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[sydneysugarbaby]

2020 manifestation

Its been 4 years since I've used my blog so let's start this off with setting some manifestations for 2020 I am receiving valuable gifts I am traveling around the world to meet rich generous caring gentlemen My bank account will have 500,000 in the next 6 months I will be gifted diamonds and gold I am getting a car upgrade ( rolls Royce, G wagon or Bentley ) I have 5 sugar daddy's giving me minimum 10 k a week My client base is growing and it's regular and consistent I am manifesting my goals and pursuing my financial dreams I am fit and healthy and strong I am happy internally and glowing flawlessly I have an aura that men desire and are attracted too In 6 months time I am going to receive great news financially I am investing and buying property I am spending beautiful memories with beautiful people I am receiving luxury shopping weekly 2020 y'all. Let's get this bag.

[swordgirlfrend]

[sydneysugarbaby]

Want

[seductr3ss]

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When Salt Tries to Kiss You

[biisousss]

[fhenty]

I’m back with part 2 of my Sugar Baby Advice Masterpost. Here is a list of links to advice from various sugar babies/sex workers/etc that I’ve gathered through my extensive research. Feel free to check out my advice page here for hundreds of links to advice that I found helpful. Enjoy! 

• Some Classy Conversation Topics 

• The Perfect Spam Message/Art of Spamming

• Messaging Tips

• Marketing Yourself: Read This

• 50 Unusual Date Ideas (Good for dates with your SD)

• How To Attract a Man: How to do it, what to do, and how to make yourself so desirable that all men will want you and only you. 

• The Men Post: How to make wealthy sugar daddies/clients keep coming back to give you more and more every time. 

• Body Language Linguistics 

• Freestyling Tips

• A Few Useful Websites For Sugar Babies

• Dining Etiquette 101

• Reasons Why You Are NOT Asking For Too Much

• What To Say To a POT Who Asks “What’s in it for him” 

• Sex Work Approved Payment Options

•  THE LINKS: The Official Sugar Baby Reading List (Strippers, Escorts, Cam Girls too)

• To Reverse Search a Phone Number 

• Guys To Avoid On Seeking Arrangement

• Delete Yourself From Web Services

• Ways To Ask For Gifts

• What To Put On Your Profile

• What to say when a SD asks “what you’re willing to do” sexually 

• Craigslist Ads That Attract Certain Men

• Emotional Reasoning Is More Powerful Than Logical Thinking

• Online Adventures: Writing To/Writing Back

• Mandatory Sugar Tool

• Escort Advice Tip #001

• 3 Ways To Get What You Want From a Man

• Sugar Baby Academy

• How To Charm The Cash Out of Your Sugar Daddy

• How To Dress For Sugar Success

• How To Separate the Boys From the Men

• Don’t Make It This Easy

• Get The Conversation Going & Weed Out The Jokes

• How SD’s Can Track Where You Live

• Sugar Baby Travel Tip

• Sugar Tip: Subscribe To Magazines Related To Your Goals

• Sugar Travels

• Saving Money

• Apps Every SB Needs

• Money Saving Tips

• How To Organize Your Hustle

• 5 Questions To Ask Before Agreeing To An Allowance Offer

• Asking For Money On The First POT Date

• Verify Him

• Sugaring From Scratch

• Apps For Sugar Babies

• The Girlfriend Experience

• Freestyling Guide

• Sugar Allowance - What Form Do You Take It In?

• Fashion Tips And Dress Codes

• Turn Vanilla To Sugar

• Checklists

• Spending Sugar Money

• A Poor Sugar Babies Guide To Looking Pretty

• What To Say To Get The Allowance You Want

• How to Trigger a Man’s Generosity Right From the Start

• 25 Things That Will Make You a Better Sugar

• The First Encounter

• Tips: What to Say 

• Craigslist Masterpost

• Sex is Sex but Money is Money

• Stop Comparing Yourself To Others Success

• Safety Tips From a Client

• How To Make Real Money

• Staying Safe While Being a SB

• How To Keep A SD Interested: Long Arrangements

• Things I’ve Learned From Living With SB’s (part 1)

• How To Manipulate People Into Liking You More

• What Personal Information Should You Give Your SD?

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[sicilianshawty-blog]

I need to read this again

[sydneysugarbaby]

HOW I ARRANGED MY SA PROFILE.

Ladies listen up, if you are a genuine and real sugar baby then this post is for you. I’ll make this short. If you don’t agree with what I write that’s fine. This is coming from my brain not yours and this is what works for me. So take it or leave it ❤️

Let’s start with profile photos…

Men want things that are exclusive and private, I have one profile photo available for viewing. It’s in a elegant place in a very covering outfit with my hair up. This is what men will see unless I give them the option of seeing my other photos, I personally make them feel special by letting them view my other private photos.

