amour / booth

18 && he/they ADHD DID sys

[system-yaoi]

Hello, We are the borderland system ^_^ Our username is mostly a joke or however you would like to take it. I am the host named Booth or Amour. We use the pronouns he/they or any masc / neu terms. You can call all of us booth or when you don't know who is fronting that is fine with us. I will be using the account mostly sometimes our alter will hop on and sign off using an emoij. I am anti-censorship, anti-harassment, anti-radqueer, pro-para and pro mogai + contradictory labels. you can always ask me to clarify my stances ^_^ !! Anyways thats all I got for now, more to come soon !

I have no real dni but it's common sense to block me if you are anti endo... or anti profic / proship ! i am only pro endo & traumagenic and against everything else. I may interact sometimes but only if the post is really funny or really dumb. do not start discourse with me thanks

[radically-normal]

Hi, not looking for a fight or anything, genuinely just curious and looking for clarification ^^

One of ur DNI points is "people with any paraphilic disorder that poses a risk to others" - what exactly do you mean by that?

Do you mean paraphilia, or paraphilic *disorder*. As in, would a non-disordered (or in recovery) anti-c zoophile be okay to interact?

Also what exactly counts as a risk to others? There's obviously the big 3, but what about stuff like voyeurists or sadists? Or auto- attractions like autopedophilia?

No pressure to respond

Yeah I mean "paraphilic disorder"

Well, if a zoophilic (or other paraphilic) person is anti-contact AND doesn't indulge in their sexual urges/desires (including with fiction), I don't see why not.

Risk would be anything that is truly harmful to someone (or animal). If a sadist practices BDSM in a Sane, Safe, and Consensual way between adults, obviously that wouldn't be a problem. If a voyeur is observing someone who has consented to being observed and they're both not coo coo bananas of the head, that also wouldn't be a problem.

But genuinely have no idea what "autopedophilia" is. Would that be fantasizing about being a child in a sexual situation??/gen

[scrap-apple]

do NOT lump yumeshippers with radqueers. We hate yall you are not one of us

[ralzei1997]

someone should make a pro-endo counterpart of radnormal

[radically-normal]

No.

[ralzei1997]

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💬 2  🔁 4  ❤️ 9 · can we also point out the second bullet in the last image? "Plurality is not the same as dissociative identity disorder

please read this post, you seem misinformed on this topic

[radically-normal]

I'm not exactly misinformed, I've been shown studies about this several times. I've even asked type 7 neuropsychologists about this (I've asked this question just out of curiosity btw lol.. uhh they also said it's not possible so.. :/) However, regardless of whether there are studies on the subject, as far as I know, no one can be diagnosed as a "non-traumatic system" or "endosystem". If the DSM doesn't include something like "Endogenic Disorder", and most professionals disagree on the existence of non-traumagenic systems, I don't see the point in stating anything.

+ I'm like 99,9% sure that there's at leasr 1 queer label that is pro-endo and similar to radnormal. Idk it doesn't really makes sense for you to specifically cite a label that is anti-endo just to say you want a label too. It's like saying "I want a that *insert name* label that is pro-endo without the pro-endo thing" or something </3

[ev1lgoob]

radqueers aren’t inclusive.

they’ll mock the abuse you went through just because you don’t want them around.

argue all you want about “safe spaces”, but its just an excuse to masturbate to kids. :/

and no, i wont be debating anyone on this topic. im pissed, i wont even be able to calmly argue.

[anti-willo-sprout]

Probably not the most controversial thing I’ve said, but woo hi.

As someone heavily against harassment, Naturally, my view on harassment and death threats are quite a negative one. I do not think that people should be harassed in any form; especially if said person is a vulnerable unstable individual.

However, there are situations where there are exceptions. And these are very specific situations.

If someone is either actively harming real people, encouraging others to harm real people, or encourages others to harm themselves (wether that be through self harm or by using labels and interacting in spaces that could easily put them in danger) , they deserve to be chased off of any platforms they have. Anyone who is a danger to others, especially trauma survivors or children, do not deserve safe spaces. They’re irredeemable vile monsters and shouldn’t be accepted anywhere.

I don’t condone harassment towards anyone else that isn’t on that list. if the person is a dangerous individual, pop off. Don’t feel ashamed to threaten predators. Don’t feel ashamed to chase Abusers from their platforms and communities.

Always make sure Predators and abusers have no safe spaces to run to. Especially online.

[zephyr-silver]

This take is probably gonna be controversial on tumblr but fuck it we ball

It’s absolutely ethical to bully pedophiles and zoophiles and make them feel unwelcome in queer spaces.

Push them out and keep pressing them if they try to weasel back in. No matter how much they whine and bitch, keep pushing.

