letters to my love

❤ It was you all along ❤ mod: Fox, they/them \ follows from @palamedeez-nuts \ positivity blog: @lovenotereminders \ this blog is no longer active but will remain as an archive

[lovenotesuggestions]

hey I guess I pop into this blog every few years. I had a gay thought that this seemed like the perfect place for.

the person I started this blog about is currently sleeping next to me. we've been together for 9 and a half years. we bought a home together earlier this year, and he cared for me while I recovered from top surgery, which I'm just over 1 month post-op from.

for anyone still here, I hope you're doing as well as you can be. happy pride ♥️

[lovenotesuggestions]

there's something sooo magical about being t4t and embracing your partner when you're both shirtless post-top surgery. This is how our bodies are supposed to fit together! This is what your skin is supposed to feel like against mine!

[lovenotesuggestions]

This is my first time sending an ask in years. When I first followed you, I was in middleschool. I'm an adult now!! Well, I'm supposed to be, but for the first time in forever, I don't want to love anyone but myself more than platonically for the indeterminate future. I've been an adult for a year, and it's the first time in my life I've ever *truly* felt this way. I just thought I'd share! :D

Also, can I still send myself love notes here?<3

You're more than welcome to keep sending things! I'll still keep an eye on the inbox when I can.

Getting to that point where you're in a place to focus on self-love is such an achievement, well done!

[lovenotesuggestions]

Hi fox! Just wanted to say: thank you so much for making such a tender n sweet blog 💗 back when I started following you I was in a relationship with someone who was abusive, mistreated me and even hid me from everyone, now like 7 yrs later I'm happily married! With my best friend 💕 I left my home country and my terrible job and I'm slowly building the life I always wanted! I was looking back at your old posts the other day and remembering how back then they helped me to hold on hope wishing for someone I could truly give all my love to, and feeling so so glad that in the end he was always by my side, since the beginning 💗 I'm so happy to hear from you even tho I never ever sent you an ask, it made me smile sm to know you're doing okay!! I wish you nothing but the best, thank you for sharing kind words with others it meant so much to me 💗

This has made my day to read, I'm so happy for you that you've gotten out of that situation and made all this wonderful progress. I'm honoured to have been a small part of that journey 💗

[lovenotesuggestions]

I’m alive

I’m sorry for abandoning this blog for like 3-4 years. Executive dysfunction just kind of got on top of me and I couldn’t keep up with it anymore, and the further behind I got the more insurmountable it became to get back on top of it. I’m sorry to everyone who never got a reply to their messages/asks. 

I’m trialing migrating back to tumblr after *gestures broadly at twitter* and while I don’t have the bandwidth to revive this blog, I’m proud of the little community we had here and I don’t plan to delete anything. I remember the time I spent on here fondly and I wish I could have kept doing it. Thank you to everyone who supported me over the years the blog was active, especially folks who sent regular asks. 

As a little life update, I am still with the person who I made this blog about - we’ve been together over 6 and a half years now. We moved back to our hometown with our three cats, he’s doing his Master’s degree and I have a proper grown-up job now. I had my two year HRT anniversary this year, I’m pursuing an autism assessment for myself, and I got really into Dungons & Dragons over the pandemic. 

I hope everyone is doing as well as you can be. Feel free to send updates, I’ll keep the inbox of this account open (though I probably won’t be answering advice asks). But you will probably find me for the most part over on my new main blog @queerf0xx (which currently doesn’t have anything on it). Also basically everyone I followed back in the day has been inactive as long as I have, so I welcome any recommendations for blogs to follow. 

Sending my love to you all,

-Fox

[lovenotesuggestions]

So much has happened since I’ve last sent in a message on this blog. My crush officially became my first kiss and I’ve spent the last 2 weeks with him every day and we always end up cuddling on the couch. He wraps his arms around me and buried his face into my neck while I play with his hair and just.... I didn’t think things would be like this and I feel so blessed and grateful to have someone like him.❤️

Aaa congratulations!!! I’m so happy for you, that’s so cute ❤️❤️

[dateaboysuggestions]

date a boy who makes you smile so much that your cheeks hurt but still you cant stop smiling because of him

[lovenotesuggestions]

oh my goodness.. my crush is an angel and he calls me beautiful all the time and i feel like i can talk to him about things. i don’t think i’ve really felt like this before with other people

!!! he sounds like a sweetheart ❤️

[lovenotesuggestions]

Hello!! It’s been some time (2 years and 7 months) since my boyfriend and I started dating. He’s at university now and I miss him so very much. I’m at home and he’s so far away that I rarely see him now. Next year I’ll be going away too. It’s already difficult for me, because I miss him so much, but our relationship is still strong. Any advice for long distance relationships? We already make lots of time for each other and video call regularly. - 🌻 (Sunflower anon is back!!)

