#advice suggestions

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Roll back your shoulders and breathe, I don't think you realize how stiff they've become over the years. You're in a safer space now, even if it's just you now

[advicesuggestions]

Good evening everyone, I'm back after a year (or so) hiatus.

Did you miss me? I mean, especially after what happened with Covid/Pandemic lockdown/post-covid living, surely someone's looking for some positivity and/or advice. Well, i'm happy to say that i'll be doing just that!

Also I'm going by a new name, K. My inbox will be open for anyone to ask questions, advice, or just some banter. Before I get back fully into the swing of things, just know that no matter what the world may have thrown at you, You're incredible for being alive. Thank you for sticking around. I hope one day you'll smile at your reflection [again].

-Mod K

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For all of the gay men out there, your sexuality is so valid!! Don't let anyone shame you for liking men.

Men are beautiful and you have a right to be attracted them! You aren't someone's "uwu soft yaoi boi" or "hyper masculine manly man who can't be into feminine stuff", you are you and that's really cool!

Wear your flag with pride today because you deserve it just as much as everyone does. (also, make sure to punch a "yaoi shipper" and homophobe today :>)

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For all of the lesbians today, your sexuality is so valid!! Don't let anyone shame you for liking women

Women are gorgeous and you have a right to be in love with them!! it isn't a "sin" to be in love with women, you don't need to be "convinced" or anything like that, you are you and that's great!!

You should wear your flag with pride today like anyone else! Also, make sure to punch a homophobe today!

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You are beautiful just they way you are, I promise

You are beautiful just they way you are, I promise

You are beautiful just they way you are, I promise

You are beautiful just they way you are, I promise

You are beautiful just they way you are, I promise

You are beautiful just they way you are, I promise

You are beautiful just they way you are, I promise

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Good morning/evening everyone! I've decided to open up submissions! I figured that it's been a long time coming, so please if you have any type of advice you'd like to share upon the world, feel free to send my way!!

(If you'd like to have a little neat sign off, also lmk in your submission! it'll be used as a way to track your past advices. All submissions will be anonymous by default)

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hello friend, im in need of ur help. this is love advice tho so if u dont do that pls js let me know that u dont in response to this.

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here goes, SO i go to a sports club. its mixed boys and girls in it. i wont specify which sport i play, reason being that some of the players MIGHT be on tumblr.

but pls know that i am a 15 years-old girl, confused and in need of advice. anyways, i met a guy. we are simply 'friends' but lately ive been catching feelings for him. i mean its easy to do so - wouldnt be surprised if there were ten other girls inlove with him.

describing him: in my point of view TOUCHY (as my friend has said once when she got paired up w him for something) POSITIVE (youll never see him not smiling) COMFORTING (if u make mistakes on a game - he'll do everything to comfort u) DREAMY (he's out of a book.)

I like him a WHOLE LOT. and my friends all say that he likes me too for obvious reasons but do u think he does like me? and what should i do next?

heres how it started:

In a match where I was js SOO close to panicking during a time out, he held my hands and shaked them to loosen me up then ruffled my hair. it WAS seen on camera that was behind us. ive caught him looking at me a few times. when i talk to him and im sitting and hes standing, he leans down to me and im basically looking at him upwards while hes leaning down. he NEVER ever misses the chance to say hi, hello or talk to me. he texted me and reassured me of how well i played one time when i got home, one thing that struck by me was him going "its ok bubs" (i COULD NOT sleep that night)

most recent one that kept me up all night 2 nights in a row: he asked me for a hug?! i said no as a joke but he still hugged me anyway.. while teasing me .

reading this ik that it sounds like im sure he likes me but i really am not. my friend said that when they were posing tgt for a pageant he pulled her closer so im not sure if hes js touchy w everyone or if he likes me or if im going delusional.

thoughts? what should i do next?

thank you SOOOOOOO much

I hope this doesn't come off as rude, but I couldn't help but chuckle a bit at your story. It's honestly so wholesome to read through. I don't mind answering love advice questions, I'm here to answer any question to the best of my abilities.

There's key points in your story that leads me to believe that he might be a little bit more interested in you than you think. Sure, he may just be an affectionate person and just generally nice to everyone, but have you seen him do the same things to you to anyone else?

If not, chances are your suspensions are correct in that he likes you.

I've watched people try and explain the "mind of a teenage boy/boys in general" and there's always been the consistency of; keeping their emotions covered from others, giving undivided attention (teasing) to those worthy of so, finding someone to confine themselves with so that they to be more honest, things like that.

In terms of what to do next? Decide whether or not that potential relationship is something you want to pursue. Sometimes relationships are just better left as friends, Sometimes they're waiting for you to make the move. Hopefully this could help you and your situation!

-K