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[system-hottakes]

This take probably isn't all that hot but it's not anyone's business who's fronting at a certain time, you don't owe anyone an answer

You're allowed to lie about who's fronting or say you don't want to tell them for literally any reason

real:3 I lie all the time. Actually we have a designated 'this is us when blurry alter' (basically an alter that we say we are when we're blurry to avoid questions) -> actually there's technically two, but one is for specific places and the other is for everywhere

[antiendovents]

Fakeclaiming someone for JUST being a MINOR is insane ??? Not to mention, DID and OSDD Assessment can take years to get one.

yesh, that is insane. Minors can and have been diagnosed with it. And yeah, assessments take a long time to get and some people can't get them at all, people who fail to understand this will forever annoy me

[system-hottakes]

hot take: syscord & systok made our community incredibly anti recovery and pro "harassing people with cdds who prefer singular terms and being treated as one person", i have been accused of "suppressing" my parts because me and them have all agreed on final fusion & singular terms.

- same anon as the ageslider relationship ask, may I be⚓🎀 anon please?

Yeah--- it's like.. you're not hurting anyone, I don't get why people have such an issue with it. You can use singular terms if you want, you aren't suppressing your parts, you're healing

Also yeah, you can be that anon

[antiendovents]

Why do endos claim you're ableist when you tell them they're not systems if they're not claiming to be disabled in the first place?

Like-

"I'm a non-disordered system who is not disabled by my alters and doesn't have trauma/PTSD!"

"So you don't have DID or OSDD?"

"No I do not!"

"Then you're not a system?"

"Why are you being ableist?"

"????"

Yeah. It doesn't make sense. Like what do you mean, your whole community is based on an ableist movement and you claim to not be disordered at all but suddenly it's ableist to call out your bullshit?? Make it make sense

[antiendovents]

I used to support endo systems (due to being around them so much) and they forced me to come to terms with my sys 😭😭😭 i was 12/13 and the main systems involved were 19, 17 and around 15 at the time 😛......... Safe to say I was forced to put an endo label on my system before ACTUALLY realizing i have p-DID and quickly removing all times to endo-culture. They also dogpiled me for having endos dni in a carrd i made and i lied and said it was to fly under the radar and they told me to remove it as it invalidates endo systems 😭😭😭 like bro what. U aren't valid in the first place

SORRY FOR YAPPING!!!! Endos are usually misguided / misinformed or straight up creeps

Oh jeez! I hope you're okay!?! That sucks!!! No, it's actually disgusting, it doesn't just suck, I'm sorry. They aren't valid and it's disgusting that they got mad at you for that and it's even worse that they convinced you into that in the first place. It's incredibly weird for ppl that age to be speaking to ppl way younger and giving them harmful misinformation and then getting mad at them when they no longer believe in it.. I don't even know what to say about that other than WHAT THE FUCK. Again, I really hope you're doing okay because that's crazy 🫂

[antiendovents]

learned a (now ex) friend of mine is pro-endo the hard way

she met one of our littles unbeknownst to me. before that she had no idea we were a system. i found out they met because she asked me if we could fucking trade. then tried to say "um actually endos and alter trading have been proven real! there are StudiesTM!"

then she started mimicking the little she met and claiming she "system hopped" to join her. im hurt. our little feels horrible. this whole thing feels fucking horrible.

Awh, I'm so sorry that happened 🫂 I really hope you're okay. I can only imagine how hurt you feel by that. That's actually horrible and I'm glad you aren't friends with her any more. You can't trade alters and it's disgusting that she would ask that of you

[antiendovents]

Vent

We use another platform full of fucking endos and we post very medical posts and get subposts like "sysmedicalists call endogenics ableist"

A) sysmed is a transphobic term you fucking idiot

B) you are literally faking a debilitating disorder, you are by definition ableist

Oh, yeah. I fucking hate people who use that term. Also endos are ableist 💀 why are they complaining about being called out for THEIR own actions?