From Syscourse To System Advice
Anti-Endo-Agony-Auncles is now Systematic-Advice!
Welcome to the blog. What started as an ambitious project to help Systems with anything and everything possible has scaled back slightly. We now specialize in listening to rants, advice for life events and relationship issues relating to Systems and their struggles and affirmation for those who need it. Navigating life as a System is hard and sometimes you need the advice of an adult who has been there. At 31, we have lived through many of the issues you might currently be facing. We hope you enjoy the content here and that you find it helpful.
➻ What We Do Here ⤵
Our aim is to provide a space for Systems to express themselves, ask questions and gain confidence. We’re looking to make a little corner of the internet where Systems feel safe and validated. We want to help people get through life. We’re also here to learn ourselves! We’re always growing and always trying to understand ourselves and the world around us more. If you spot something we’re misinformed on, please bring it to us! As long as you have evidence to back it up, we’re willing to examine it.
➻ What We Accept ⤵
◢ Rants/ Vents ~ We take rants and vents by Systems both privately and for display. We ask that if you intend it to just be ours to read that you specify that when sending it. We only accept rants through Submissions and Asks at this time. Do not DM us these things.
◢ Questions about being a System ~ We are in our thirties and have been living with DIDOSDD since we were toddlers. We have the unique experience and perspective of having lived this life longer than a lot of the people in this community have been alive or on the internet at least. We are willing to give what advice we can on situations you might encounter living life with this disorder. We are also out as a System for the most part, so you’re welcomed to ask about that as well.
◢ Questions about S4S Relationships ~ We have been in a System4 System relationship for over 14 years which gives us some good insight when it comes to having a relationship both as and with a System. We accept all questions related to this topic.
◢ Correcting Misinformation ~ We are always happy to learn. If you see something we post that seems off, please feel free to approach us respectfully and fill us in. We don't bite, we just sometimes feel a bit dumb for a while.
➻ All Alters Welcome ⤵
We accept interactions from Systems with Alters from 'any' source. Problematic sources, popular sources, obscure sources, fictjet, factjet and anyone who doesn't know where they fall. We understand that you are not your source and even if your related to that source, that still is not your choice. If you need to vent about your problematic sources that's absolutely fine too. We ask that you behave respectfully here, especially when interacting with our followers. As long as that boundary is respected you're welcome here.
Note: This blog began as a Rant and Syscourse Blog. Harry Potter Fans and Fictjets may see some anti-HP related posts, some of which are not kindly worded. You are still welcome here under this rule. We do not believe in continued interaction with the HP series, but we do understand that Alter's can't just change. We will respect you. This covers Five Nights as well.
➻ Boundaries (What We DON’T Accept!) ⤵
◢ Asks/ Message Times ~ Please do not pressure us to reply to your asks or your messages. This is a blog we run in our spare time which can be sparse. We will always do our best to answer as soon as possible, but we sometimes lack the energy. Remember, if we burn out we won’t be able to answer anything! It is however okay to check in and make sure we got it in the first place!
◢ Syscourse Related Messages ~ We no longer accept ANY Syscourse related Asks or Submissions. We are happy to provide advice, but we no longer care which side of the argument you are on. Please do your best to avoid bringing your System type into our asks. We will be transparent and say we still consider ourselves ‘anti-endo’ to a point, but we’re no longer involved in the debate to the best of our abilities. We are aware we cannot completely avoid it, but we do not want it to be a focus here.
◢ DO NOT ATTACK OUR FOLLOWERS - If you have rage to direct at someone, direct it at me. We designed this blog to be a safe place, so please keep those following it out of any discourse.
◢ Spelling/ Typos: The System suffers from Dyslexia and cognitive issues. This means our hands don't always hit the right keys and our brain doesn't always catch it. We spell phonetically very often so we might not catch that either. If you want to point out a spelling mistake or typo, please do so respectfully. We edit posts to fix typos/ spelling mistakes.
◢ Kins - This is a topic the blog avoids discussing. While much of the kinning community makes us uncomfortable, those who participate in them are allowed to interact. We simply will not reply to asks or DMs about the topic.
◢ Diagnosis ~ While we have had education in psychology and we do plan to finish our education eventually, at the moment we are NOT professionals. This means that no matter how much you share with us in terms of your System symptoms WE CANNOT DIAGNOSE YOU. The BEST we can say is ‘That lines up with our experiences/ the experiences of others we’ve met’ and move on.
◢ Medical Questions ~ As stated above, we are not professionals. This means we will not be giving advice on how to tell the difference between disorders or what the definitive symptoms of something are. We cannot tell you more than what extends to our personal experience, so please do not come to us looking for information on the disorders you have.
◢ Crisis Support ~ We are very happy to give you advice and allow you to rant as needed, we will support if we can. With that said, try to remember that we are a System dealing with trauma as well. We are not crisis counselors. If you are in immediate distress please see this list of international crisis helplines.
➻ Who We Are ⤵
This blog is run by the LostSouls House. We are a Polyfragmented System in our 30s. We do not typically leave our names on things on this blog and we intend to continue that trend. We’re here to give advice, so we don’t feel the individual matters as much. We use singular and plural identifiers interchangeably on this blog and often in real life! We like film, reading and writing, but there isn't a lot more to say about is here.
➻ DNI ⤵
➽ Anti-LGBTQIA+/2S
➽ Racists
➽ Pedos/MAPS
➽ Necrophiles
➽ Nazis
➽ Ableists
➽ TERFs
➽ Anti-Whatever Pronouns
➽ Fatphobes
➽ Fakeclaimers
