will be a month full of growth.

[allbusybees]

forgive yourself. whether you fail a test, eat too many cookies, say the wrong thing, fail a class, or spend a whole day in bed — learn to forgive yourself. the next day will be better. the next day will be a day closer to your next success. you can do it.

[b-b-e-e-s]

( other versions: frog, moth, spider, worm )

[trapcard]

I can understand the sentiment of “im going to change a Bad Behaviour because of someone close to me” but that the end of the day you have to do it for you. Not to be a pessimist or w/e but if something goes wrong with that person down the road you lose your only motivation for change and it’s easy to relapse. Like being inspired to change by someone is one day but actually changing should be for you and because it’ll help you grow as a person, not because it’ll make someone love you or s/t along those lines. 

[cwote]

It’s Okay To Say...

NO, if you don’t want to do it.

NO, if you don’t like the people.

NO, if you’d rather relax.

NO, if you’re already over scheduled.

NO, if you don’t have the time.

NO, if it doesn’t fit your values.

NO, if you feel forced to say “yes”.

NO, if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

NO, if it doesn’t make you happy.

[lightheartedsuggestion]

It’s okay to be excited. It’s okay to be nervous. You’re doing the right thing, I promise x

[sunshineysprinkles]

If you’re reading this, it’s too late. The positive vibes are already coming for you, get ready. You have no choice but to have a good day now.

[findingmyrecovery]

I’m constantly forgetting meds and missing doses, so here’s something to pass around as a reminder.

Have you taken your medication today?

That other medication too?

Did you have the food/water you need with it?

Do you need to order any refills?

[ashlecat]

Reblog to save a life

[prettypositivity]

things it’s never to late to do:

change

apologize

love

forgive

[supportive-suggestion]

I guess I need to put a trigger warning on this: So, my friend is severely depressed and she lives miles and miles away across the country so I can’t physically be there for her. She needs constant care or things get bad. She doesn’t ever message me about her problems but then posts about them on her (kinda) private tumblr about trying to commit suicide and I feel obliged to talk to her about it but she says that she doesn’t want to talk to friends about it because they’re always busy..........

–Part two of that trigger warning post: I just want to help her but my life isn’t the best either, I think I’m struggling with several mental illnesses myself but I’m never getting them checked out (that’s my problem though). I really want her to be okay but there’s nothing I can do anymore. I encourage her to stay in a job when she wants to quit, I try to motivate her in everything. I can’t cope with it anymore but I feel so guilty. Sorry for being a downer, but any advice? 💖—-no worries, anon. i actually dealt with something kinda similar to this lately. you can only do so much for a person without it becoming detrimental to yourself. i would say, personally, if it’s too much, it’s okay to take time for yourself and step back if it’s becoming hard to always be there. it takes a lot of energy to constantly be someone’s only support system when you’re dealing with stuff yourself! don’t feel guilty about it take some time to focus on you, and your getting better, and if she asks why, just tell her you also need to take care of yourself best of luck, take care xx