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[yaoigovroom]

as promised.. oc stuff.. thank u @soremourn for asking about them 🥹🫶 here's the rly rough colors for their suits XD and some development sketches when i was trying to pin down their vibes!

more misc doodles and oc yapping under cut

posted this already but i think massi more or less stayed looking like how he does in the circle cut... ciro changed a bit more throughout me drawing it

dogs... obligatory dachshund bc of course. but i think massi looks like a bull terrier so i gave him one HEH!

family?!

massi's older sis does rally car racing... eventually he follows in her footsteps after he retires from motogp. i think when they were younger he'd have tried being her codriver for funsies n thought it was awesome but he wants to drive

ciro's lil sis is a normal happy 11 y/o LMFAO i forgot to name her im sorry

i drew these while working on the comic for like no reason, they are not mentioned LMAO and i ended up giving them both sisters.. (i have 3 sisters maybe that explains it)

DOWN THE LINE I WANT CIRO TO GROW HIS HAIR OUT sorry idc if it's inconvenient it's what he wants (i want)

in general he's pretty stubborn about looking how he wants to look even tho he's annoyed about ppl calling him feminine. he will not change... he's his own man... and then massi is salt and peppering like dani pedrosa thank u dani mmmmm

if u got this far thank u ily thanks for looking at my cringe LMAO

[5sospicturesque]

Clearing out my camera roll 8762/?

[mental-health-advice]

I have previously been attracted to two people in many different ways but when I've met up with this one boy before he sort of forced himself onto me and did things I wasn't prepared for. It's a year down the line now and I'm 17 and ready for a physical relationship but whenever it comes to it I'm terrified. I'm not sure what it is but I just can't bring myself to do it. I feel like there's something wrong with me. I don't know what to do. :(

Hi, sweetheart :)

There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. Please, please believe that. Your body may be ready for a physical relationship, but your mind and heart probably aren't. That's completely normal with trauma. It took me awhile to be ready for physical things to happen in my relationship. I'm married now and we are so happy. I am lucky enough to have such a supportive and patient partner in life, and I honestly feel like it made all the difference.

It's easy to say that yes, this was one guy and not every guy is like that. Sure, and it's true, but how do you tell your mind that? Be gentle with yourself. Take the time to be in a relationship.. and be open about things that have happened to. Your partner will understand that you need to take things slow and when you're ready to take things to the next level.

Have you talked to anyone about what has happened? Even if it's a trusted family member or a close friend. It would help to let your fears out and work through them instead of holding them in and keep you from having the healthy, intimate relationship  you're looking for and so deserve, sweet pea. You're so worth it <3

Lots of love,Jamilyn

[mental-health-advice]

Regarding the water drinking & anxiety anon. Just be weary that excess water consumption in a short space of time can cause a large shift in cell osmolality causing them to lyse (burst)- meaning that the cells die. Generally refrain from drinking an excess of 1L of water in one hour as this is upper limit before kidneys experience a net gain of water. So a normal Mount Franklin bottle of water would be fine. But just for people to be aware of. Too much water can actually harm your body.

Hi, sweetheart!

This is so true, and I should have added it in my answer. Too much water is harmful to your body and is a potentially fatal disturbance in brain functions that results when the normal balance of electrolytes in the body is pushed outside safe limits by over-hydration. Like lots of things, water is okay in moderation!

Thank you for sending this in, darling <3

Lots of love,Jamilyn

[mental-health-advice]

I don't know if this will help anyone but when I have panic attacks at college I'm given a bottle of water and have to drink it all, because it calms down your breathing x

Hi, love :)

I absolutely love it when our followers help each other out! Ya'll are so sweet. Different things help different people, and I feel like having lots of options and things to try definitely helps find something that works for you.

Not only does water help calm you down, but it's healthy for you! Thank you for taking the time to share what helps you, my dear <3

Lots of love,Jamilyn

[mental-health-advice]

Hi, so I think I might be pregnant. I'm 20, and I know I don't want a kid, probably ever, but especially not right now. But I'm just really anxious because I feel like I such an idiot for letting this happen, and I worried that if I go to a clinic and have an abortion I'm going to have to deal with a lecture, or judgement or something from the person preforming the procedure. I have really bad social anxiety, and this is stressful as is, how do I build up the confidence in my choice to do it?

Hi, sweetheart <3

I want you to erase the thought of you being an idiot out of your mind! You aren't an idiot. I've noticed that when I really, really don't want something to happen, sometimes it does, and then I have to pull myself together and handle it. You're brave for coming here and talking with us, and since this ask was sent in several days ago, I'm hoping you have already gotten the courage to do what I'm going to tell you.

As women, when we get an inkling that we are pregnant, most of the time.. it's right. The only way to truly know is to take a pregnancy test. It doesn't have to be a fancy, expensive one. Most work the exact same way and come with two tests per package. If you've taken a test by now (I'm sure you did), your next step would be a health center like Planned Parenthood. Family planning clinics, like your local Planned Parenthood health center, have specially trained staff who can talk with you about all of your options. But beware of so-called "crisis pregnancy centers". These are fake clinics run by people who are anti-abortion. They often don't give women all their options. They have a history of scaring women into not having abortions. Absolutely no one should pressure you or trick you into making a decision you're not comfortable with.

I understand that this is a difficult process and very scary. Is it possibly to talk to a close friend or trusted family member to help you during this time? The decision to keep/end the pregnancy is entirely up to you, but having support can make all the difference.

Lots of love,Jamilyn

[mental-health-advice]

Do you know how to find an anon's IP adress if you already answered their question? Someone sent me an anonymous ask and they know me in person. I'm freaking out. I can't eat or sleep for days. I don't even want to see any of my friends because this anon could be any of them. I don't know how they found me or why they even had the hard to work to find out if I had an account on tumblr. I have no idea how they found me. I can't stop thinking about who it could be. I feel so exposed and ashamed.

Hey there, love :)

I'm so sorry this happened and you feel exposed. It's not a good feeling. Did the person say personal things about you that you haven't disclosed on your Tumblr, or did they just say they knew you in person? I only ask because they could just be bluffing and don't really know you in person.. in which case, they are probably just trying to get a rise out of you and don't really know you in person.

Sadly, Tumblr has disabled any relatively simple way to find out someone’s IP address. I don’t know of any way that does not rely on external tools. Here’s what I do: I have downloaded a Firefox Add-On called “IP Address Lookup”, which let’s me highlight any web-address and then check the IP and location for that site via a right-click menu. There are other add-ons that do the same thing, for Firefox and for Chrome, so I’m sure you’ll find something that works for you :)

Obviously, this doesn’t work for anons, though, since you don’t know their blog’s address. For that, you’d have to install an IP tracker to your blog, for example, statcounter. This will track everyone who visits your blog, I kind of think it’s quite a violation of privacy. Also, a lot of trolls use proxys to obfuscate their IPs, so you might not always get the actual IP.

I hope this helps.. and try not to fret too much, darling <3

Lots of love,Jamilyn

[mental-health-advice]

Hello :) I sent in, I think it was a 3 part ask, about a week or two ago. It had to do with gender identity, and I think I signed it as 'Razberry'. I was wondering if it was answered or in the inbox waiting to be answered. I wanted to make sure tumblr didn't eat it up. Thank you ^^

Hello, love :)

We do have your three part ask, and it should be answered within the next day or two! Thank you for being so patient with us :)

Lots of love,Jamilyn