[decentpersonsuggestions]

It's always morally right to bully pedophiles, zoophiles, necrophiliacs and people who enable this behavior out of ANY social space, PERIOD. unless theyre putting in the work to actually become a better person and not offend or identify with bullshit dogwhistles, you do not owe these people your time, your energy, nor your grace. Let their guilt swallow them whole if they feel it, and let them dig their heels into the sand until they meet whatever fate they choose.

These are grown adults in 99/100 of these cases. Not children. Do not coddle them, do not make them feel bad, do not make them feel "welcome". If you let a nazi into your bar, it is a nazi bar. PUSH THEM OUT. MAKE THEM UNWELCOME. MAKE THEM AFRAID.

And if they try to compare it to lynching or social murder, real things experienced by US, people of color, beat them with rocks. In no world is saying "you are a predator, I refuse to allow you to offend" equivalent to hanging someone and making a spectacle out of it. And If you're a predator, and that's how you feel? Boohoo cracker. Cry about it. I don't care. Either lock in or shut up. :-P

[system-yaoi]

i genuinely hate the radnormal community. a lot of them are straight up really aggressive/harassing towards others. I do get where they're coming from but please do it in a more respectful and calming way

Also i would like to clarify that I am against all radqueer paraphilias. I support paraphilias in the way that paraphilias should be more educated on and that pwparaphilias should get help. They shouldn't be scared or ashamed to have the disorder. i am also against contact and they don't belong in queer spaces at all okay bye !

[system-yaoi]

this whole convo got me laughing

lantern couldve easily used a different word to avoid this but instead he chose that word to explain a subgroup in that group. which honestly is dumb, it couldve been avoided this whole time

[system-yaoi]

also. the whole "men can't be lesbians" really only shows that some people say "gender is a social construct" without meaning it, whatsoever.

exactly, if you're gonna say that and then be against complex identities. you really don't mean it

[system-yaoi]

bigots are as smart as they can be. not at all!

this one made me giggle

[system-yaoi]

thelanternsex stop dickriding me "turn off your devices" thats like telling online bullying victims to turn it off. please stop being against good faith labels while harassing me and use odd forms to talk to me also ngh please continue to dickride me i love it

[thelanternsex]

Oh my fucking god this dude bro.

who even is this why are you trying to change the lesbian label???

just SAY you’re biphobic dude.

men CANNOT

Be lesbians.

there is no “but”

there is no “unless”

Men, INCLUDING trans men, cannot be lesbians.

do not change a label to fit you and invalidate others, just because you want to.

stop being a bitch.

grow up.

[system-yaoi]

grow up why ??? i am not the one being immature and making a whole account over other people's labels I am crying also not all trans men are just trans men can people not be complex anymore

[thelanternsex]

By the way, it really isn’t that deep.

People will continuously try to twist and bend labels to their own will just to “validate” themselves instead of finding what ACTUALLY fits them.

by having contradictory labels/genders to beat around the bush and avoid saying you’re anything BUT bisexual or anything of the sorts, it is biphobic. it’s okay to not need to collect labels like fucking Pokémon.

not to mention, having a list of labels does not mean you are “more woke” than others 🫶 unkindly, fuck off

[system-yaoi]

when did I saying having a list of labels mean you are more woke I AM DYING. you can't comprehend complex labels and that's fine but stop calling it biphobic when thats all you can say

[thelanternsex]

Then stop stalking/reblogging me???

like what

ignoring me and not making a whole ass post (multiple) about it is really easy to do

shocking, I know

[system-yaoi]

can we be a kind person and just move on after being blocked holy its not that hard buddy i will stop when you stop this going in a loop please stop

[thelanternsex]

Imagine blocking someone and then CONTINUING to interact with them instead of going about your day.

then acting like you can rationally bitch and complain about it.

[system-yaoi]

CAN YOU STOP BLOCK EVADING ME THEN I KNOW YOU CAN SEE THIS. I AM GONNA KEEP INTERACTING CAUSE YOU KEEP BLOCK EVADING. IMAGINE GETTING BLOCKED AND BLOC EVADING TO COMPLAIN ABOUT ME BLOCKING YOU. I AM TIRED OF YOU TOO STOP BLOCKING EVADING HOLY AND THEN CALLING ME A BITCH TOO IF YOU ARE SO TIRED ME OF THEN STOP CHECKING MY ACCOUNT MY GOD

[thelanternsex]

By the way, it really isn’t that deep.

People will continuously try to twist and bend labels to their own will just to “validate” themselves instead of finding what ACTUALLY fits them.

by having contradictory labels/genders to beat around the bush and avoid saying you’re anything BUT bisexual or anything of the sorts, it is biphobic. it’s okay to not need to collect labels like fucking Pokémon.

not to mention, having a list of labels does not mean you are “more woke” than others 🫶 unkindly, fuck off

[system-yaoi]

please stop block evading me, people say the same thing about xeongenders > "it’s okay to not need to collect labels like fucking Pokémon." so like maybe lets not be against good faith labels but say the same things that people use against xenogenders