"Getting married is not a joke. Think smart and don't be so stupid."
Yeah, you heard it. Getting married at a young age will give you freedom and a better life than before. If you believe that shit, you're entirely misled! Of course, you will ask why? "Oh I love him or I love her so much, what else can go wrong with love?" NO! Many things can be mistaken because you are still immature and chances are many compatibility issues may arise. Right now, you're still in love, you're blinded. Love only will not bring you food on the table, it will not feed your baby, and it will not give you the comfortable life you wish to have. Hence, it's the other way around. But hey, stop from there, unless... unless... you both or the other person is damn rich or financially capable of supporting both or all your needs. That is another story. If both of you are young like in your early 20s and haven't finished College yet, but have financial stability, you already have millions in the bank under your name. Well, then the path is yours to take. Take the chance and face the risks. Yet, that doesn't apply to most people which in real life, it's always not the case. Most people at that age are just starting their career or starting to save and invest, or don't have anything at all. Regardless of which religion or part of the globe are you now. It's all the same events. Oops, not sure in Chinese. Anyway, I know some people who got married at the younger age of 18 and 20s, but they belong to a family who can financially support them at the moment they're just starting. Then, later on, become independent and responsible parents. Those are the people I know, who have the mental strength and capability to thrive no matter what the circumstances they might face, then years passed by they had their dream wedding, although their children become older already it makes the story more meaningful and lovely. But kid, if you know to yourself that you are not yet financially stable, still have dreams to finish school, you want to travel around the world, you want to buy these things, you want to know different people, you want to be successful and really happy. Please stop there and don't get married, you are just sharing your burden with your parent(s) or close family who cares about you. Please, learn to wait. True love can wait but know your limits because it might be too late when you're gone too long. Or there is someone that is really right for you waiting to unfold. You will find out for yourself if it's the right time, and you will feel it if it's the right person. "A woman marries the right guy, while a man marries at the right time." Remember, getting married is not a joke, think smart, and don't be so stupid. The world has a lot to offer, never lose that opportunity you have because time matters a lot, you just don't see it sometimes because you're too in love. Don't jail yourself into a situation that you will never like and before you know it it's too late to get out because responsibilities are already there, and it's a life contract written and signed by both parties.
