Innocence is the beginningā¦
Some here might argue that girls should just move from their normal clothing into sluttier and sluttier pieces and just bear with the feeling of shame and discomfort that comes with it. I can understand them, but I think there is better (yes, maybe slower) but deeper way to get a girl to show herself. Take what I write with a grain of salt as it is just my own experiences.
1. Itās all about innocence and carelessness
The core of finding yourself on this long-term is if you can identify yourself with what you are doing, rather just someone putting over you. It works for a time but not for long.
What you need is a motivation that you can deeply relate to. For me, rather than always being a needy slut which is difficult for me to relate to all the time it is simply being an careless innocent girl who likes her body. Who smiles and is happy just enjoyed being herself. For example:Ā
When I see her, her smile and just what kind of person she seems to be I like her. I ask myself isĀ āWould a semi-conservative dad let me hang out with his daughter?ā And when I see her I thinkĀ āProbablyā Yes, her bikini is a little risque but Iām sure that she just follows fashion and want to belong.
2. Ease into it ā Take it slow
For me this is a slow processā¦but with that it feels even more irreversible because you are not playing something but you are becoming something. As I said for me it was slow, starting with going braless, pretty innocent, pretty careless. But now I have a real thing for going and being braless.
Be happy and be cheerful ā Enjoy your body! And as you do, you indeed loose inhibitions. Firs it might be going braless and people seeing your nipples, another step might be to wear a sexy bikini at home and if you really need it put a robe over if someone rings (or just learn to leave the robe). The truth is: The less you make a fuzz about it, the less others will.
Ease into it and make it your own. Be proud! Be proud to overcome inhibitions and gain the freedom to enjoy your body by getting attention. Enjoy the looks, let them turn you on, enjoy them enjoying you.
3. Make it your new normal
Over time you will find that these things will stick and that you like them to stick. Sure a little edging helps on the way ;-) Make these things a new routine. Again, nothing big, but e.g.Ā āPutting my nice bikini on at home puts me into holiday mode and helps me relaxā can help to make it a habit. Put old clothes away where you canāt reach them and reinforce the new. Like her, showing herself off proudly in her panties outside:
Again, it is all all about carelessness and innocence but still you can take steps in upping the game. Let it become normal for someone to see your buttā¦after all if you wear anything slightly smaller tons of people will have seen it on the beach. So donāt worry if your mailman catches a glimpse of you in your thong bikini, or someone takes a closer look on an escalator, let it become normal.
Next could be boobs either in tight or transparent or both, maybe with a jacket over and a bra at the beginning. But little by little the bra might stay but the top might get transparent, the bra might go but the top get non-transparent but tighter. Tighter and smaller. Yet still, go about these things in a youthful, joyful way that seems innocent (so not this face below).
And over time not only will the girl wear what you want her to.
She will want it too. And that is the beauty of itā¦
(I guess the next post could be able the next step after having shaken of inhibitions)Ā
titsay
stormborns
janainaart
discoholicmusic
origamiaround
ellievsbear
theartofmadeline
jacobvanloon
