#about;damon

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Delena is what's on the show so I just think if you throw around how canon you are then you why not ship delena when people ask that's all

                   "Famous last words?”

       Deep, cleansing breath, “Well, I feel better.”

[damonstevedore]

Damon’s Mobile Rules

1. No NSFW content with minors, ever. That means NO YOUNGER than 18, + the higher legal age in your country. No smut, no romance, no violence, no gore. No exceptions.

2. I have a full-time and a part-time job, I’m swamped. I’ll respond when I can, k?

3. Damon is canon.

4. That means he’s also straight, with the exception of Dalaric.

5. He’s also a bitchy, snarky, mean girl.

6. And dangerous as all get out, so please don’t poke him if you don’t want a fight.

7. I ship canon ships, plus chemistry if the ship makes sense to me. No ships that end in ‘cest’.

8. I’m happy to turn asks into threads! Provided the person who does it doesn’t just reblog the ask. Please make a new thread and tag me, and I’ll love you forever.

9. I block for: Forcing ships, guilting, attention seeking, vague blogging, callouts and general disruption of my happy place.

10. Following back: I only follow back once we’ve written together and I can see some chemistry. That’s just to keep my dash clear.

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THIS QUIZ WILL REVEAL THE CREEPIEST THING ABOUT YOU

You Are An Emotionally Volatile Nightmare

Your heart guides you and sometimes that's not as dreamy or romantic as it might sound. It's true that your feelings often inspire you to heal and create, and as long as those feelings don't steer you wrong, you're capable of truly visionary accomplishments in the name of empathy and love.

Feelings, though, aren't always gentle and sweet. You know that better than anyone, because your own emotions - the same overwhelming forces that inspire you to make the world a better place - can take you to very dark places, especially if you believe that the subject of your ire has shown unwarranted cruelty toward you or something you hold dear. You know that your feelings aren't necessarily rational, but that doesn't stop you from dramatically blaming other people for causing you pain. Of course, you might not even stop at crying; that notoriously brilliant creativity might even spur you to express your wrath artistically - nothing says “emotional stability” like a morose, vengeful poem.

Tagged; stolen from @allroundlostcause

Tagging: @jedicollins @iwannadogirlystuff @destroyedbyguilt @wildtm & you <3

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RP Christmas Wishlist

              We all have wishlists, things we'd love to write but for some reason or other we don't get the chance. Well, no time like the present to change that, right? List at least TEN things you've had on your RP wishlist that you'd like to make happen in 2019. REPOST, DO NOT REBLOG!

Tagged by: Made it up, so no one. Tagging: @iwannadogirlystuff @destroyedbyguilt @agilbertslife @samattheend @allroundlostcause @choosingtogodownswinging @wildtm @quotesravens @jedicollins @strcngerthanyouknow Anyone who wants to do it, but tag me as 'tagged by' so I can stalk your answers. <3

Damon & Elena visiting the Salvatore School with their own children.

I’d like to play Damon as bad-tempered, hot headed and dangerous as he really is. Compelling folks,lying through his teeth, being violent when it suits him. General bad behavior.

Threads without romantic ships. I’m not anti-romance, but my vampire really shouldn’t be putting a ring on every muse to wander past. Part of the reason I have so few threads is that the plots I’m approached with are nearly always ship plots.

Group verses that aren’t AUs.

Moar crossovers with the likes of Buffy, Supernatural and Teen Wolf.

Damon getting his ass kicked by hunters and slayers.  He’s fast, but he’s no prize fighter.

Broship things, specifically Bamon and Samon.

Plots set earlier in Damon’s canon timeline. Civil War, 1930s, WWII, 1970s, etc.

Moar Dalaric.

More Damon & Stefan stink eye.

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SHIPPING INFO MEME

Answer the following for your muse so people know how shipping works on your blog.

WHAT IS YOUR OTP FOR YOUR CHARACTER?:

I’ve only got the one ship on this blog. *bats eyelashes @allroundlostcause​* I love a good Dalaric. I don’t know that I have another ship for Damon that I’m invested in.

WHAT ARE YOU WILLING TO WRITE WHEN IT COMES TO SHIPPING?

