#20815

[leomacgivena]

「管理組合がしっかりしているか」「他の住民はまともか」というのはマンション購入の上でクリティカルに重要な情報なのに広告を読んでも一切わからないという罠

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[femalefrontedbandsconfessions]

20815

Suffice to say, I’m not entirely satisfied with the new NW single. I dunno what’s worse; the pretentious “old man (and woman) yells at cloud” message about technology, or the… borderline slut-shaming…?

[femalefrontedbandsconfessions]

20901

@20859

I’m the confessor of 20815 and at no point did I accuse the video of slutshaming, I’ve accused it of objectification of female bodies. Which is ironic because, as you said yourself, the director of the video criticizes women who sexualize themselves by sexualizing a woman himself through putting her in sexy lingerie and doing close ups of her butt. The message it seems to convey is that female sexualization is only bad when it’s made in the own terms and consent of the women involved, but okay when men do it for their pleasure and gaze. That’s creepy. Any criticism the video was going for falls upon itself because of this glaring contradiction.  

[femalefrontedbandsconfessions]

20859

@20815 I think that the video is very important and personally really enjoyed it.

In response to what you said:

There was no slut shaming what so ever, I think it was more to do with how lots of women have a tendency to over sexualise themselves online to attract a large following and gain more likes.

[dreamsprouts]

May 14, 2019

Becoming someone who’s independent and can speak her mind is the most difficult part of growing up.

[dreamsprouts]

May 4, 2019

Happy Star Wars Day! (Officially a holiday in California starting this year—what a time to be alive.) May the Fourth/Force be with you.

A thought: As much as I want to act upon my immature inclinations and distance myself, I couldn’t help but be drawn in by her warmth and kindness today. She’s still the same friend I’ve always known and grown to love.

Maybe there’s a small hope that I can overcome these festering feelings and learn to accept reality.

[dreamsprouts]

May 3, 2019

I can’t erase the memories. I can’t erase the friendship. Now, every fond recollection is tainted by this revelation, a reminder of what I’ve lost.

[dreamsprouts]

May 3, 2019

My mind is split in two: a brooding, hurting, raging irrational mind, and a weak, fearful rational mind that’s trying to speak reason to its other half.

Even though I’m trying hard not to think, and both minds have agreed to stay silent, I feel utterly broken.