About a year ago on my way into work in Bloomsbury (I'm a receptionist at a small software company) I noticed some protesters had gathered on Bedford Square, near my office. Ever the protest enthusiast, I went over to take a look and was shocked to discover that they were anti-choice protesters! Firstly, because I had no idea that there were still people around who were actively against a woman's right to choose, and secondly because up until that point, I wasn't aware that I worked right by the London BPAS office.
A disappointed status update was duly added to Facebook that a couple of people responded to. One friend, Jim Turner said:
Carmen, do '40 days of treating the staff of BPAS', and get people to chip in. I'm good for a Chupa Chups tree.
Also, I'm up for giving the BPAS staff treats
And so a mini campaign was born.
On the first day, I took round some Jaffa Cakes, my personal favourite. The receptionist thought it was hilarious and had no problem with me buying them sweets. When I dropped them round, their office manager came out to thank me and I was glad that it was well received. Apparently these protesters have been campaigning out here twice a year since 2011. They do 40 days at Lent and another 40 in September/October. As a former Catholic Sunday school teacher, I feel that I understand part of where they are coming from. They want to protect their belief in the lives and souls of these 'unborn children' and are probably frustrated by the thought that nobody else seems to share their views. Such is the joy of living in a largely secular society that they can hold these views publicly without fear of impunity.
That being said, my thoughts are with the humans they target in all of this - the women, staff and families who have to face this harassment I make no assumptions about the choices others make, but I am grateful that I have grown up in a society where those choices are available to me should I need to make them, and strongly believe that everyone should have the same rights as we in England, Scotland and Wales do.
If you'd like to join in, you can:
1. Buy a treat and take it to your local BPAS, Marie Stopes, or other family planning centre to show your appreciation for the work that the staff do. I take pre-wrapped sweets so that they can put them out on reception for those with appointments, but other people have taken fruit, flowers, cards, or just popped in to say hello.
2. Send tweets and messages of support to BPAS, the BPCA, and any other pro-choice organisations.
3. If you have the time, find out from them if there’s other positive action you can take to show your support. This could be volunteering at events, writing to your MP, or just turning up to pro-choice rallies to boost numbers.
4. Importantly, since this is 40 Days of Choice, donate to chosen project Education For Choice, which gives evidence-based information on abortion.