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to be clear the first one is the original. i just riffed on it because it’s a powerful message.
I don’t get the man one ?
the entire series is focused on stopping all abuse
the man here has his mouth covered up by a woman wearing a wedding ring. meaning he is being abused by his wife. of the men i’ve known and spoken to about being abused by their wives, one of the common ways wives will try to “make up” for the abuse is literally with money. fucking crazy sad shit but women who abuse their men (bf or husband) also believe us to be super materialistic and so they can just buy us. i could go on but i don’t want to. it’s too fucking gross.
this is clearly pedophila in the catholic church. a profoundly evil act that is is primarily aimed at little boys.
this is child molestation in the black community that tarted little black girls overwhelmingly. usually by a family member and usually a male family member with candy being used to buy their silence.
and this is an abused wife. the hand is male wearing a wedding ring. similar to the wife abusing the husband, an attempt to buy silence happens with flowers, candy and jewelry being the common gifts.
i respect that this artist (a woman i believe) covered such a wild range of abuse even the ones we don’t talk about.
I think that’s a dripping anatomical heart in the flower, too. :(
Still don’t get the man one tbh. Is there an epidemic of rich women beating their husbands?
I honestly don’t know. I am not familiar with the phenomenon, but knowing that male-on-female domestic violence vastly outweighs the reverse, I had to assume that it was included because otherwise she would have caught hell for it. I mean, apparently it does happen, so…
Male violence against women and children is at actual epidemic levels. I know a few men who have suffered violence at the hands of female partners and it’s awful and unacceptable. But they were also all in a position to 1) leave and easily survive and/or 2) if they hit back would very much be able to stop the attack. As in if they hit back the woman would be ko’d. I’m not saying female on male violence is ok I’m saying it isn’t a ‘thing’ in the way the others are.
Agreed. Men have the means to leave abusive relationships much quicker than most abused women do (if ever).
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Okay bitches listen up
Male abuse victims are just as fucking important as female abuse victims
If a man hits back, he is the one accused of violence, even if it was in self defense. Because “men can’t be abused” fuck that
Men feel that if they’re honest about their abuse that they’ll be ridiculed and seen as less than a man
Men are afraid to come forward about their abuse because no one will believe them.
If a woman hits a man, it’s because “he did something to upset her,” “he probably deserved it,” “hes over reacting,” y'know, the same shit women are told.
Not all men have the means to leave an abusive relationship. If they could, do you think they’d stay? Being a man doesn’t automatically mean they have financial stability.
So fuck you if you think male abuse victims don’t matter. Fuck you if you think men can’t be victims of abuse. Fuck you if you try and diminish male abuse victims. Fuck you if you ridicule men for talking about their abuse and seeking help. Fuck you if you patronize men who can’t escape their abusive partners. Fuck you if you act like male abuse victims aren’t a real thing.
Fuck you if you try and act like men can’t be just as vulnerable as women, and that their struggles don’t matter. Fuck. You.
a former male friend of suffered years of psychological, emotional, and physical abuse at the hands of his girlfriend. Note: He was a large guy (a good 6'1, pretty muscular, and knew about fighting from past years of his dad teaching him some moves he had learned from martial arts training from when he was young)
Now, his girlfriend was a measly little bitch (I know it’s bad to throw around that term “Its so harmful to women blah blah” she was barely human, and I dont even think she’s worthy of being considered a “woman” so I’ll call her what I like for this story) barely scraping 5'3, not a muscle on her, the bone and body structure of a 12 year old. You may be thinking “I get how she could abuse him mentally, but how on earth could she physically abuse someone who could easily put her through some drywall” the answer: People like y'all.
This worm of a human would slap and punch him in the face as hard as she could, hit him in his groin, kick him in his bad knee (he broke when he was younger and it never quite healed right); stab him with things like crochet needles, forks, her nails, small eyebrow scissors, etc. If she was mad at him she would put allergens in his food (He was lactose intolerant to a pretty bad degree and would get horrible stomach aches, cramps, digestive problems, and nausea if he consumed dairy) so she would put regular milk in his coffee instead of the lactose free milk he drank, as well as regular dairy products in things like desserts she would bake, soup, smoothies she would make him; Anything she could hide milk, cream, or cheese in without him noticing.
Again, some of you might be thinking “Why didn’t he catch on, fight back, leave, etc” Well, I’ll tell you why: It’s because he was not only a victim of abuse who was regularly told he was loved by his abuser, despite all the abuse, but he was also a victim of a society which regularly told him that he was not a victim of anything. He was larger than her, smart, financially stable, and everything you think would be needed to magically “Get out and survive” as you say.
