if it's alright with you, could you elaborate your sexuality hcs on willow? not trying to be rude or anything, but i can't say im familiar with some of the labels you used for her! and google isn't very reliable
Sure! I'll list most of them just in case, since you didn't specify which ones.
Oriented aroace: An aroace individual who experiences a form of tertiary attraction that they feel is significant enough to warrant a place alongside their aroace orientation.
The tertiary attraction can be anything (platonic, sensual, aesthetic, alterous, queerplatonic, etc), and in my headcanon for Willow it's queerplatonic attraction.
Queerplatonic relationship: The best explanation for it is that platonic and romantic are like the gender binary, and queerplatonic is like non-binary genders. Some are somewhere in between the binary options, some are both, and some are neither/completely outside the binary. Some can't or choose not to define what exactly their gender or relationship is (or is similar to). It's meant to queer the idea of what a relationship is supposed to be, so there are no rules, the individuals involved decide what the relationship is like.
Queerplatonic attraction is the desire to be in a QPR with someone in particular.
Abro: Refers to someone whose orientation is changing or fluid. Someone may change between mono (gay, lesbian, etc) and multi (bi, pan, etc) orientations, between being allo and being on the a-spectrum of the given type of attraction, etc. The gender(s) one is attracted to typically change, and the intensity of attraction or the way one feels attraction may change as well. Some abro individuals may be fluid between all or a large range of orientations, while others may only be fluid between a few.
My headcanon for Willow is that her queerplatonic attraction changes between pan and lesbian. Sometimes she's pan, sometimes a lesbian.
(Pan and lesbian don't need to be explained separately, but I'll add an explanation for the combined label)
Pan-lesbian: This label can be used for multiple reasons, such as using "lesbian" as an umbrella term (which it originally was), using the Split Attraction Model (being homoromantic pansexual, panromantic homosexual, or experiencing pan and/or lesbian tertiary attraction), being a pan person who prefers non-men, or having changing/fluctuating attraction.
In the case of my Willow headcanon, it's the last one.
Ambiamorous: Someone who is able to enjoy both monoamorous and polyamorous relationships, with little to no preference between the two.
