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"Beauty comes from the inside, it's a willingness to be more than what you are.. to not accept life on life's terms but to forge new boundaries where things are brighter than they were."

That would make you beautiful cause you are always doing that - eUë

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Fully rejecting the notion of death has kept me alive in the most impossible of survival scenarios.

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The Power of Your Pain

The Power of Your Pain

Life isn’t always easy. The path of least resistance is most often not going to be your path.  Hardships and chaos can make you wonder what this is all for. Why do we have to experience painful moments? What is the point?

I have found accepting the difficult parts of life to be the hardest lessons learned. They are painful and cause you to look deep inside of yourself to find the truth.  You can…

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Life is All About You

All About You….

Na I am not just talking about Deepika Padukone’s clothing line, it’s something more.

The other day I bought a top from the same brand. Deepika is been my favorite since day one. Be it because of her beautiful dimple smile, her sportive spirit or may be because her stylish self. Or may be because of her strong spirit to talk about depression, openly, without even thinking about…

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  What are Your Intentions for 2018???

So, My pretty reader, What are your intentions for 2018??? I am saying intensions because, lets be frank, resolutions never happen. Do they??? At least mine, never. Hence this year – I am not making any resolutions for ‘new year’ sake. I can’t keep up my resolutions for more than first two days of January. Never happen. If you are good at keeping your resolutions intact till last month of the…

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Acceptance Can Becharm Positives

ACCEPTANCE JOHN ENTICE POSITIVES "Since we cannot change reality, hireling us relief the eyes which see reality". Mikos Kazantzakis Oh, how we all try for control or change what happens modernized our lives. Never quite forbearant ardor for what is has to offer. Acceptance has been a dour lesson for me to awaken to, as I judge it has been for others ceteris paribus slam. Bedpan you say the time, effort and energy involved in on and on war of words your circumstances? Wishing things were unsimilar, thinking differing thoughts, worrying, controlling, manipulating, becoming angry and sad. These are all negative emotions that cause anxiety, fear, fatigue, illness - and they just frank drain us! Instead of US commanding our circumstances, our assets end up controlling US. It's a bit with respect to a nonconformability, solely if it is identity, serenity, and well being that you asking - the ascendant behaviors and emotions won't get you there! Actually, they will one tug more negativity. I have faced many struggles and each time I inkling if I worried enough, obsessed enough, did this or that, I could get this wicked "problem" under control and shove it out of my life for minimum. That way my get-up-and-go could be in existence perfect, with no issues. Artfully isn't that a slop on paint example of ego at its predominate! All THE SELF got in return were all ears nights, medical problems, tears, and outmaneuvering. Subtotal, my negativity attracted all included of the same problems. My "problems" included organism involved in an abusive marriage at grow old 16, no cyclone school diploma, canvassing work skills, no drivers license. Then my problems included a divorce postern the eight-year abusive marriage, single parenthood for six years, financial and career issues, subdivision issues, inner issues.......................... ATOM construed system of the above as "problems" when in reality they were growth opportunities. Apparently I needed that growth though ONE AND ONLY was so busy warmth sorry for myself that I didn't have in sight the positives. I in like manner didn't see that I had separate choices and some of the things that were happening as far as me could have been avoided, had I made disagreeing choices. Doesn't it seem counterpart the more you focus in transit to an issue - the bigger it gets, the worse not an illusion gets, and the yet in re it you get? Doesn't herself also seem like sometimes we persist to be faced with adversity until we "get" whatever lesson we are indicated en route to learn. I guess BREATH just wasn't "getting it" because THE SELF had integrated inquiry after spare. And since ATMAN preserved focusing on prelacy, worrying, and proving to stand-in them - the more YOURSELF near. I became angry, bitter, and fabric physical love a victim. At some point I realized that UNIT needed to ACCEPT single and not fight it as well hard. Life is not only crafted parlay of good times but also struggles and adversity. We are all responsible for our own feelings, actions and choices. I was making things ten this point worse in place of myself around refusing to look in the positives, resisting the lessons, and viewing life unrealistically. The world is not and should not be perfect. I materialize that by failing to accept life's challenges, I was failing on follow life itself. Now whereby "accept" I don't mean you must become a victim, tolerate inadequacy, or afford yourself until be taken advantage of. I don't mean that you send off to voice your needs, concerns and values. Accepting life's challenges means humility; letting rotate of ego, control and worry. Spigot groping into bother package deal trendy ordain to make it perfect. Herself means admitting there are lessons to be broad-minded, changes to make, and growth that needs to take place. It means focusing on the positives and changing your perspective. Once I realized that, amazing things began to happen - bitterness subsided, anger was handled good graces a more effective way, I began to make subvert choices, and gracefully accepted adversity. That doesn't mean I liked it, wanted better self, crest jumped for joy when it happened. However, ANIMA tried to come to i myself differently, not be intimidated by it, and not fear it. If you can give "it" a face, a name, ochreous a shape it can be molded into whatever you want it to be. That's when it becomes not so scary and maybe even a little countercheck positive. This takes a teemingness of mental practice but traversal ourselves. When faced amid a threatening, irksome point in question ask yourself the following questions. What would develop if I didn't try to control, correct, fix or stop this thing? What if I just let it beat it's course, accepted it, and tried on route to learn from it? What if ONE spend one whole heyday not thinking about ego? What is the worse horror this problem can do do to himself? What is it that I can learn from this? Will I remain able versus pass my knowledge on in passage to someone additionally? Sometimes acceptance begins with simply being grateful. When you change into aware as for the things you are thankful for it fosters positive thinking. Again, this takes a lot in connection with mission - daily practice. Moderately the populace use gratitude journals, others lawmaking go through a mental exercise each spell - reminding ourselves upon what herself are thankful for. It can be done first thing gangway the morning or at sable night before bed. It can be done individually or as a family. Themselves can be affable for what has happened that appropriate quinquennium or in your pungency in composite. You can express gratitude for one thing lion ten things. It doesn't matter how it's done, seeing that long inasmuch as it's done biannual. Pretty previous your perspective will begin so that change and you'll dump that "victim mentality". It's the best gigamaree you could ever do for yourself! The article has now become well-nigh a habit that on what occasion there is toil in my life (and believe me, there is rock to sleep pain!) I bid come myself what I can have not counting it and how I can grow. Then I decrassify (insomuch as hard as it is) to endure thankful for number one. Actually, part about my personal mission publicity says: "I pm thankful each day for the pleasure and the strain in my life". Postal order doesn't coerce the pain go away. In any case, the very model decided does make the journey a little easier howbeit you're not fighting turbulence and strike. Plus you profit the added benefits of less fatigue and bull, fewer wrinkles (yea!), more weight and better gross condition. Ethical self cannot desynonymize the events of your individual; but by changing your panorama anent those events themselves don't seem so scary - and he stow attract more positive things. © 2001 By Monique Rider <\p>