Lifestyle expectations - negotiable, because we are not gold diggers we want them to see us as genuine. Which we are and we will be.

Now a introduction of yourself, honesty is key.

Stop this bullshit about how classy and luxurious you are. They don’t care stop selling a fake story.

Say your age, if you’ve studied, Talk a small bit about your childhood and a place you’ve lived. As in I grew up on a farm and I worked hard for the things in my life… say the things you love to do! Write your passions and hobbies. Talk about how motivated you are and how ambitious you are. Men want to get to know you for you not your body, so let them. You need to put in that you don’t want drama. You are relaxed and love to learn or read or study or go to a boxing class.

Just short little things that make them go hang on this girls got a personality. Stand out in the crowd. Be as real as you can be!

Now WHAT AM I LOOKING FOR -

Speak about what you like in men, as in I’m attracted to older men I find them to be more desirable then boys my age. If you have a passport put that down also, also I think it’s key to write that you don’t want a transactional hotel relationship. You want something casual and real, dinners or going to the cinema. Then I think you should honestly write. I’m looking for someone who will help pay for my rent, or someone who will be happy to give me some spending money per week or to save up for collage! Write down what you want financially don’t put dollar signs until after you meet them. This will also stop salt messaging you because they won’t bother dealing with someone that knows what they want!!

Also on dates. Do not fuck them on the first date. KEY NOTE 📝 you want to be desired. Lusted and admired not used and thrown away!

Set your rules and say what you want. RESPECT is a key. If he is trying to stick his tongue down your mouth stand your ground. A kiss on the cheek is sweet. Also stop this flirting and trying so hard. Be short simple and easy… Meet them as soon as you can! This will show that he is genuine.

[sydneysugarbaby]

Repeat this daily like a prayer

Money Affirmations

I am a magnet for money. Prosperity of every kind is drawn to me. Today is a delightful day. Money comes to me in expected and unexpected ways. I move from poverty thinking to prosperity thinking and my finances reflect this change. I delight in the financial security that is a constant in my life. I am open and receptive to all the wealth in the Universe. I am open and receptive to new avenues of income. I now receive my good from expected and unexpected sources.

Source - unknown

[sydneysugarbaby]

No money No honey.

I think asking a man to pay for your time on the first date really separates the bullshit from the real.

If you want to go get free meals you’d date a normal boy… But your not after free meals. REMEMBER!!

You have to be hard so they don’t walk over you. Lay your rules then Lay your price. Stick to it and don’t back down.

I just told a POT that he needed to pay me 500 for a date because he’s wasted my time for a while texting me and I didn’t believe he was genuine.

He did a transfer and I’ll be expecting it in my account tomorrow. But this isn’t the point. Know your worth and don’t go out with these men for free meals.

Get that money honeys.

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Me & The Attorney .

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I want a Sugar Baby Friend.

Me: I just got my allowance.

SB Friend: Me too!

Me: Beech let’s dress up and go to a cigar bar. We can freestyle and act like we’re sisters. 

SB Friend: How are we going to approach them? 

Me: Let’s have a debate about investing in America or investing in China stocks and then ask a random table to inquire. If they inquire ask them what bourbon goes well with a cigar. YOLOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.

SB Friend: Should I bring a leadership book as a backup conversation topic?

Me: (fake cries) WE ARE LIKE BALANCED!

I think this would make freestyling more effective since men love seeing two beautiful women and we can flirt with a table or a man without giving weird notions. 

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This is what I need!

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Manipulating Men for Money

Many of you who have reached out to me on this blog have commented on how “sweet” I am, which always makes me laugh, because really I’m quite a sociopath. There are only a handful of people on this planet I care about; everyone else I have no problem (and sometimes even enjoy) fucking with or exploiting for my own personal gain. Today I want to cover two strategies I use to get regular men (not sugar daddies) to give me money, summarized by the following two mantras: 1. Trinkets are tools, and 2. Play poor.

I’ve seen posts on Tumblr circulate the notion to never let a man think you depend on him financially because he will take advantage of your vulnerability. This is great advice if you really are in broke city, but if you’re a little flush, it is actually advantageous to hide the fact you are financially comfortable. I am relatively financially stable and I always look expensive, but I make sure everyone around me believes that I’m actually really fucking poor even when I’m not. Men especially like to feel needed, and helping out a “damsel in distress” boosts their egos. Use this to your advantage.

