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"Shame is the lie someone told you about yourself."

-bell hooks

You didn’t cause this. And you did not deserve it. Shame belongs to the one who crossed the line - not the one who survived it.

#reframing #not shaming #workplace harassment #anti harassment #aftermetoo #Tyrone Geter - Shame #oil painting

Do people actually care about anime anymore? I feel like there's three types of people, 1) the people who just want to see big tits or pantie shots, 2) the people who think that anything that isn't super complex or poetic is just slop, or 3) they don't actually watch any animes and just say they do.

What ever happened to enjoying simple moe? Why does it always have to be something pervy or super deep. And most Lucky Star or K-On! fans don't even watch the shows. I grew up on both of them and even now as I'm about to be a junior, they are so extremely good and enjoyable. Im not shaming anyone who likes pervy anime or really deep anime, I'm just saying I wish more people genuinely enjoyed simple slice of life animes. I always feel like a better person and kinder friend after watching them. Maybe I just don't spend to much time around real fans.

Any other fans who feel this way?

the only thing i was not prepared for when joining this fandom was the amount of wound fucking/fingering on ao3

#i #was #not #ready #i mean you do you but #imo #its utterly disgusting and one thing i will *not* read #not shaming #just voicing how much i dislike it #malevolent #malevolent podcast #malevolent ao3 #tw suggestive #tw wounds #john doe malevolent #arthur lester #kayne malevolent #bonsai's smut posting

Do people actually wait to wear something until it's finally in trend? Do some of yall just not wear something when yall feel like it for the day? Do yall carefully critique what you wear based on what you currently see in your timelines so you could feel in the know?

#not shaming #im just really curious since ive always felt like people just wore what they felt like

i swear to god the flags are gonna become the marauders of the bsd fandom

change my mind

#like they exist for 30 pages then die #not shaming #i love the flags #they are incredible #i just find it funny #bsd #bungou stray dogs #bungou gay dogs #bsd the flags

Literally how do you do the most intimate and vulnerable, romantic thing with another person and just… Walk away? I don’t get that casual shit. It all feels so shallow and empty, all lust and no love.

I see people just drawing themselves with other, real, people and like. I get it’s consensual but. Ugh. At the end of the day, doesn’t it all feel fake? Don’t you remember there’s no love between the two parties and feel emptiness? How you could even make yourself draw an act like it’s no big deal…. Astounds me.