#adlais

[oopsalltes]

happy accomplice ending day i guess.

[serenartblog]

My mordremvari Adlais’ in-game appearance. Even after Mordremoth’s death and his appearance turns somewhat normal again, he still refuses to show his face and keeps his body covered with a heavy coat at all times.

[adahlenan]

/opens wallet

look at these photos of my kids

[fairysharkmother]

Adiais, you said you quit smoking, do you have any tips for people trying to quit smoking and struggling with it?

Hi lovely anon, 

Honestly, I quit cold turkey because of how badly smoking effected the control of my asthma. 

The thing that made me quit was the fear of more asthma attacks, and it shocked me into quitting. 

A great way to motivate quitting is to work out how much money it will save you in a month. Nicotine patches/gum will work for a lot of people, however they are also quite expensive! 

Here are 13 ‘top tips’ from web MD. http://www.webmd.boots.com/smoking-cessation/ss/slideshow-13-best-stop-smoking-tips-ever-slideshow

Its a very hard habit to break, but a worthwhile venture. It will have ups and downs, but try to stay positive even when you give in. 

Good Luck! 

Adlais x

[fairysharkmother]

My husband wants children, and his side of the family is mostly encouraging us to, but I am deathly terrified of child birth and pregnancy. I hate kids, and have no idea how to handle them beyond feeding them. I'm also paranoid, get stressed easily and have the occasional mental breakdown... My husband also doesn't seem to understand how truly big it is to be a parent. I fear that I wouldn't be able to handle the responsibility, or be too selfish to give up my childless freedom. Any advice?

Darling, 

You need to wait until you feel ready (if ever!) to have a child. Childbirth and pregnancy are hard to go through, and if you do not feel ready it can be difficult. 

Talk to your husband, tell him your concerns and how drastically it will change your lives. 

Please feel free to message me on my personal blog (auntiekarla), its a conversation i have had to do before and am happy to help in anyway i can.

Good luck, 

Adlais x

[fairysharkmother]

Momma I've started smoking again after I quit 2 years ago. I'm scared to tell my significant other because they'll be disappointed in me, but I just stopped caring about myself and about being healthy. I feel like I'm letting them down by keeping this from them.

Darling, 

Quitting smoking is hard, I quit almost 3 years ago and still have cravings every day. 

Be open and honest with your partner, explain the reasons you feel you went back to smoking, they will understand. 

If you would like to quit again, see if you can work on it together. 

Good luck, 

Adlais x

[fairysharkmother]

I feel really stuck I have to choose my subjects for year 10 and everything Im interested in my dad keeps saying is pointless and it's making it so much harder I don't know what to do

Darling, 

I had the same problem with my mother when i picked my GCSEs. 

You need to do what YOU enjoy. Your dad isn’t the one who needs to study that many subjects! I know its hard now, but you will enjoy your time much more if you do the subjects you would like to do instead of what you were pressured to do! 

Remind your dad you still need to do the basics (English, Maths, Science, sometimes a language) and those are the ones future employers will look for. 

Enjoy your GCSEs, they are where the real fun starts! 

Good luck, 

Adlais x

[fairysharkmother]

I'm considering having an abortion... But the thing is I'm conflicted because while politically I'm pro choice for my own personal body I seem to levitate towards pro life. I'm still in university and the dad is working on his masters but he works as well so I think I'd feel bad that while things wouldn't be perfect they'd be doable and unlike so many women I have no real reason to actually get an abortion. I'm just scared and I know this makes no sense but I have no one to talk to about this..

Darling, 

If you feel comfortable, Please PM me on my private account, auntiekarla. I have some personal experience that might help to talk through with you.

Dont forget, you have to do what is right for you, not for everyone else. 

Adlais x