#- tabby

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SOURCE ADMITTING TO SEARCHING HIS NAME ON TUMBLR

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fucking unbelievable that zoey gets her own blog but I don't. like okay front council I get it you have a favourite child cat

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I have a kid pursing me at college. he always says things that make me uncomfortable (what if i kiss you, hold your hand, can i have a piggy back ride,asking for my # or dates & he follows me and messages me all the time) Anyway I told him that and asked he stop speaking to me. Now he is saying I will hurt his feelings & I have to stay or he will hurt himself. Am I over reacting should I stay??? im uncomfortable around males to begin with? maybe im being mean? - Tabby

Hi love,

You are definitely not over-reacting, and you’re not being mean in the least bit. His behavior was inappropriate, especially since you obviously weren’t reciprocating his feelings. You had every right to tell him that his actions made you uncomfortable. He should’ve respected your boundaries instead of accusing you of hurting his feelings. The fact that he reacted by demanding that you stay otherwise he will hurt himself is a huge red flag. This is very manipulative and the kind of behavior typical of toxic and unstable people.

I really suggest that you be cautious around him. I think you should get an adult involved, to be on the safe side. Is there any teacher at college that you can talk to about this? Maybe your college advisor? They might be able to give you some suggestions, or connect you with someone at your school that can help you handle this situation.

Please keep me updated,

<3 Jen