#+roommate hell

[studywithvictory]

Some affirmations I'd like to tell my younger self:

My feelings matter, even if others failed to honor them.

What happened to me was real, and I deserved support.

I am allowed to be hurt, and I am allowed to heal.

My inner self deserves compassion, not silence.

I do not have to be the bigger person to be worthy.

[stachy]

i’m starting to get really sick of spending time around white leftist goyim. including my ‘friends’ that i live with.

i’m sick of needing to be organizing for work every single day of my life and then going home to where i live and dealing with the emotional labor of living with a classist antisemetic vegan that for some reason my other housemates/”friends” (white goys lmao) feel like defending?? 

like i’m sick of being a professional organizer and still not feeling like i’m doing enough and then coming home to this. i’m sick of the emotional burden and responsibility that spreads into every corner of my life.

i’m also soo sick of being around white goyim in leftist circles tbh. i need to have a talk to my white “anarchist” roommate about the fact that she keeps displaying classist and antisemetic behavior to the point where other Jewish people in my community have made comments about it. i’m sick of not being heard when it comes to my anger and i hate that i have to explain why i’m angry. like it shouldn’t be my responsibility to explain any of this to her, but i don’t want her to think any of this is acceptable in leftist/ organizing circles when it makes everyone else this uncomfortable.

i really hate this shit.

[h-g-sol]

So here’s the DL for the eviction situation.

I filed the paperwork today, which they will get served a court notice tomorrowish? To which they have 5 days to appeal to the court. If they do not, I will get a default ruling and then they have 10 days after which to gtfo.

If the do appeal to the the court then it goes to a hearing to which they will still have 10 days to gtfo.

If they do not leave with in the 10 days then I have to file one last time for an “Order of Eviction” to which they have 48 hours to leave or else.

So yay... I’m still looking towards another two weeks of misery. But there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

[fursasaida]

my roommate’s summer subletter is a college senior and i feel SO OLD

[kittyburrito69]

Yeah….so apparently this was a thing. Just a lil thing of milk chilling in front of the door. No big deal. Maybe milk men are still a thing? But…one of the typical yet random things that occurred when you have roommates like mine. 

[h-g-sol]

So with my court date letter I received a copy of their appeal note. They claimed in their "note" that I'm threatening them and filing fake police reports. That I cannot perform upkeep on my property yadda yadda yadda.

The willingly moved into my house fully knowing that I didn’t have working heat last year on the romise that they would help me with the bills so I could fix it.

I don’t see how they think that ANYTHING could get fixed if they don’t pay for their part of the bills. Which at this point is all of them I am never home since I’m working 7 days a week to keep up with their bills.

I am never home and I don’t speak to them at this point I think I’m better off sleeping out of my damn car.

[fursasaida]

You know in 10 Things I Hate About You, when Bogey Lowenstein is having his party, how before it gets prank-crashed by the entire school you see that it's a gathering of insufferably pretentious uptight nerds? Yeah, my roommate has those once a month and I'm currently listening to her prepare for one by exclaiming about how when she lit the candles there was... smoke.

[thepurplejirai]

regarding the previous post: I am incredibly close to committing murder tho