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What's your thought on aftercare after a punishment? Does it reverse the punishment Or help the sub
Well, you don’t want to beat them blue then just turn them loose! Ok, serious time. Aftercare is a necessity. After a scene, and yes, after a punishment. Part of the obligations of a Dom is not only to correct behavior that deviates from agreed upon rules and within their granted authority, it is also their responsibility to help return the submissive to an emotionally stable and reassured position after the punishment has been administered. Aftercare post-punishment in no way reverses the punishment’s effects. I am very hard pressed to even think up an example where it would come close unless the whole execution was very sloppy. Here’s how I approach punishment:
Confirm the behavior is within your granted authority to address. Your submissive’s consent has limits and there are likely things that will be out of your jurisdiction as her Dominant to police and judge. Things she does at work, for example. Or things she had to reasonably do out of necessity at the time with no alternative present. Alternatively the rule may have been unclear and punishment would likely not be warranted. Hear their side before punishment is exercised.
Identify the behavior(s) that warrant punishment to the submissive. Inform them of their infraction calmly and clearly. Never, ever punish blindly. They need and deserve to know what the punishment is about.
Utilize only as much force as reasonably necessary. That means any kind of force. Let the punishment fit the crime. Timeouts are you using your authority to order an unpleasant condition be tolerated by them for a determined amount of time. If you use spankings or kneeling on uncooked rice, ensure you do not punish to excess. Both could cause damage to your submissive if done recklessly.
Debrief after the punishment has been administered. This means aftercare. This means discussing how future occurrences of the infraction can be prevented. This means drying tears, butt rubs for spanked bottoms, hydration, etc. Do your best to return them to pre-punishment condition minus the unwanted behavior.
Be ready to answer questions. This is the point (15-30 minutes or more after the punishment) that a little might give a “what if” statement. A “what if” statement is not being snarky or bratty! It is the submissive mentally circling back around to confirm what you just laid out. Any submissive might use this time to facilitate a conversation with their Dominant regarding the experience. Be ready to listen patiently and answer their questions. This is the bonding time that respectful execution of a punishment and good aftercare unlocks.
Perhaps, and above all, watch your words! Far greater damage may be accidentally dealt with a slip of the tongue than with the harshest belt. Many a submissive will feel the emotional sting of punishment the moment you say “why are you not taking good care of my most precious possession?” Punishments are a cornerstone of D/s. They help keep the relationship stable, the leash tight and the couple’s world in order. IF done with respect.
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Updated Library For Kinksters
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For “Daddy”
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows You…
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesn’t Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
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Updated Library For Kinksters
I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…
Aftercare
Aftercare 101
Aftercare For Dominants
Coping With Emotional Subdrop
Dom Drop
How To Make A Sub Drop Kit
Online Aftercare
sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare
Subdrop and Aftercare
Subspace and Aftercare
Consent
Consent & BDSM
Guide to Consent
Doms, Daddies & Masters
7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom
12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive
25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles
30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman
45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For
50 Rules for Daddies
100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess
101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)
Alternative Names For “Daddy”
Alternative Domme Titles
Aspects Of Control
Asserting Ownership - Rules
Daddy Up!
Defining A Daddy Dom
Dominants Need Training Also
Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles
Help For New Doms
How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive
How To Be A Good Dominant
How to Find a Submissive
Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man
New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom
Observations On Doms By A Submissive
So you want to be a Dom?
So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her
Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know
The Dom Commandments
Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind
What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective
What does the title Daddy mean?
What is a Daddy Dom?
What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?
What It Means To Be A Dominant
What Makes A Good Dominant
Littles, Subs & Slaves
6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant
7 Common Types of Submissives
10 Tips For Living With A Sadist
10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive
11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant
26 Baby Girl Jobs
50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy
A Bottom’s Responsibility
A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive
A Man Who Knows You…
A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom
Acid Test For Subs
Ask A Million And One Questions
Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective
Baby girl or little? A brief introduction
Care and feeding of Daddies
Characteristics Of A Good Daddy
Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner
Feminist Submissive
Finding Your Dominant
Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By
Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls
How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.
“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.
How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?
How To Find A Dom
How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom
I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy
Novice Submissives
Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK
Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’
Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.
Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts
Submissive Pride
Submissive Traits - Intelligence
Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me
What is a Little?
When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.
Why I call him Daddy
Your Rights As A Submissive
Long Distance Relationships
10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship
Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship
How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work
Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope
Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans
The Long Distance D/s Relationship
Mental Health
BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers
Body image & BDSM
How to Get Over Feeling Sad
Is BDSM normal?
Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!
Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship
Meditation And Mindfulness
On Cutting
Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories
Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction
Tips for Recovering from Codependency
What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)
Why Do I Feel Unloveable?
Relationships
10 Habits of Happy Couples
10 Top Communication Mistakes
10 Types of Emotional Manipulators
12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget
50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”
BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End
BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways
Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective
Communication Is Key
Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships
Daddy Doms and their little girls
Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More
Date Night In A Jar
DD/lg In Public
D/s and Domestication
Factors That Make A Relationship
Finding Love When You Least Expect It
Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests
How To Be Present In Your Relationships
How To Build A Healthy Relationship
How To Get What You Want In A Relationship
How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”
How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level
Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship
Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship
Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait
Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore
Searching for a D/s partner?
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships
Stop Arguments Before They Start
The Rewards of a Submissive
Types Of Relationship Insecurity
Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship
What Is Real Love?
When He Doesn’t Call
Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better
Safety
Another life ruined because of the morality police
Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!
Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t
Limits in BDSM
What is Emotional Abuse?
Self Improvement
10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life
10 Steps To Self Care
10 Ways To Be Happy
10 Truths To Live By
Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive
How to be Yourself
How To Deal With Your Enemies
How To Ignore Haters
How to Recognize a Toxic Friend
How to Stop Being a People Pleaser
Slut Shaming Explained
Tips for Healing a Broken Heart
What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?
Sex
50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women
Basics of Breath Play
D/s or Kinky Sex?
Fetishes Explained
How To Make A Girl Squirt
How To Tell Your Son About Sex
Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality
Sensual Biting
Sex: Myths & Stereotypes
Sex: Practical Details
Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control
So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women
Squirting Educational Video
Squirting Notes
Toys
Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs
BDSM on a budget
Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)
Training
10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs
30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten
40 Very Important DD/lg Facts
Age Play: A Short Guide
BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play
DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)
Etiquette in BDSM Part 1
Etiquette in BDSM Part 2
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings
Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind
Glossary of BDSM Terms
Guide To Blood Play
Guide To Bruising
Guide To Talking Dirty
Guide To Wax Play
How Do I Get Started In BDSM?
How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest
How To Make A Comfort Box
Introduction To BDSM
Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting
Punishments in BDSM Relationships
Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships
Some Thoughts On Rules
The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility
The Need For Rules and Discipline
Topping from the bottom
Tackle bini org umur 30an bukan senang der..jangan buat perangai budak2..
Hello guys. Just nak share and hope beri panduan kepada korang semua.kebanyakan lelaki 20an tak kira bujang atau baru kawen dlm 2-3 tahun masih tidak paham dlm meng"ayat" isteri atau bini org yang umur middle 30an.
Selalu ingat benda ni mudah. Ingat isteri org akan teruja dengan tgk senjata yg besar dan pamjang.
Biar aku cerita:
1. Isteri org pertengahan 30an ni..jangan layan dia org mcm budak2..cara korang tunjuk batang korang yg power tidak akan buat mereka excited lebih. In fact dia org dah biasa dapat.
2. Level bini org 30an tidak boleh disamakan dengan janda. Dia org sentiasa di sumbat batang suami sendiri dan bila2 dia org nak boleh je dapat… So jgn sembang pasal ajak main.
3. Untuk tackle bini org berumur 30an kena ada art atau seni tersendiri. Mereka suka.lelaki.MATANG dalam berborak atau chatting. Kalau korang asyik cerita sex jer..memang buat diorg bosan boring.
4. Cara terbaik layan bini org 30an adalah jadi buddies atau kawan2..amik berat atau take care (jangan lebih2 sgt) sehingga lama2 boleh move forward jadi GF korang. Bila dah sampai level tue, minta apa sahaja semua korang dapat😀. Layan la dia org mcm korang layan GF korang dulu..cakap sopan dan SOUND ROMANTIC.
