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is writing and memorizing a 6 minute speech in 17 days a small favor

SMALL favor?

no

yes

thistle button.. dont click this pls

Voting ended onMar 18

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turns out i didnt really want a boyfriend i just wanted my dad to be my dad for five minutes, not to stare but to just take that gross feeling away and love me like a dad is meant to

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when you had the most gut-wrenching, disgusting, fear-inducing nightmare about your dad but you lowkey have to finish his christmas gift

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if you tell me you won’t use neopronouns on folks i do in fact think you have no whimsy (trust me get some whimsy it’ll make you feel way better)

leaf/leafself, pup/pupself, xe/xer, etc is just as respectable as he/him, they/them, she/her

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yapping abt stuff

cw; mentions of fakeclaiming self, tics, chronic pain

even if it hurts and it makes me feel like a burden, no matter how much time, tears, or effort it takes, I want to unlearn that inherent guilt for existing

I want to believe myself, know I’m a genuine kind person, to look at my true family and say, without a doubt, I won’t run them off

recently I’ve been really upset to be honest, it’s been really really hard

but so many people are rooting for me, whether they be our own alters or others, they’re all so kind and loving, even when we’re annoying or difficult

it makes us feel so incredibly grateful when saying “we can’t get out of bed” “we need crutches for our pain” “we’re a system” “we have tics” is met with complete compassion

we couldn’t thank any of you enough for giving us a safe space to live as us

I look forward to being comfortable in our own skin

thank you, when I don’t wanna get better I know I should, for you all at the very least