#admin: kat

[never-to-be-homeless]

Hey gabe. Its rochelle. So I came out to my mom and it didn't go so well. She told me we would talk abt it later. And she still won't let me cut my hair (i'm gonna do it anyway)and she's basically ignoring what i told her. To her I'm still a cis(1/2)

Girl. But it hurts to be misgendered so much. Going into the women’s restroom is so hard. I hate looking in the mirror and seeing someone so feminine. It looks so wrong. Idk. I’m stupid. (2/2) ~rochelle

Hey there, Rochelle.

Hon, there’s nothing wrong with the way you feel. It’s completely understandable and even normal for the situation you’re in. It’s not fair of your mom to not accept you the way you are, and I’m sorry to hear about it.

If she doesn’t make the effort to talk about it “later” with you, you could try bringing it up again, or maybe going to a more supportive family member. And for now, just remember that you are whoever it is that you are, no explanation necessary. Stay strong, kiddo.

Your angel, Gabriel

[never-to-be-homeless]

hi Dean, Luka here. I told you a while ago that my mom is taking me to a psychologist. And she didn't, because she was busy with work. And now, well... She is taking me soon, but the psychologist is in the church. She freaking works with them. (1/?)

and I’m scared, cause I don’t believe in God, as I told you. And I do not want to go to religion in school and to church and I almost had a breakdown in school and almost relapsed but I’m okay now I guess.

Hey there, Luka.

Is your therapist working for the church, or are they just religious? Hopefully the latter, because that shouldn’t affect your counseling. But if it’s the former, you need to be careful. Ask the therapist whether or not the information you share is confidential and be careful. It sucks that your mom didn’t take you to someone less personal but this may turn out okay, so don’t give up.

Not believing in God is still your choice, and it’s still okay. I’m glad you didn’t relapse. Stay strong for me, kiddo. I’m here for you.

Sincerely, Dean W.

[never-to-be-homeless]

Hey, this is E. I usually talk to Dean, but this can go to anyone. So I'm working as a lifeguard this summer, and it's my first job. I'm actually really excited about this. But my supervisor just texted me asking if I can work this weekend because it's Memorial Day weekend. And now I'm nervous. I can't tell if its normal nerves or my anxiety, but either way, I need to deal with it by this weekend. I've only met my manager, and no one else, so I have no idea who I'm working with yet. (1/2)

I still haven’t decided if getting rx sunglasses are worth it, because they’re really expensive, but I’m not totally blind without glasses. But I don’t know if my vision is good enough to work without them. And I’m worried I’m going to screw something up. I have a friend who’s in her second year as a lifeguard, and she’s said that everyone is really nice, and I know I’m not going to get in trouble if I mess up my first day. But I’m still really nervous. I need to get over this!

Hey there, E. 

A little pre-job anxiety is normal. I get it. Anxiety hits us all. But you’re going to be okay. Things almost never turn out as scary as we think they will and I’m sure you’re be surrounded by a supportive group of people who will help you out. After all, it’s your first day. They’re not expecting you to walk in and know everything.

Also, good on you for looking out for other people. It’s a great job to have. Hang in there!

Sincerely, Dean W.