4. 10 pet peeves that I might unfriend you for..
1. Voice messages. Wechat was once a big hit for its “walkie-talkie” function, i was not a big fan of wechat anyway.. Then, whatsapp adopted this function!! WHY??!! I totally hate voice messages, call me deaf coz I really can’t hear wtf you are trying to say.. unless you are driving and need to pass a quick urgent message.. NOTE: a QUICK and URGENT message.. if it’s not quick nor urgent, it can wait till you have time to type.. coz when I can’t make out what you’re trying to say, i will have to listen over and over and over again and i might not know what is the message.. Come on, we are all educated and literate, spelling errors and grammar mistakes are forgivable as long as the message goes through.. by the way, if you can’t spell or grasp basic grammar you can’t pass the message via speaking either.. and, listening to your voice over and over and over again will make me hate you, especially when i still can’t understand, having to filter the background noises and crowd sounds.. same goes, i have crowd sounds here as well.. I comprehend better reading that hearing. So please do me a favour, don’t send voice messages because if i assume it’s not important, there is a high chance that i will not be listening to it..
2. Throwing stuff. I am a hoarder and i do not expect you to be one but please make sure you do not have to use that certain thing before throwing it.. if you have thrown something you will have to deal with its absence, don’t come asking for help..
3. Not using both sides of the paper.. Papers are great inventions, please make full use and recycle them..
4. Not knowing things you are supposed to know.. like you are a doctor but you haven’t heard of stethoscope.. somewhere around that line..
5. I know you don’t know what i am talking about, I don’t expect you to know but don’t downgrade it with your ignorant responses.. just nod politely and admit that you are not familiar, i am totally fine with it
6. Being too particular about food..so, if the food is not good, just say it’s not good, you don’t have to describe how bad it is by linking it with inedible things. I am still eating it and i find it absolutely fine, thank you very much
7. Lack of general knowledge.. How can someone not know what is Europe??!! it’s a continent for god’s sake!! I might feel better if you said it’s a country rather than asking me what is it..
8. Speaking in another language instead of the one you are spoken to.. We are living in a multi-lingual country.. we all have a basic command of the basic languages.. when someone is speaking to you in english please reply in english, however broken it might be.. or if you don’t feel comfortable just ask if they could switch to the language you would feel more comfortable using.. most of the time, there is a reason for using a particular language, like there might be someone in the conversation that does not understand other languages and if you keep speaking in another language that they don’t understand, is VERY RUDE!! respect, please!!
9. Asking obvious questions and jumping into conclusions.. especially in chats where you can always scroll back up to read.. “ We’ll be having dinner at KFC at 7pm— ok, where?— KFC— ok, what time?” just scroll back up and check bfore asking please, thank you.. another reason why i hate voice messages because i will need to listen to your voice for 30 seconds just to get the point that’s only 2 seconds.. i don’t hate your voice, i just hate voice messages
10. Taking things for granted as in expecting others to do things for your.. example, you are a working adult, you bought take away and transferred your food to a plate.. after eating, you leave the plate in the sink.. do you think it will wash itself?? or your maid at home will take the taxi over to your pantry and wash it for you? You’re a grown up, please act like one.. even though you have 10 maids at home to wash your plates but you’re now out of your home and unless you bring them, your maids are not with you.. so, wash your own plates, please..
Ok, i might have exaggerated, i will not unfriend you but i really hate voice messages.. Thank you