Anything I write has to have at least one foot firmly in show canon, or I’m just not interested. I won’t change Damon for a ship or a plot, and I don’t do AUs.

HOW LARGE DOES THE AGE GAP HAVE TO BE TO MAKE IT UNCOMFORTABLE?

Age is skewed for a vampire, clearly. Nothing underage, even though that actually seems to be a canon thing. Sorry, show, this is where we part ways.

ARE YOU SELECTIVE WHEN SHIPPING?

The worst, most selective person.

HOW FAR DO STEAMY MOMENTS HAVE TO GO BEFORE THEY ARE CONSIDERED NSFW?

As soon as it’s barely NSFW, it gets tagged.

WHO ARE OTHER CHARACTERS YOU SHIP YOUR CHARACTER WITH

Well, I ship the canon ships because they’re canon. That’s actually it.

DOES ONE HAVE TO ASK TO SHIP WITH YOU?:

I don’t plot ships, I just let Damon make up his own mind.

HOW OFTEN DO YOU LIKE TO SHIP?

I’m not too fussed over it

ARE YOU SHIP OBSESSED OR SHIP MORE-OR-LESS?:

Less.

ARE YOU MULTISHIP?

I am!

WHAT IS/ARE YOUR FAVOURITE SHIP(S) IN YOUR CURRENT FANDOM?:

Dalaric, so long as it’s rooted in show canon..

FINALLY, HOW DOES ONE SHIP WITH YOU?:

Once again, I don’t plot ships. Damon decides who he likes and who he doesn’t.

tagged by; I stoled it from @allroundlostcause

tagging: ey, do the thing and tag me back so I can read!

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Alaric: "Tell him I love him." Jeremy: "He says he loves you." Damon: "Ric would never say that." Alaric: "Tell him, 'ditto'!" Jeremy: "What's 'ditto'?" Damon:

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How did Damon and Alaric climb over their mountain of baggage and finally get together?

           Ay caramba, that’s a good question. The short answer is, ‘they haven’t, yet’. The medium answer is that, sometimes, feelings and need are so strong that they’ll plow right through your baggage like the Kool-Aid Man through your mom’s kitchen wall on a hot, summer day.

The long answer is that they’re working on it. They’re both so loaded up with baggage that it causes a meltdown every other second, but they also love each other and it’s strong enough to deal with some of that.

                    Damon’s a child, really. He’s pissy and prissy, he makes fun of you and kicks his feet when he doesn’t want to do something but the real problem is that you have to love him very hard before he can feel it. He’s a child of abuse and neglect, he’s played second fiddle and ‘bad brother’ to Stefan for over a century and he flat out doesn’t know how to be around people because he can have whatever he wants, thanks to his vampire eyeballs so he doesn’t trust affection and he doesn’t feel the need to walk the line. He needs constant attention, for his head to constantly be pet and constant reassurance but he also needs boundaries.

         A problem with his relationship with Elena is that she failed to set him firm, non-negotiable boundaries and let him off the hook for horrible things. This is not anti-Delena on any level, I’m a big Elena lover and will put up my dukes and fight you over her pure af heart, but there are just some things that are canonly true.

                   One of those things is that Ric has done more to humanize and socialize Damon to the human world around him than anyone else has. He was able to get through to Damon when his own brother couldn’t, he provided a solid, steady friendship and a smack on the ass when Damon acted like a shit. He, also, forgave things he shouldn’t have but he did expect more from Damon and Damon, to an extent, delivered.

         At the moment, in the verses where Damon and Ric are together, it’s an on-going process. They’re still learning to be honest, learning to trust and learning more about their partner as time goes by. It’s not perfect, no ship with Damon will ever not have a fuckton of pitfalls, but it’s a process. We have to be honest about these two, the very idea that either Damon Salvatore or Alaric Saltzman is highly shippable is absolute nonsense. Not in a healthy, long-term way, at least. This is something they have to work on every day, and it’s still never going to be a romance novel or a romcom. And Damon’s pretty straight, so there’s that. Love is love, though, right? Even if one guy is a mild-mannered teacher and the other guy is a murderous fiend - which Damon is. Look at his outfit.