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It’s interesting that I have queer friends who said ‘we need more queer jokes’ and aren’t bothered at all by the dialogue in Sherlock and then there are Johnlockers who get so pissed off about it. Maybe it’s shipper perspective that’s the problem here…
do you find it interesting? really? let me tell you an interesting story then:
when i first came out to my friends that i was bisexual, one of them IMMEDIATELY made "clam digging" jokes for several hours with accompanying hand gestures of "clams rubbing" while everyone laughed like it was the pinnacle of comedy. because i am the only queer person in the friend group, i had to sit there and laugh along. that was really fun and interesting to be a part of.
i then had to come out AGAIN several months later because my guy friends assumed i was just ~kidding around~ and trying to be "one of the guys" every time i discussed girls with them. not only that, i had to argue with them that bisexuality is legitimate, which was a super fulfilling and interesting discussion. guess what super hilarious joke got brought back up? once again, i had to sit there and laugh along.
in a shocking turn of events, a few months after that, i had to tell one of my friends AGAIN that i was bisexual, because apparently he had totally forgot the 2 other nights he'd spent coining the really interesting and hilarious clam digging joke. but the best and most interesting joke came later, when someone asked me if i was "still a miss, or is it mister now?"
so, full offense, but i've had my fill of gay jokes for a lifetime. especially ones where i am singled out as the punchline.
but i really do appreciate your super patronizing tone in assuming i only ship things for the visual stimulation and not because i am suffering from a drought of characters that could possibly represent me and people like me.
feel free to totally ignore my blog and my completely legitimate complaints from here on out, i don't mind.