She made sure he didn’t fight back, she would tell him things that no person should be told, like how “she wish she was the man in the relationship so she could rape him”, or how she could kill him and he wouldn’t be able to fight back without her telling her father he was beating her, to which her dad would promptly “Stab him in the neck”; she told him he was useless, pathetic, weak, and “nothing but a dick for her to ride”. After all these things he would still not leave, ya wanna know why?
Because after she was done, she’d tell him she loved him, that he didn’t have to worry about talking about his interests with her because she loved hearing about them, how he didn’t have to worry about crying in front of her because she wouldn’t think any less of him. She would speak of their future and her amazing laughs and smiles she would share with him, she would comfort him when he was sad and tell him everything he wanted to hear.
And that’s how he didn’t “escape and survive” for 2 years, and tolerated endless abuse. He finally left when his brother-in-law invited him and his “girlfriend” to his house to play games and hangout for 4th of July. Unbeknownst to the maggot, his BiL had security cameras around his house from a former break in, and those same cameras caught her punching, kicking, and swinging at him with a metal knife-sharpening rod (I don’t know what they’re called but they’re the heavy ass metal ones the chefs use) because he said that he wasnt comfortable with her driving after she drank the whole night.
His BiL promptly kicked her across the room as she was hitting him and got him locked in a room and her out the house with threats of the police. It took a solid 3 weeks of slowly opening up to his family, telling stories, ignoring berating texts and calls and threats from her, and having to move all of his stuff out of their shared apartment in the 6 hour window she was at work because he was genuinely terrified she would show up.
Endless nights were spent having panic attacks, nightmares, being coaxed into getting therapy and counseling, and finally admitting to himself that he had been abused. And after that, was a flurry of him trying to get acceptance.
Almost every domestic abuse counselor was marketed to women, as well as meetings where he was the only man in the room; people assuming he was gay and had to have been abused by a man, or that his girlfriend was a martial arts master or other countless ridiculous things instead of just accepting that he was a victim of domestic abuse by a woman, as a man.
Does the domestic violence against women outweigh the violence against men? From the studies, most likely. Does that make either violence easier, more acceptable, less traumatic or less debilitating? Fuck. No.
So, in conclusion, men can be, and are being abused. Is it different than female abuse? Yes. But poisoning someone’s drink is different than poisoning someone’s food, but it is still poison. So get y'alls heads out of y'alls asses and help men instead of spouting a bunch of shit at them to make yourself looks like the bigger victim. Say “Our cases are different, but are both traumatic and painful, and I will do all I can to help”
To ALL domestic abuse victims. You are strong, you are truly loved, and there is help out there, no matter where in life you are. Never hesitate to message me if you need to talk.
Great addition.
And I forgot to add to mine, please don’t be afraid to message me if you need or want to talk about your abuse. Male, female, doesn’t matter. Everyone needs someone to talk to, and I’m willing to listen. ❤️
this video is an appropriate addition here
https://youtu.be/Ue7U2hdNz2I
so if i’m not being clear enough fuck every single one of you that think men can’t suffer from abuse, can get away much easier, FUCK YOU!
abuse can happen in ANY relationship. straight, mlm, wlw, ANY! so FUCK ANYONE that thinks that any type of abuse is dismissable.
Excellent addition, thank you
You people claim to be feminists but you really out here thinking EVERY women is weaker than EVERY male. Lol and that women have no power ever? That women can’t black mail? Or hold children hostage in abusive marriage?
I love how their “conversation” consisted of, “Male abuse? Huh. I don’t think that’s a thing. It’s real? Well probably not enough to be important anyway.”
For anyone wanting to know what the video was it was a guy saying how his girlfriend used to beat him and he had to jump out of a second story balcony to get away with her, to which the audience laughs and Jeremy Kyle is having none of it.
Knew a friend who thought he should laugh every time he brought up an abusive female ex. Honestly, couldn’t shut that shit down fast enough; Told him he was brave to get away from her and smart to never even touch her cuz that’s when things get twisted.
If you think that men cannot be abused, get the fuck away from me and my blog.
readding the video…
and adding another…
some of you people really don’t see men as human beings and it shows in just about everything you say and do.
My 6'1" uncle was abused by his first wife. She would get drunk and abuse him verbally and then broke two of his ribs. Why didn’t he fight back? Well he was a man and men can’t be abused. Men can’t be victims.
If you really think that you’re part of the fucking problem. That kind or rhetoric is why male abuse victims can’t find help. No one believes them.
Fuck off.
They don’t quote Malcolm as much because the truth hurts.