I’m glad you’re still going strong after all this time! You might find these posts helpful for coping with the distance

General long distance relationship advice/resources

How to maintain a long distance relationship whilst studying

I hope everything keeps going well for you, and I wish you strength in coping with being apart ❤️

[lovenotesuggestions]

You don’t have to always be positive around me, whether we’re friends, strangers, lovers, family, or something else. All humans feel a spectrum of all emotions at all time, and you don’t have to hide your negative ones from me. I feel them, too

[lovenotesuggestions]

hello! i dont know if you remember me, but its fuji (🗻) anon! first of all, im glad youre feeling well enough to be back and i hope you continue to feel better!! i just wanted to gush about my bf (who, after 9+ months of dating, is now my fiance!)! he's so kind and loving and sweet and he's the only person in the world who can comfort me when im having bad mental health days and,, ugh, he's just an absolute gem of a man and i love him so much!!!

Congratulations on getting engaged!!! I’m so happy for you that you have such a wonderful relationship 💞

[lovenotesuggestions]

very classic but i'm a lady in love with a gal who is most likely straight (she's mormon) and i've been told to get over her by staying away but i can't help trying to be near her all the time :") plus we're much more physically affectionate than either of us are with our other friends and i just. can't. she makes me so happy and sometimes we have conversations for ten minutes with the tips of our noses just touching while holding each other's waists and aaaaaaaaaaaaa

okay like… ofc I couldn’t say anything for certain about the sexuality of someone I don’t know, but… that level of physical affection doesn’t sound very straight to me?? My bf and I were the same way before we got together, super affectionate in a “totally platonic” way that was actually very gay. Her being mormon doesn’t mean she couldn’t be LGBTQ+!

That being said, I’m glad you have someone who makes you so happy in your life, regardless of whether that’s in a platonic or romantic way 💞

[tansdiary]

i can’t wait to spend my entire life with you

[lovenotesuggestions]

Me and my crush meet again after two years. In these two years we both separately went through horrible and life changing events that made us grow so so much. And I’m sitting her smiling after meeting him today. It feels so good that we both are on the same page. We both like each other and see a future but taking to slow. I can’t wait for this relationship to progress even more.💝#gratefultoGod

I’m glad to hear you were able to grow and heal from those events, and that you were brought together again. I hope everything goes well for the two of you in the future of your relationship together 💞

[lovenotesuggestions]

i have an on-and-off crush on my one friend but the thing is, we’re both girls and she’s straight. but i dont really feel a need to date her if that makes sense. shes so beautiful and kind and being around her just makes me so happy so it doesn’t bother me much that she doesn’t like me ~like that~. im just so glad to be her friend even if i ~do~ kinda wanna be more,,,

I’m sorry you’re in that position; it always sucks to have feelings for someone who doesn’t/can’t feel the same way, but I’m glad you have her in your life and that she makes you happy, and that you’re able to have that perspective on the relationship. That’s the healthiest and most positive outlook to have on a situation like this. I hope your pain eases soon hon 💞

[lovenotesuggestions]

I'll be your umbrella; I can't stop it from raining, but I can do my best to keep you dry.

[lovenotesuggestions]

so the boy i'm in likes with recently started being okay with me being true to my sappy self and honestly? being able to say and show him all the lame things i want to has been SO liberating. i adore him so much. a literal angel in the flesh, not that he'd ever believe it. i love his smile so i can only hope all the things we share make him happy, even if things are rough and confusing right now💛

That’s so sweet, I’m glad you’re able to express those feelings to him now! I hope things get easier for you, and I hope having this relationship is helping to brighten the tough times 💞