I guess you know you're with the right person when you start to fear their health. What if he ever gets hurt? What if he ever falls ill? What if he ever dies? It's a fear I constantly think about, something that just rattles my mind. Normally I'd say that I hope I'll be the first to go, then those fears would never be faced. But, in hind sight that pain would be so brutal that I wouldn't want that on him either. So then I guess I'd want him to be the first to go so my fear of him ever getting hurt in that way would never ring true. At least then I'd be able to control that possibility. I know this means I'm with the right person as this topic, never, not once, crossed my mind in my previous relationship. But in all honesty, it's just a daunting topic, though it is reality. So therefore I know I'm with the right person if I'm thinking about this reality. As in my mind it resembles that I want to be with him until 'death do us part' for as far as I know, we will be each other's 'daunting topics' for he'll be the one I'll love forever.