Now, I don’t make myself a charity case because any negativity or pessimism is going to turn off the person I’m talking to. Instead, I always find a way to mention I don’t have health insurance. This is such a genius way of manipulating men that even when I do get health insurance, which will probably be very soon, I’m still going to lie and make sure every man I date thinks I don’t. I subtly mention this very early when I’m getting to know someone, and find ways to bring it up throughout our relationship. That way, later on when I use this card to finesse money out of a man, he has no inkling of suspicion that I’m lying. For example, when the man I met this weekend was telling me about a gruesome back surgery he had a few years ago, I strategically responded by saying, “Wow! That sounds brutal. I hope I never have to get a surgery like that. I don’t have health insurance; I don’t know what I’d do if that happened to me.” I’ll bring this up a couple more times to further solidify in his mind the fact that I unquestionably do not have health insurance. If later down the road I need to spontaneously and rather quickly ask him for a large amount of money for a doctor’s visit, he won’t have any doubts that I’m lying.  Lately, I’ve been pretty annoyed with Alan (who I introduced in this post). He hasn’t been texting me as much, and did not follow up with me about paying for my hair even though he had offered to do so a while ago (which is fine, I got Miami guy to pay for it). He only sent me money once in the month of July, and I was worried that I would no longer be consistently receiving money from him unless I did something soon to re-establish the financial aspect of our unspoken arrangement. As a remedy, I used the dentist appointment I had yesterday to spring into action.

This is where the mantra “trinkets are tools” comes in. See, a lot of these men will at some point give you a really bad gift. It’s a trinket; something trivial and random because they’re trying to be thoughtful. For example, when Ralph went to the Super Bowl this year, he brought me back a red and gold Super Bowl memorability t-shirt. I made the mistake of throwing it away when we broke up, thinking we’d never get back together. BUT I should have kept it because that’s exactly the kind of random, ugly gift that I’m talking about here. 

Before I left for Florida, Alan got me a pair of socks that he thought were cute and made him think of me, because they are patterned with comic book characters fighting each other (which correlates to my love of comic books and kickboxing). I strategically wore those socks to my dentist appointment yesterday so I could take this “silly” photo and send it to Alan, captioned: At the dentist, thinking of you, lol! 

How did Alan respond? He wrote back, “Jajajaja didn’t think u were gonna wear them 😘 ”. Exactly. My. Point. This is why the trinket is so useful! With one photo, I have introduced the fact that I’m at the dentist and I have made Alan feel special and valued. When I left the dentist, I texted Alan that I have a cavity that is going to cost $235 to fix (This is a lie!) and I asked him if he could help me out. Because of the photo I had just sent him, it didn’t seem random or awkward at all for me to be bringing it up. I could have asked for an easy 200 bucks, but I always ask for an amount that doesn’t seem “even.” Why? Because men are likely to round numbers up, so I end up with more money while preserving the impression that I’m not asking for a lot. Alan ended up wiring me $300 without any hesitation.

I do this with virtually every medical expense and I fabricate expenses like this all the time. It pays to be poor—if men think you can’t afford health care, they will immediately jump up to take care of you. So remember ladies, don’t look down on that cheap little trinket that he bought you; it might end up being worth hundreds of dollars.  

[melaninsugarbarbie-blog]

Genius! I didn’t realize I do some of this without even thinking. I love the way your mind works!! So glad there are other sociopaths like me 😂😇🙃

[manukahoneybae]

Amazing advice!

[samanthalena]

Why I can’t fuck with vanilla men: y'all lie, cheat, scam, and manipulate yet have the nerve to throw a fit when a bitch asks you to pay bills. Next.

[6ix-mami]

[bobbijaxxx]

when my sugar daddy asks if more money will help with my depression

[melaninmonroe-barbie-blog]

Ok so here is my updated list of SD sites.

Happy Hunting Sugar Plums

SB/SD Dating Sites:

millionairedates.com seekingarrangement.com sugardaddie.com sugardaddyforme.com ashleymadison.com millionairesponsors.com sugardaddieworld.com sugardaddytoday.com clubsugardaddy.com sugardaddybabes.com dateamillionaire.com establishedmen.com sugarsugar.com whatsyourprice.com sugardaddymeet.com wealthymen.com myrichsugardaddy.com sugardaddyfinder.com mutualarrangements.com

Tinder

Copied from sexwork101

[technicolourdreamin]

[nysugarprincesss-blog]

Please god

[darkcocosb-blog]

I receive this shit! This will be mine by the end of this year! I have to make it!😈😩👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽😍😍

[icyaphrodite]

Dear god this is the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen

[sydneysugarbaby]

He asked me what turns me on - I showed him this

[daydreamingnymph]

“I believe in manicures. I believe in overdressing. I believe in primping at leisure and wearing lipstick. I believe in pink. I believe happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day, and… I believe in miracles.” Audrey Hepburn