help out a disabled transsexual with disability aid & furniture costs !
will put my whole situation under the cut as to not clog people's dashboards but tldr ; stuck in a bordering on abusive relationship , unable to move , need help affording things to make my life a little more bearable & easy. amzn wishlist here , ppal here for other donos. sharing if you're unable to financially help goes a long way & I'm forever grateful 🫀
DO NOT TAG AS ANY DONO TAGS SO THIS DOESNT GET SHADOWBANNED , THANK YOU
I've been dating my gf for over a year now , she's recognised as my carer & currently receives benefits for that reason. however she has recently ( since about 4 months ago ) been treating me worse & worse ; constantly getting mad at me for being too disabled to even get out of bed somedays , calling me "useless" for being too physically disabled to stand for long enough to cook anything that needs constant attention , saying I was a leech on her life once for being financially dependant ( I get £300 a month via disability benefits , i have no financial support system to fall back on outside of this , she gets £400 & has a very well off family that supports her ) etc etc. my current plan is to attempt to get on universal credit & then apply for council housing , with UC my rent will be paid & with council housing I can have a house suited to my needs as a physically disabled person. the only issue is the uk gov moves incredibly slow on these things , it took me a rejection & 10 months just to get on benefits. so , for now , I have to try to work with the situation I'm currently in. I've tried multiple times now to mend me & my gfs relationship but she continues to fail to put in the work ( there is , a lot more issues not discussed here but they aren't as relevant to my financial issues ). essentially , I need help affording some basics for my currently very barren room that she is frankly refusing to further help with. things that'll make this space my own while I try to stay sane through all this. I would open comms to make ends meet but with my pain & fatigue getting worse I'm already horrifically behind on my current queue , so I do apologise for not being able to offer anything in return.
basically uh , help my disabled ass survive through this please ? 🐕🦺🫀
