#acknowlegement

[haleyincarnate]

Quote by Syrah Kai

[b0bthebuilder35]

[jaubaius]

Hypocritical cat?

[aestheteinreverie]

I think a lot of us try to ignore the fact that falling out of love is indeed real. It's not pretty, and it involves hurt and pain, but it happens. Trying to stay with someone, forcing yourself to not acknowledge how you feel in spite of knowing it, is not "working towards it"; it's unfair to all parties involved. Yes, on a bad day when you are not feeling like engaging with them, you make a conscious choice to love them still. But if something in your dynamic has permanently changed, you need to acknowledge that. It's not fair to you or who you are with if you bottle up what you have been feeling. If you think there's room for discussion to make things better, that's great. If you know there isn't, walk out. They deserve better and so do you. Love will find you again.

[thought-but-not-said]

What stops you from healing?

I was stopping myself from healing because nobody around me acknowledged my pain and my unwell being. I had to learn for myself how to acknowledge everything I‘ve felt and have gone through to start my healing process. It’s important to know that you have to make yourself happy and not the people around you.

So go ahead and try to understand more about your life, have a read about your mental illness or what other people in your state of mind do and have gone through. Trust me that you have to understand yourself first for things to get better. You will be so much more gentle and understanding and kind to yourself. Knowing that you were doing your best and now you know how you can do better, that’s where healing begins.

[undressmd]

[mufti-ismail-menk]

Don’t be upset when your work is not acknowledged. It’s human nature to want recognition. Sometimes even a thank you will suffice. But it may not be forthcoming. The Almighty knows what you’ve done and how much effort and sacrifice went into it. Isn’t that the best thing for you?

[modulated-emotions]

How can you acknowledge something and admit you forgot like it never happened?