Hi, my fellow pals of children of divorce. How have you been doing? Have you been eating and sleeping well? Are you doing well? I hope you are.
Did it get better, somehow? Does it ever get better? I hope it did; and continues to always do.
You deserve your own happiness, and your own world. You are free to choose yourself and to become your highest being, your best and kindest version of yourself.
No matter how hard it gets, it always gets easier and better too, somehow... only if you focus on your progress and betterment. Let go of that person of your past. Let go of the ghosts of your past. They donât have a place in your present life anymore đ¤
(Also, donât you think we need to stop identifying ourselves as a child of divorce? It sounds weird and the pain is too old for that.)
You are so strong, I hope you know that. And after reading this, I hope you can accept that. Sometimes when you tell yourself that you are strong, or when people tell you that, you donât believe them or yourself. So I hope you have the courage to believe that you are strong and I am immensely grateful of how strong you are as a person.
Remember, you are never alone. Things happened this way to allow you to become your best self and to send you to places so unimaginably beautiful you could cry just thinking about it. You are loved, without having to ask for anyoneâs permission.
Youâll do great.
But most importantly, youâll be fine.
Youâll be fine.