5. Satu lagi bila chatting atau borak..jgn sembang lebih atau gebang..dia org x suka lelaki gebang atau cakap besar. Jgn asyik cerita korag hebat main atas katil. Langkah paling silap sebab belum terbukti selagi dia x rasa btg korang.(jangan sembang lebih, sekali main terus tewas..buat malu beb)
6. Bini org 30an ni ..kalo chatting atau nak tackle..jangan ada budaya pushy..atau paksa2..jgn la korang asyik minta pic breast la..pussy la..minta pic body la..selalunya berakhir 99% bye2..cara dia org berfikir mudah, kenapa nak gelojoh minta mcm2 gambar sedangkan kalo korang okay..nanti dapat main so tgk la puas2..nak gelojoh pergi mane?
7. Mane2 dah sampai level dapat jumpa..make sure korang layan mcm gf korang..sesekali beli la bunga ke..hadiah ke..walaupun dia x mintak..bukan pasal dia org nak duit korang ke apa.APPRECIATE ATAU HARGAI dia org..bahkan bini org 30an kebanyakan kerjaya dah stabil..kerja lebih 10tahun gaji dia org pun tinggi..dia org x heran pun duit korang..
8. HORMAT..RESPECT dia org.. ingat dia org bukan budak2..tukar mind set korang..bila dapat scandal atau main..bukan korang dah berjaya main pussy dia org..tapi dia org yg berjaya meng" ANAK IKAN" kan korang atau bahasa lain dia org dah berjaya cari TOY BOY!
Tak percaya dengan teori aku ni? Buktinya dia org boleh reject korang bila2 masa..and actually korang yg merayu bagai nak tackle dia kan?
9. Muka hensem korang bukan jaminan korang boleh dapat tackle dia org..kalo ada maybe bonus skit je kot..
Ok la.akhir kalam..yg muda2 umur 20an atau setakat baru kawen 2-3 tahun jangan sembang lebih. Kalo korang gagal buat no 1-8 di atas aku pasti 99% gagal utk takle bini org 30an dan paling sedih yg baru kawen 2-3 tahun..ini la QUALITY KORANG LAYAN WIFE KORANG SENDIRi
Nak percaya ke tidak lantak korang la..aku tak rugi apa !
P/s: Mohon suami2 yang ada isteri 30an tue untuk.komen sekali..setuju ke tidak..at least boleh la jadi endorsement apa yg aku tulis..kalo tak kang 20an ni kata aku gebang..😁😁
Ok chow
Zam
Ini mmg btl…
Agreed sgt..so pepandai la belajar ye..hahah. byk dah jumpa spesis kelam kqbut nih
There are many aspects to being your Man's property.
It goes beyond your body being his to do whatever he wants, whenever he wants. It’s more than being available and eager to please him at any given moment. It means he can do anything he feels like, whenever he wants and you never say no because you are his property and he is superior.
If he wants a bite of your food, you smile and offer him as much as he wants. If he wants a drink of your beer, you let him drink the whole thing and ask if he wants another. If he wants to stick his finger in your ass while you’re cooking dinner, you spread your legs to give better access. If he wants to fuck you after a long day at work, you get in whatever position he wants and serve him without hesitation. If he demands you suck his cock in the middle of doing something, you stop whatever you’re doing and get on your knees. If he wants to punish you for no reason at all other than he needs to let out some frustration, you take it like a good girl and say thank you.
You are His. His fucktoy. His useless set of holes. His cunt. His slave. His piece of meat. His to do whatever he wants simply because He can.
Hai..
Ok..
Dominate me, please..
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This was a piece written for a friend of mine; Perspective, words used and so on were per his request. Hopefully you guys enjoy it as much as he did! :)
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Gripping the steering wheel, Tyler Lawson could feel himself growing impatient. The red light washed over him while the Bentley idled at the intersection, this had better be worth it. Green flashed and the man accelerated, the night sped past him without a second thought. Today had gone to shit, he couldn’t believe that idiot, that complete jackass had lost the contract! His knuckles turned white as the speed accelerated. Taking a deep breath he willed himself to calm down, the guy had gotten what he deserved and he was just going to have to live with that.
Fuck.
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