If you are a freshly discovered system, my biggest suggestion is to avoid syscourse. Don't engage with people who force you to engage with it or force you to have an opinion.
Seriously, syscourse is a mess. Misinformation spreads like wildfire here. If you don't have well established knowledge, you're going to find yourself very confused and likely very misinformed.
How do you establish knowledge? Well, by starting with scientific research. Syscourse will lead you to believe that DID is underresearched, but it truly is not that bad. DID-Research is a good compliation of it. It is lacking in areas such as OSDD, but honestly so is scientific research.
It IS important to find people with shared experiences, but syscourse is literally the worst place ever for that. One of the biggest issues is different parts of the syscourse community define terms differently, meaning that it is essentially impossible to navigate and understand. It can be big and overwhelming and confusing, and if you're discovering who you are, discourse is just not the way to go about it.
Note: If you are a non-disordered plural, this may not apply to you. However, if you have freshly discovered your plurality, I would strongly suggest looking into DID and CDDs. The fact that it never hurts to learn more aside, ultimately so many CDD systems I know intially thought they were non-disordered and that hindered their healing. Not saying you are or are not anything, but that's just my advice.