How to love a man
Understand
He will never be perfect.
At some point he will be inconsistent. sometimes he will be impatient.
Sometimes it will be hard for him to handle your mood swings.
He gets angry too.
His mood changes as well.
Freedom
Give him the freedom to the things that he likes.
Do not box him.
Do not choke him in the neck.
The truth is, if he really loves you, he will never do things that will hurt you.
He has a life to live so do not take that way from him.
You are not his world.
You are just a part of it.
Reciprocate
Make efforts for him too.
Ask him how his day went
Ask him what went wrong.
Love him hard as well.
Be patient with him too.
Respect
You have to respect choices and decisions.
Give him respect that he deserves.
Affection
Show him that you care.
Wrap him with warm hugs.
Show to him that you are always there for him.
Attention
Like you, he needs your attention too.
He needs reassurance as well that he is the only one for you.
Do not give him reasons to doubt you.
There will be a perfect man at some point, you will get disappointed and upset he did not become the man you expect him to be. But because you love him you accept every bits of him. If he is worth the risk , keep him.
Sometimes we want to be understood so much, that we forget to understand men as well.