Maybe hes not quoted due to the fact that MLK promoted tolerance, equality and to my mind what MLK was fighting for was positive. Malcom X was a black supremacist, wanted the separation of Blacks and Whites, and rejected the civil rights movement. Promoting Malcom X is literally as bad as promoting the KKK. And as a fact of history Nazi Germany’s failure was due to starting a war on too many fronts, i.e with the Russians, and not their aryan views.
white ignorance knows no bound. NO BOUNDS… malcomn x is as bad as the kkk who was KILLING PEOPLE BECAUSE OF THEIR COLOR. okay…?
one more time…
because if you’re taught that the man who said that black people should DEFEND themselves against people (including the kkk and racist cops) who literally hunt them down and kill them is THE SAME as the kkk and racist cops who hunt them and kill them because of their color, then you too far gone to be saved. @imperator-gains is displaying classic white ignorance. classic ahistorical illogical white ignorance.
This is why you need to know your own history. Malcolm X was a black nationalist, NOT a black supremacist. If you actually know your history, you’d know that even then, Malcolm X’s views changed as he got older and as time went on. He eventually parted ways with Elijah Muhammad because Malcolm X disagreed with him. Malcolm X didn’t believe in integration because he wanted the black community to be self-sufficient, with its own businesses and economy. Later he said that white people would do best if they work on educating other white people about the truth of racism and white supremacy, instead of trying to integrate with the black community.
Malcolm X also believed in the right to self-defense, which is one of your basic human rights.
Some real Malcolm X quotes:
“I am not a racist. I am against every form of racism and segregation, every form of discrimination. I believe in human beings, and that all human beings should be respected as such, regardless of their color.”
“Be peaceful, be courteous, obey the law, respect everyone; but if someone puts his hand on you, send him to the cemetery.”
And look at what Malcolm said about Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.
“ I want Dr. King to know that I didn’t come to Selma to make his job difficult. I really did come thinking I could make it easier. If the white people realize what the alternative is, perhaps they will be more willing to hear Dr. King.”
Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. said this about Malcolm X:
“I always had a deep affection for Malcolm and felt that he had a great ability to put his finger on the existence and the root of the problem. He was an eloquent spokesman for his point of view and no one can honestly doubt that Malcolm had a great concern for the problems we face as a race.”
So what on earth does that have to do with the KKK? The KKK was a hate group which killed black people and hunted them down. Malcolm X said, “We are nonviolent with people who are nonviolent with us.” BIG DIFFERENCE.
@alwaysbewoke is right, if you don’t know basic facts like this, how are you going to have an intelligent discussion on race and black history at all? Learn a bit before you just start saying things.
More white people need to understand that if you don’t even have a grasp on basic history, there’s no such thing as being an ally. How can you help people if you think Malcolm X is on the level of the KKK? Have enough humility to admit you don’t know everything, and then start doing real research so you can find the truth.
‘Race and racism is a reality that so many of us grow up learning to just deal with. But if we ever hope to move past it, it can’t just be on people of color to deal with it. It’s up to all of us – Black, white, everyone – no matter how well-meaning we think we might be, to do the honest, uncomfortable work of rooting it out. It starts with self-examination and listening to those whose lives are different from our own. It ends with justice, compassion, and empathy that manifests in our lives and on our streets.’ — Michelle Obama
So the “say her name” movement has been overshadowed by the powers that be bastardising it and making it a catch-all for males we already know are dead. Misogyny in action.
Ma'am can you take you white feminism and gtfo of here like imagine thinking your a good person but decide to take a post about something as important and try to make it a feminism issue. Like please just go away.
Ah yes my white feminism when I make a valid point about how a movement started by black women for black women has been bastardised to yet again center males. The whole point of “say her name” was because black women who are murdered through police brutality are unheard of. Breonna Taylor was shot in her sleep and who did BLM rally around and riot for? George Floyd, a violent thug that held a pregnant woman at gun point and threatened to shoot her in the stomach to kill her unborn child. That’s why say her name exists.
See my point is why do you have highjack a post to state that. Can’t you make you own? Also so the dude makes 1 bad thing and he deserves to be brutal murdered by a knee on his throat? And also what does that have to do with the OTHER black men this post is talking about? Once again your white feminism is not needed, cause if it was regular feminism you know you would support both. But apparently because somr of these people have male genitalia you could give less then a single fuck about them.
How dare I comment on how an entire movement was fucking hijacked. Black lives matter has shown its true colours as a movement that centers males, let black women have their own movement.
I hate to break it to you Aiden but feminism is about liberating females from the male sex. It’s not our fucking job to play egalitarian to spoiled and babied misogynistic pieces of shit. Men can go choke for all I care.
Also FYI holding a pregnant woman at gun point and threatening to kill her unborn child isn’t a “bad thing” it’s fucking evil and he received karmic justice.
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