It's pride month and as a proud AroAce I feel compelled to share all of my aspec headcanons.
Narancia: My token sex and romance repulsed AroAce. If you ever wondered why I don't ship Fugonara it's because Narancia is deeply put off by the idea of being even in a qpr; he loves his freedom and abundance of friendship. I think he's very physical with his friends but I wouldn't necessarily call him affectionate, like he enjoys the contact and casual leaning and touching and poking and shoving and cuddling, but I think the moment anything other than tactile nonsexual affection gets involved, he gets various levels of cagey. A kiss on the cheek or forehead? He'll live. Might even get used to it and appreciate it for what it is, but it's not his preferred means of affection. A little peck on the lips? Yeah, someone's getting politely shoved off. Hand-holding only works if the other person is okay with him playing with their hand constantly, otherwise it's a bit too boring and restrictive for him. Tries to keep his distance from both romance and sex but if he's in the vicinity of a conversation regarding the two, he will silently glare and make disgruntled noises out of courtesy but not jump in. He knows people are weird and care about these things, and who is he to judge?
Giorno: Demiromantic asexual, but functionally AroAce, because he doesn’t really obey traditional romance and doesn’t care to, and it just works completely different for him. Very cat-like when he experiences romantic attraction or when he's being generally affectionate aka sometimes being an asshole is a love language <33. Knows less about sex and romance than he's willing to ever admit, but who can blame him when it was never relevant to him in the slightest and any sort of cultural imprint of romance completely missed him. Would prefer a qpr because his romance attraction comes and goes and there's less pressure to perform it in a specific way.
Mista: Grayace aromantic, and perfectly comfortable in that. Experiences moments of AttractionTM but it's like spice of life to him rather than anything to chase and latch onto once it happens. Isn't a stranger to fwb and hook-ups but, again, it's a spice of life rather than a need, and a lot of it is probably dedicated to kink anyway, so sex isn't guaranteed. Has an appreciation for love and romance in general (has a soft spot for romcoms and a degree of cheeziness), but doesn't need it for himself, as much as he thinks it's beautiful for others. Unlike Narancia, definitely up for a qpr if it feels right, but wouldn't rush into it just like that, it's a very deliberate decision on his part. Poly, but would be okay in a monogamous qpr if his partner preferred that. Overall just in love with the human condition and the experiences that come with it, so he'll give what he's comfortable with and take what's being offered.
Fugo: An AlloAro icon, who actually loves the structure and sense of officiality of relationships. Once he’s developed a close enough bond with someone, he’d be down to enter a queerplatonic/romantic relationship if asked, he just loves his people and would love to show it to them in a more formal union. Doesn't think about romance on his own nearly at all and thinks a lot of the culture around it to be weird and incomprehensible, but isn't bothered by it. Is half-convinced it's not real and is just a scam people fall for, but it would be rude to say that out loud. Can be shockingly affectionate, though, once given proper instructions for what's allowed and expected and given space and freedom to figure out what feels right to him, but if those conditions aren't met he's a bit stiff about both giving and receiving at first. Generally not that physical, but can be trained through positive reinforcement. Has a handful of gestures he absolutely adores (hand-holding specifically. Very soothing for him) and doesn't have any restrictions for whom he can do them with. Also poly; might've wistfully daydreamed about being in a (nonspecified) relationship with all his closest people a few times, but then remembered he can be just as attentive and loving as a friend and was suddenly cool with it.
Sheila E: AlloAce but is the most aro-coded person in this group of aros, which is to say her idea of romance is so specific and fundamentally more internal than externally observable that it doesn't register that she could possibly be alloromantic from the outside, the fact she could most likely live without any serious romantic involvement not helping in not confusing the enemy. Views crushes and love as something deeply private that's nobody's business but hers, if she has a crush on someone, it has nothing to do with them in fact, so they better not ask her about it. Very much asexual but so strong on sensual attraction that if things are communicated well, she's favorable to negotiations, otherwise bears some levels of distaste over how sex is portrayed and regarded in society and tends to avoid the topic because of it, but at the core deeply neutral towards anything sexual, it's just a thing that exists and exists for a reason. Has a pretty clear idea what sort of affections she seeks, but has relatively strict limits for what she's open to doing with friends, if you wanna get to the real fluff, you need a promotion to partnership.
Murolo: This is a aromantic gay man to me who doesn’t get romance, has zero desire to learn but bears a natural inkling to poke fun at people in love. It’s more so out of unease than mockery though, he just cannot comprehend why anyone would do that, but he’s in his 30s so he’s already learned that people do not appreciate unsolicited comments regarding their love life. He also has a fear of commitment, so no qpr for this fine gentleman.