Ugh 🙄
We had a 21st last night, I was only there with Teddy for about 90 mins and then T took us home, had dinner and went back in. While I was there a friend of the birthday girl showed up, and I dunno his energy just didn't sit well with me. So while T was put last night he had a conversation with said person that went like this.
Random: So what does your partner do?
T: She's a full time mum
Random: Yeah I know she's pregnant but what does she do for work?
T: She's not pregnant
Random: Oh but she's got a bit of a belly
T: She's just had a c-section, her stomach muscles are still relaxed.
Random: Isn't your bub one year old?
T: No, he's five months.
I knew he rubbed me the wrong way for a reason. A) Teddy looks nowhere near 1 year old, B) does he assume everyone who is female with a belly is pregnant, and C) what fucking business is it of his? And society wonders why women are self conscious after pregnancy. 🤔
It doesn't bother me whatsoever, because I didn't have much of an opinion about this random anyways, but I fear for his future partner. Even pre-pregnancy I had a belly, like why do you expect women to have a flat stomach you gigantic douche. 🖕
